Well then, basic idea is I'm a teenager, but I'm not really interested in getting with girls. The thing is, I just don't think they are worth the trouble at this age. Any girl that I would be interested in wouldn't put out so easy, and drama follows girls like no other.

I just don't see any real advantages with having a girl friend at this young of an age. It isn't like I am not horny, because hell yeah I am. It also isn't like I'm ugly or anything like that. I consider myself pretty average in looks and I'm pretty athletic/charming. I'm just not interested, and some of my friends thinks I'm weird.

Is this normal?

By the way, I don't have many friends that are girls either, basically for same reason as above. DRAMA.

Umm, you can't hardly judge your own looks and charmingness. It would be biased, even if you didn't realize you were doing it.

EDIT: Oh ya, it is wierd. Maybe you just haven't met anyone you have any interest in yet?

Kid, I tell you this with experience... don't buy into the superficial teenage life of sex, drugs, and trying to be mr. popualr!!!!

I'm 24, I just got over a crippling addiction to heroin, and I have a 2 month old child. Did I mention I'm unemployed???

Get good grades, STRIVE for your academics!!! DO NOT take high school for granted!!! If I didn't spend all my HS days smoking weed, doing nitrous, & looking up girls skirts, I'd prolly have a master's degree by now!!! DO NOT buy into this peer-pressure and popular culture bullshit!! It will get you nowhere!

You'll thank me when you're living in Beverly Hills as a top exec with a hot trophy-broad!

Do the right thing kid;
--KP

It will probably make your life a lot easier for now, so don't worry about it too much. There is always the possibility of being asexual. Not in scientific terms, but just lacking interest in sex.

i'm gay

fixed that for you

Just don't worry about it man your time will come, besides once you find a girl who isn't a drama whore and a bitch its amazing.

chances are you're just an ulgy fat nerd that treats people like shit but thinks hes prince charming,
quit being a homo and go grab a girl, dont even have to be pretty just anything, black chinese does it really matter, you sir are on the edge of being a homosexual

Totse doesn't seem like the best place for you. Especially since you need things like moral support and comradery after recovering and realizing your life is shit.

Let me guess, the alternating upper and lower case characters in your name make you NOT nerdy?

Way to bring down a dude trying to do the right thing fuckass!!!!! I hope your promiscuity leads you to herpes!! A LOT of fun you'll be having when your cock falls off!!!!

Plz murder/suicide immediately;
--KP

According to you

-You're horny
-You look good/average
-You're charming/athletic

Why not get a girl? Drama. Of course there's going to be drama and problems, lots of them, but as many other situations in life, things don't come easy. You should at least attempt to have female friends to make yourself comfortable around women. There will be a point in your life when you will want female companionship and will probably be more difficult then than it is now.

Totse doesn't seem like the best place for you. Especially since you need things like moral support and comradery after recovering and realizing your life is shit.

You fail!!! I said I don't have a legit job dumbass!!! But I just let it slide being you're an assfucker to all!

Fuck you and the anus that shit you out;
--KP

You should at least attempt to have female friends to make yourself comfortable around women. There will be a point in your life when you will want female companionship and will probably be more difficult then than it is now.

Of course make friends bro! When I first came to high school, my lunch table consisted of 8 girls and 1 guy(me). I didn't fuck any of them but it teaches you about the inner-workings of the feminine mind.

School should be about learning after all!!!!

--KP

Way to bring down a dude trying to do the right thing fuckass!!!!! I hope your promiscuity leads you to herpes!! A LOT of fun you'll be having when your cock falls off!!!!

Plz murder/suicide immediately;
--KP

What'd I do to you?

What'd I do to you?

You Sinned. Against god. And He'll punish you with MITCH:http://www.populationpaste.com/blog/mitch/

(warning: nsfl)

If you arent interested there isn't anythign wrong with you and you dont' need to do anything, unless you aren't content with not being interested in which case you should take up heroin. Its the best way to meet people I've found.

You fail!!! I said I don't have a legit job dumbass!!! But I just let it slide being you're an assfucker to all!

Fuck you and the anus that shit you out;
--KP

Lol, even with that little tidbit, your life still seems shitty to me. That's all.

You don't want a girl because of "drama"? What the fuck? You're the man she should be afraid of you breaking her heart and beating up her brother if you break up. Drama fucking happens, it's part of life and if you aren't comfortable defending a girl or ddealing with the problems that arise you aren't mature enough to get a girl.

Grow some balls.

God bless you sir. :)

I hardly qualify under fat nerd. If anything, I go under jocks, but I try to avoid stereotypes.

To be honest about school, I don't really try but still get straight As in AP courses, so that's cool with me. I'm just wonder if this is normal to just not actively try and get some. I mean, if I find a nice girl who just so happens to be there, great. However, I'm not going to go out of my way to do some bullshit.

