This is kinda a rant so if it gets locked that's fine. I just feel like typing it all out. She meant so much to me. I heard the ass of a boyfriend talking to his buddies. He's a fucking womanizer. I hate guys like that. They pick out the "hottest" girl and see how long it takes to get her in bed. It's a game to them. I don't see it that way. I loved her for so long.. I'm talking years here. She really did mean the world to me and now that she's just a trophy on his shelf I don't know anymore. I hate the way he treated her. I hate they way she loved him. I was jealous I'll admit, but not of their relationship. Just of the attention he got. The kisses he got. The love and care he got. She got thrown around like a bag of dirt. She was smart - I thought. Everytime he would dick around and piss her off she'd get mad. She tried to leave him once but he cried and gave her all kinds of emotional bullshit and dicked her around even more. Maybe sex means a lot to me because I'm young. I don't know. It killed me when I heard she fucked him. I just can't stand it. He wants to leave her now. She's mad at me for prying into her life. I just wanted to help. Her and I used to talk all the time about everything. She said she wanted to wait until marriage and I respected that more than anything. That's when I really fell in love for her. She doesn't want to talk to me anymore now. What do you guys think?:(

chicka bow wow chicka bow wow....Your girl nextdoor is the quarterbacks whore.

Problem is that it is a game, nothing more and nothing less. Get burned and you lose. If you fall in love and get married and live happily ever after then I guess you've won. Or maybe you've just given up.

A loss in love is no more serious than a loss in any other game. Treat it any differently, any more seriously, and you're just asking for trouble.

maybe you could get some stronger weed ...

Just think about it . If you were the girl would you want that kind of situation ?

I don't think we're talking about the same thing. I meant that guys go around looking to hookup and have sex and see how gullible a girl is. It's a game to them.

I'm not like that. It disgusts me. I think it's sad that women worked so hard for rights and all that bullshit but they still let themselves get pushed around.

This is where the old cliche nice guys finish last comes in. You go about it in a caring devoted way and some ass can come in and look like the best thing in the world just to get some. Mean while you get to spectate the entire ordeal and lose.

Eventually being the good guy pays off. Maybe not with this girl. But eventually a girl will notice and she will be better than you could have imagined because you thought the girl that hurt you was the best there could be. When the one worth everything comes along she's only worth as much as she treats herself, so don't be so bummed.

Its not worth it because if she allows herself to be used as such she isnt worth it.

Its not worth it because if she allows herself to be used as such she isnt worth it.

That's good advice... for anyone.

I can relate, I felt the same way about an amazing girl; she's still with her asshole boyfriend and we still talk sometimes. I really hope she doesn't give it up to him because it's something that I know means a lot to her, but is only physical to him. Unfortunately (I suppose), I really don't care too much anymore because of how she treated me when I was so into her and she knew it. We're still kind of friends though.

My advice: as hard as it may be, give her some room, let her fuck up, move on to another girl for a while. This jerk will probably dump her soon according to what you were saying, so she'll be a wreck. Just when she's at that point, conveniently put yourself back into the picture and show her the meaningful relationship that she can have with you.

By the way, I know that the whole "innocent" aspect of a girl seems to leave when they get fucked, but it becomes unimportant soon after... unless she turns into a whore, then that's gnarly.

I can relate, I felt the same way about an amazing girl; she's still with her asshole boyfriend and we still talk sometimes. I really hope she doesn't give it up to him because it's something that I know means a lot to her, but is only physical to him. Unfortunately (I suppose), I really don't care too much anymore because of how she treated me when I was so into her and she knew it. We're still kind of friends though.

My advice: as hard as it may be, give her some room, let her fuck up, move on to another girl for a while. This jerk will probably dump her soon according to what you were saying, so she'll be a wreck. Just when she's at that point, conveniently put yourself back into the picture and show her the meaningful relationship that she can have with you.

By the way, I know that the whole "innocent" aspect of a girl seems to leave when they get fucked, but it becomes unimportant soon after... unless she turns into a whore, then that's something you might want to stay away from.

Also, you could always fight him.

This jerk will probably dump her soon according to what you were saying, so she'll be a wreck. Just when she's at that point, conveniently put yourself back into the picture and show her the meaningful relationship that she can have with you.

Maybe if you like being an emotional tampon..

If you want her pussy:
Beat the living shit out of the guy, after they break up.

That's if you're man enough to do that.

You are an idiot!

Some girls fall for game, some don't. And have you ever considered the possibility that the girls who fall for game actually like the sex and attention they get? Even if it's negative attention... maybe that's how they've learned to get attention and sex? Really, if she's happy, does it matter that she's being used?

And for the record, just because a girl is used, doesn't mean she can't be an amazing lover and girlfriend. My ex was another guys fucktoy, the first guy she fucked, and you know what? She was amazing.

And you know what else? Nice guys don't always finish last. You can be nice and still have balls. Just because you're nice doesn't mean you let people walk on you, or that you don't posess an aura of power. Nice and strong are not contradictory.

Calm down, get the fuck over it and move on.


freeRadical

just leave now. seriously. from someone whose seen this shit before. dont make it hard on yourself. leave.

If she makes you feel so shitty she is not worth (and doesnt DESERVE) your emotions. Thats experience talking.

sounds like a real bich, dich her i says

then some day shell realize she should have been nicer to you but youll b off with a much hotter girl going haha too late for you,
thatll learn her :D

She said she wanted to wait until marriage...

thats because she didn't want to fuck you.

and for the rest of the post, from what I've heard, shes obviously way out of your league, and your just mad cause some other guy had enough balls to ask her out. go find some other girl, your young, you have no idea what love is, you'll feel the same way about any other girl you get to know. Its because your going through a little thing called puberty. good luck.