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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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#1
 2007-06-09, 07:53 |
jackdaniels 
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 I'm not sure what I should do.
Alright, so, a week ago my girlfriend broke up with me. I really liker her a lot. I mean, I cried for 4 days. Not all day, just when I thought about it. So, today I was talking to her, and she said she still likes me. She broke up with me because she still likes her ex. She likes both of us so she won't date either of us. Her friend has been telling me that she has something to tell me for 2 days, but she still has to talk to some chick, which she won't tell me who or what it's about. So she might be trying to get her friend to go back out with me but I don't know.
So, I like this other chick too. And I don't know if she likes me or not. She gave me her number yesterday on the last day of school when she signed my yearbook. She put, "let's keep in touch.***-****". She's told me she thinks I'm hot like 20 thousand times, and she's always telling me I'm funny and shit.
So now I'm kind of in a bind here because I don't know which one I should persue. I mean, I don't want to make the other chick think I want to date her, and then get back together with my ex, because that wouldn't be right.
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#2
2007-06-09, 08:08 |
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Re: I'm not sure what I should do.
Well heres my solution. If you dont think it's fair to get get the other chicks hopes up, and then shut them down again when you get back with your ex, then simply dont get back with your ex? You are in a bit of a tight corner mate, has your ex done this sort of thing to you before, and how long ago did she break up with her other boyfriend?
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#3
2007-06-09, 08:18 |
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Re: I'm not sure what I should do.
She sounds like a fussy self centered bitch. Whatever you do don't go running after her. Wait it out a bit and see what happens.
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#4
2007-06-09, 09:11 |
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Re: I'm not sure what I should do.
^ Uneccesary.
Just roll with it. If your ex dumped you, then thats too bad for her.
If you think this new bird my be worth pursuing, by all means go nuts!
Cheers
Mojo Savage
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#5
2007-06-09, 10:37 |
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Re: I'm not sure what I should do.
I don't really know if this is fair, but you seem like a troll.
Crying? That's what happens when you're deep in love with a girl.. You're thinking about a new one already, you're certainly not in love.
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#6
2007-06-09, 18:45 |
jackdaniels
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Re: I'm not sure what I should do.
Fuck you I don't troll. I don't have time for trolling. Not only that, in my opinion, trolling is pretty immature. I think it's something that if you are older than 12, and you still do, you need to grow the fuck up.
E-digger: No she's never done this before. And, i don't know how long ago.
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#7
2007-06-09, 19:18 |
ZeroMalarki
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Re: I'm not sure what I should do.
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Originally Posted by jackdaniels
Fuck you I don't troll. I don't have time for trolling. Not only that, in my opinion, trolling is pretty immature. I think it's something that if you are older than 12, and you still do, you need to grow the fuck up.
E-digger: No she's never done this before. And, i don't know how long ago.
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Apologies. To be honest, though I don't engage in it myself, there is a lot of funny trolls out there. |
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#8
2007-06-09, 19:29 |
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Re: I'm not sure what I should do.
Apologies. To be honest, though I don't engage in it myself, there is a lot of funny trolls out there.
I guess if it's done once in a while, it's kinda funny, but I don't really think this could be made into something funny. It would have been a pointless troll, if it were a troll thread, but, it's not.
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#9
2007-06-09, 21:11 |
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Re: I'm not sure what I should do.
Hey man, she dumped you, made you feel like shit. Apparently she is a self centered bitch who doesn't care much about you. If she TRULY cared about you, she would take your feelings into account and wouldn't have dumped you in the first place correct? Sounds to me like she doesn't think for herself if she has to talk to her friend before going back with you or the other guy.
Look man. Its hard. But I think the relationship between you and her is over. Call the other chick and talk to her. Might be worth a shot.
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#10
2007-06-09, 21:21 |
jackdaniels
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Re: I'm not sure what I should do.
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Originally Posted by Snoogins
Hey man, she dumped you, made you feel like shit. Apparently she is a self centered bitch who doesn't care much about you. If she TRULY cared about you, she would take your feelings into account and wouldn't have dumped you in the first place correct? Sounds to me like she doesn't think for herself if she has to talk to her friend before going back with you or the other guy.
Look man. Its hard. But I think the relationship between you and her is over. Call the other chick and talk to her. Might be worth a shot.
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Well see, I should have put this in my original post. Another reason she broke up with me was because she thought I didn't really like her, and I just wanted to date her so I could tell my friends I have a girlfriend. After she found out I was crying, she started crying too. |
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#11
2007-06-09, 21:37 |
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Re: I'm not sure what I should do.
You're 15 years old. In what way can one tell you to grow up or get over it, without coming across rude.
Realistically you should be focusing on other things, like yourself, definitely at that age. Getting out with your mates, school, hobbies/interests. Girls are probably the last thing to be focusing your attention on. However, i guess you could benefit from it, if your relationship is nice and smooth.
But how can it be?
She is young and so are you, and you know how young girls are. Very immature, confused, not knowing really what they want, and some are never satisfied.
Stay away from love, love is not something to be glorified, regardless of how many people exaggerate it.
What to do.
Take it easy! and what the hell happened to having fun anymore? why does everything have to be SO serious amongst people thesedays.
Have fun.
Remember yourself.
enjoy the time you have with either girl.
and get on with life.
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#12
2007-06-09, 22:23 |
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Re: I'm not sure what I should do.
Personally, I would forget your ex and go for the new chick because honestly, your ex just seems to be pulling pure bullshit. You don't really want to be tangled with all this "Oh what guy should I choose" nonsense. Go for the new girl. It's better to plant new seeds then old plants.
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#13
2007-06-10, 06:09 |
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Re: I'm not sure what I should do.
when she signed my yearbook. She put, "let's keep in touch.***-****".
not to break the mood or anything. but that's the second most common year book saying. coming in after "have a great summer."
http://www.yearbookstatisticscorp.com
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#14
2007-06-10, 06:33 |
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Re: I'm not sure what I should do.
I stopped reading and started laughing when I read "I cried for 4 days'
You little bitch.
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#15
2007-06-10, 21:38 |
jackdaniels
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Re: I'm not sure what I should do.
not to break the mood or anything. but that's the second most common year book saying. coming in after "have a great summer."
http://www.yearbookstatisticscorp.com
She's been leaving me messages on myspace saying, "So are you going to call me sometime?".
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#16
2007-06-10, 21:53 |
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Re: I'm not sure what I should do.
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Originally Posted by jackdaniels
Alright, so, a week ago my girlfriend broke up with me. I really liker her a lot. I mean, I cried for 4 days. Not all day, just when I thought about it. So, today I was talking to her, and she said she still likes me. She broke up with me because she still likes her ex. She likes both of us so she won't date either of us. Her friend has been telling me that she has something to tell me for 2 days, but she still has to talk to some chick, which she won't tell me who or what it's about. So she might be trying to get her friend to go back out with me but I don't know.
So, I like this other chick too. And I don't know if she likes me or not. She gave me her number yesterday on the last day of school when she signed my yearbook. She put, "let's keep in touch.***-****". She's told me she thinks I'm hot like 20 thousand times, and she's always telling me I'm funny and shit.
So now I'm kind of in a bind here because I don't know which one I should persue. I mean, I don't want to make the other chick think I want to date her, and then get back together with my ex, because that wouldn't be right.
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