BTW - If I sound vain to you, I can change the opening post for you and say I'm average =/. Just giving more of a descriptive picture about myself.

I guess is hard to get a degree and stay away from drugs when you're from jersey.

Im the same. only had one bf and it wasnt worth it all. now just have a male friend who is of the same mind so we can go together when it comes to things like the formal. just make sure you have female friends. and before anyone says anything, ive been asked out 9 times this year, so its not i cant get one.

Have to agree with you there buddy. I have had girls ask me out, and I know a few are interested in me. But I honestly cant be fucked doing the whole high school relationship thing.

Let me guess, the alternating upper and lower case characters in your name make you NOT nerdy?

Fucking mad call.

I don't think it is weird at all. Maybe you're just young and haven't really met very interesting girls in your lifetime yet, so there's no problem really. There's no law that clearly specifies that every teenager has to have a fucked up girlfriend all the fucking time.

I just met my first girlfriend about 9 months ago and I am still dating her. It is important to mention that I'm about to turn 19 in July and I don't feel bad at all for not having a lot of girlfriends before.

Funk 'em and dump 'em

i'm 16, can't be arsed with a girlfriend. My current one ends in .JPG and we usually go on dates to a place called the Temple of The Screaming Electron

true, dat

LOL, JPEG.

Well yeah, thanks guys. Nice to know I'm not alone.

if ur not then then u are intrested cause said ur horny

Let me guess: gay.

Let me guess, the alternating upper and lower case characters in your name make you NOT nerdy?

Yes because you can tell who i am based on twelve alternating characters, now if you could only predict what color my socks are you could really give Ms.Cleo and her psychic hotline a run for her money.

Based on your user name i'd guess you're a balding self loathing middle aged over weight piece of white trash, but hell you're the one with the psychic powers here

Yes because you can tell who i am based on twelve alternating characters, now if you could only predict what color my socks are you could really give Ms.Cleo and her psychic hotline a run for her money.

Based on your user name i'd guess you're a balding self loathing middle aged over weight piece of white trash, but hell you're the one with the psychic powers here

ok first of all, calm down. this is totse.

secondly, by "not interested" do you mean you dont fantasize about girls or you just dont want to be bothered...from what I've read (not a lot, actually) im gonna say its the latter. but if it is the former, then w/e thats just the way u are.

if you find a nice girl you wont go through a bunch of shit, you can actually have her help you through stuff, but on the other hand its not that weird to just not want to be bothered with a girlfriend. I've been there before....then I found myself making out with this chick and I was like "hmmm if I go out with her I can get more of this" so I did....and when drama and shit started happening, I realized that she was immature and I broke up with her. thats how you do it: try to find a girl that wont cause you bullshit in your life and if she does, shes a hindrance to you and you should break up with her.

I have a friend like that, and it's cool, I can view him with alot less suspicion, you know, look at him as a human being as opposed to a boy.

Downside - he is incredibly hot, and I would jump his bones any second, and I would, but he just doesn't put any vibes out there, not at all. Make sure girls know you aren't gay.

Make sure girls know you aren't gay.

Girls AND guys for that matter!

--KP

I guess is hard to get a degree and stay away from drugs when you're from jersey.

That's Dirty JerZ for ya :p

--kp

I'm going to be 20 in two weeks and I've had zero sexual contact with anyone.

How's that for lack of motivation?

I'm one of these guys. He's probably just afraid of rejection or isn't used to the idea of people thinking he's hot.

Maybe he's just scared of girls or socially retarded...

But...the OP is pretty fucking weak for not ballin' up and doing something about it.

Guess you didn't read :X.

I have girls that I could get with - just not interested.

then you must be gay. thats the best kind the ones you can fuck then chuck.

Didn't bother reading, the diagnosis is obvious.
You sir are a fag.

Get with, as in dating.

Not get with, as in fuck buddy.

Are you a choir boy?
If you're not interested in girls, then your bubble wrapped man, your parents gave you a life, so live it man. Get out there properly, raves and shit man. PLUR!

Don't listen to these idiots, kid

"getting out there" by raving and all that mumbo jumbo, don't make you a man.

When the time is right, the time is right.

Do what YOU feel.

Fuck what society is doing, fuck what your friends are doing.

Maybe you might be gay, maybe you're not.

Only you know.

Understand, most people in life are retarded, by telling you how to be and do things. Figure it out for yourself, you know yourself better than anyone.

you sound like onizuka, you should try to get into teaching HS kids, an get something out of it.

Ok dude, Ill help you out here. Buy some astroglide, jerk off with it. Getting girls, to do that for you with their mouth is 25 times better than that. Afterwards you'll be attracted to girls.