I never ask for help on S&A, so after all the frankly awesome advice I've given over the years I deserve a little something back.

For the first time ever, I think I can safely say I'm fucking a girl who actually seems... "better" than me - not that I believe in "leagues" and any of that shit, she's pretty close to perfect.

What's more is she loves to fuck and just holding her makes me hard as a rock. But, I cannot ever finish when I'm with her, not even by my own hand. Great in one way in that I can keep going, fucking annoying at the end though when I'm still hard as nails downstairs and she's upset because she thinks she's not up to it, which is far from the truth.

Any ideas? Am I subconsciously nervous or something (I don't feel that way, but I've been "subconsciously stressed" without feeling stressed loads of times according to me doc), is that possible?

Murder/suicide/go gay etc

So that's out the way.

Is it just with her ? You can come when you're on your own? You're not taking any meds?

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Yeah I can finish by myself when I'm not with her (although that has actually taken a lot longer than usual recently).

Don't take meds really, think alcohol and weed could have accounted for the first few times but I've been totally clean last couple days and still getting nowhere.

Maybe it was due to the weed/booze the first few times and that as subconsciously 'programed' you.

Either that or those blue tabs she puts in your tea are NOT sweeteners :P

Hahah i love totse.
*thumbs up*

Idk anything bout this but you might be low on gas if ya know what im sayin. get that sperm count up

i think its because you really love her. and you think shes above you and stuff so you cant get off. its like a respect kind of thing. you have to much respect for her to cum in her presence.

you can only cum when you feel more dominant more perfect than your fuck object.

^ He might be right. I'll ask my mate who was having this issue if he ever fixed it.

how often do you jack off?

could be the problem

^ that seems it may be the case you respect her to much to cum in her and well you might cum if you fucked a whore who you dident love
? mabey??? or your sex drive is wayy low take some viagra dog lol

This exact thing has happened to me. I was dating the most incredible girl, and I was humbled that she would even talk to me lol. An yeah, I wasn't usually able to orgasm with her. Sorry buddy, but I know what you're going through. It sucks.

GHB, not for her, for you. Take a bottle cap full and you'll thank me later. ;)

You're not comfortable enough with her because you like her so much and you're not sure how she feels about you.

Ahhhhh fuck this.......

I haven't been bashin last few days see if that helps... hasn't so far but surely the longer I leave it alone the more likely I'm just gonna cum for queen and country next time I see her right?

The whole not being able to finish cos I like her too much thing might be right, never had this before but then never questioned my adequacy before... not used to this being vulnerable shit and I definitely don't fucking like it.

Never have I been so happy to receive a visit from my good ol' friend Mr Premature Ejaculation, about 90 secs into last nights' business.

Problem solved, and possibly a new one started :-/