I am now going to be the biggest asshole possible when around girls.

You need the proper brand of assholery.

Can I just whip it out?

I came to the same conclusion about a week or two ago. And implemented it fully.

I cant tell you how great its worked for me so far. But I will...later.

You "Nice guys" just don't get it, do you? It's not about being a dick, it's about not being stepped on all the time. Just be yourself, man. Jesus...

The attitude of champions.

Then why is that when I don't let myself get stepped on, while continuing to be a nice guy, I get dumped for an asshole?

The attitude of champions.

so...that's the attitude i'm supposed to have while i eat my Wheaties?

Yeah, eat them wheaties like a motherfucing A-Hole. Then, whip it out.

Do I get to kill snakes afterwards?

On a plane?

Then why is that when I don't let myself get stepped on, while continuing to be a nice guy, I get dumped for an asshole?

Because you don't yet know what nice really is. Nice is not expressed in gifts, words, or any bullshit like that. Nice is an attitude...a genuine empathy. Do you understand a girl's viewpoint? You're not being very nice to a particular girl if receiving a gift is torturous for her (ie, she feels obligated to return the favor, or something similar). You can't be nice to someone you don't know...and it's damned hard to get to know someone unless you can communicate openly and fearlessly. This is where the combo of nice/confident create a powerhouse sex machine. This powerhouse is also the template that most manipulators of the male gender imitate to harvest fields of pussy.

The REAL assholes are the guys who understand the need to be nice and confident, fake them both until they learn the woman's weakness, and then abuse that knowledge until the woman has had enough.

I hope this helps in your future. Be fearless so you can channel your good heart into the right areas...showering gifts and compliments doesn't do shit to move a relationship along...it screams 'He doesn't know shit about me.' It really ISN'T the thought alone that counts...not when it comes to romance, anyways.

I don't know why you give a shit what a woman thinks about you anyway. Get the fuck over it and move on. Be a man, god damnit

Because you don't yet know what nice really is. Nice is not expressed in gifts, words, or any bullshit like that. Nice is an attitude...a genuine empathy. Do you understand a girl's viewpoint? You're not being very nice to a particular girl if receiving a gift is torturous for her (ie, she feels obligated to return the favor, or something similar). You can't be nice to someone you don't know...and it's damned hard to get to know someone unless you can communicate openly and fearlessly. This is where the combo of nice/confident create a powerhouse sex machine. This powerhouse is also the template that most manipulators of the male gender imitate to harvest fields of pussy.

The REAL assholes are the guys who understand the need to be nice and confident, fake them both until they learn the woman's weakness, and then abuse that knowledge until the woman has had enough.

I hope this helps in your future. Be fearless so you can channel your good heart into the right areas...showering gifts and compliments doesn't do shit to move a relationship along...it screams 'He doesn't know shit about me.' It really ISN'T the thought alone that counts...not when it comes to romance, anyways.

Thank you, I truly appreciate that.

I've never been particularly nice to a girl unless I wanted to and thought she deserved it. Then diss everyone else but her and she'll bang your balls blue.

This girls been dropping hints for the past couple days. We fooled around once before. But this time, she's single, and she kinda sounded like she wanted a relationship or something. I ended up telling her the only way anything was going to happen between us was if she just wanted to be fucked, and if she shaved her snatch. (Last time, it wasnt a very nice situation.)

I didnt even know you could tell a girl things like that. And you know, not get five across the eyes in return. But it actually worked. She was just like 'yeah, I'll see what I can do.'

Obviously, you guys trying to be dicks just don't have any skillz.
For instance, I can ka-ra-tae chop a brotha and be back for lunch, if that's not hard as fuck yall needs some serious niga-foolery cause da bitches just aint having that. Just pick up what they put down and you'll have a good time, and don't forget to play it like a guerrilla fresh, know what I'm saying..?

It didn't work for me but hopefully it works for you.

There must be an art to being a complete bastard. A fine balance that works..

Because it does seem to work, to an extent.

Then why is that when I don't let myself get stepped on, while continuing to be a nice guy, I get dumped for an asshole?

Then by that logic, be hateful towards everyone!

Seriously. I find that when I get used because of my niceness, it's because of a very large group of people. I treat every group the same, in that respect. If someone asks you for help, say no. If they ask why, tell them. If they laugh at you or pressure you, then to hell with those pricks. Learn to say no, and you'll be a be more confident person, and preform better with girls. Simple, no?

That's my cynical view on how not to get used and trashed.

Good luck with that. There will always be some girls who like you and some won't, you can never have it all.