So me and my gf been dating for 2 months. about 2 weeks ago she had to go to texas to visit her best friend (since gr 4 or so...he's a guy and it was his grad and they were planning this trip for over a year) So she went. At the bus terminal, she was crying saying she was going to miss me and she loved me and shit. for the first 2 days of the trip she called me and told me that she might not be able to call me once she gets there. Originally her trip was about 9 days but she told me she changed it to 6 days. After that, she never called me, never went online...except after she arrived. I noticed she updated her status on facebook saying "in texas" Anyway I was like oh cool she got there safely. about a week and a half goes by and no word from her. Nothing. Not even a phonecall, not an e-mail... nothing. So I called her dad asked him wtf was going on and he told me she was coming back on sunday(9 days trip) so that meant that she never changed it. Then i was like ok w.e then I called her dad the same sunday wondering if she was back yet and he told me that shes coming back till tuesday(today) so I was like ok w.e thats fine. So she calls me today and she told me that she misses me, and that she missed her bus and also that her friend kissed her and that she pulled away but somehow he managed to get a picture and that she was too drunk... anyways I'm completely pissed off. I love her and all but this event has made me questioned myself whether I should dump her or not... What do you totseans think?

Shit happens dude. The guy was a friend of hers for a long time now, and she wanted to spend some time with him. Maybe there is a picture of him and her, but she may indeed have been drunk and got carried away in the moment. It happens.
Was it a kiss on the cheak, or a kiss on the lips? Maybe the guy was even just joking around.

There has to be something between you two that makes you care enough to at least second guess dumping her. Remember that, whatever happened in Texas.

She told me that he kissed her in the lips and that she pulled away but ya there is something special that happened between us.. she was my first and um we've been friends for over 3 years. Also I got my grad coming up this Friday and she was supposed to be my date for it but if i do brake up with her then i might be taking a Latina with me to grad and thinking in the positive side, she at least told me that he kissed her..

Someone was bangin' your mrs and there's fuck all you can do about it.

If she missed you that much, she wouldn't have just called you to cover her tracks incase a picture on the internet found your computer...

Take her as your date, ejaculate in her hair and then dump her.

Quit whining, you and her live in Canada and he lives in Texas. Don't throw away a good relationship, I mean if she wanted to be with him she wouldn't come home from Texas at all. Remember they have been friends for a long time, and sometimes things happen between friends. Haven't you ever got with a friend? Usually when friends hook up, kiss, fuck, whatever it is very awkward afterwards. I know I've ruined a very good friendship this way.

What I'm saying is if shit did happen between them while she was there, then they probaly won't be talking very much anymore. So don't feel threatend that he's gonna continue to persue your girl.

ohh also, I just remembered this but um After she got there, I noticed her facebook said "in texas" so I sent her a msg there asking her when she was coming back and shit. I never got a reply. A few days later I went on her facebook account and I checked to see if my msg was there and guess what? It was deleted and wasnt replied to. Also, she didn't wanted to tell her friend that she was dating me because she said that her friend doesn't like her dating and that he's very powerful with words so it would stress her too much so i was like ok w/e. So i was proposing breaking up with her (last night) when she called me but I couldn't really make up my mind because i was drunk... and today she called me again asking me what i wanted to do but i still didnt know so wtf should i do? keep her or dump her?