What's up with telling my girlfriend I love her? Love is pretty goddamn hard for me to find; first true love for me or so I think took at least 9 years to find. So I haven't said I love you yet to my girlfriend. Should I just ask her How do you feel about me? and then maybe she'd say I love you? But I haven't had a serious relationship pretty much, so I don't want to mess up and have it be unrequited or too soon.
Any usefulness?
Confidence is all I can really find.

Oh and I'm not getting any, so maybe I was guessing love had something to do with it.

You have to shell out at least the initial 'I love you' as a deposit before getting any. In addition to that, you'll be expected to make daily payments, anywhere from three to ten "I love you's" a day, depending on the girl.

Just say it. Or get in her pants. I dunno, do both. Why are you taking advice from me? Well, because it's the internet and if I can phrase my answer right, you won't know that despite my projected experience I'm actually as clueless as you are. Chances are most of the other people on here are, too.

It's all overthought opinions, man.

so simple, dude...

all you gotta do is wait for her to do something funny or be in a situation where something funny happened and your laughing and then just be like "ya know....I think I'm in love with you" or "haha oh...I love you".....she's bound to say it back and then after that it wont feel weird anymore

This thread is sad. :(

if you truly love her then tell her

if you dont then dont

Just dont be like me and throw it out too early and then get dumped for it.

Whatever you say, make sure you mean it, and make sure you're ready to face the reprecusions. I told my girlfriend, and I suppose came off as too strong or whatever and got dumped. Now life sucks. I really liked her too. But whatever.:(

Ahhhhwww... I love you too!

you are 9 years old you dont know what love is

fuck the fuck off kid

fuck the fuck off kid

Easy soldier. Save the advanced sentence structure for once you've had more education. In the meantime, try to limit your sentences to two or three words.

I told one of my ex girlfriends that I loved her all the time, numerous times a day. It almost became force of habit, just to keep her happy. Really, the words lost all meaning.

I was single for a long time, I wasn't telling anyone I loved them.

My current girlfriend, I love more than anything. There's no need for the constant reassurance though. The first time I told her I loved her, she smiled and said "I know." When she first told me, she said it in such a way that I couldn't give a responce to the exact sentiment as much as the containing scentence.

It really depends on the girl. Ive told girls I loved them the first night I met them, and had them believe me...

Easy soldier. Save the advanced sentence structure for once you've had more education. In the meantime, try to limit your sentences to two or three words.

english is not my native language.

i spit on your face.

english is not my native language.

i spit on your face.

Why dont you spit on my dick while you're at it. If you get it nice and lubed, you'll save yourself a lot of discomfort in the long run.

The first time I told her I loved her, she smiled and said "I know."

Then did you watch in pain as your lover was frozen in carbonite before your eyes?

Why dont you spit on my dick while you're at it. If you get it nice and lubed, you'll save yourself a lot of discomfort in the long run.

Haha your deformed, butchered kike small size thing?

I have pity for you american, europe's bastard child.

Haha your deformed, butchered kike small size thing?

I have pity for you american, europe's bastard child.

fuck the fuck off, ya?

sorry to interrupt you lovebirds, but go get a room