But my stupid brain gets in the way. She wants to bang me so bad. I would love to get some sex.

Heres the problem. I dont trust her not to have other motives. I dont know what those could be, I have no money, no place of my own, no car.......the list goes on.

I guess my last relationship fucked me up. I find it very hard to trust women.

I wish I didnt. I love women. They smell so good, and look even better. But I always think something along the lines of them wanting me to be daddy. She has no kids, but she is getting off heroin. I guess shes a couple months off that shit.

I lost track of where I wanted to go with this.

Deal with it.
You'll be very hard pressed to find another person on the planet that doesn't have alterior motives.

Ok. I will deal with it and stay stone-hearted. Thanks.

First of all, that last relationship must have fucked you up good, obviously she just wants to fuck you. No one would want your broke ass to be paying child support. Plus you got a sick gig on the go with no money/housing/car, and the bitch still wants you. I say run with that like a Kenyan from the POLICE NIGGA.

CHEERS!

Sincerely, Atticus

I like your answer better than the last. You fuckin rock!!

If you don't fuck her someone else will

Heres what you..fucking do her and dont worry about what ur thinking..I think alot of random nonsense when im worried/concerned over a girl then i just think why the fuck am i thinking this...its natural yes...but fuck it ill make my own path/decisions and if i dont fuck up and the girl is descent..i shouldnt have to worry about side-situations and what shes thinking....

Dude im literally in the same situation as you, sort of, i have a girl i just met, she obvious likes me...id like to know her motivation but...shit why should i care, look at the results and dont worry about the stuff before that unless something seriously stands out or bothers you..then consult about it

So you don't have anything of value for this girl to get? Jackpot! I've gotten BJ's for E a bunch of times and that was definately worth it.

I think you'll have to conquer your fears someday anyways.

Unless you're planning to be a widow for the rest of your life