Im sure I could have thought of a better title for this thread, but im a bit tired, soo sorry.

Anyways there have been alot of studies which have shown evidence that having physical contact, *such as touching a girl's arm) may help to increase the attractiveness of the toucher. Now, studies or not, i have noticed that those who are good with girls indeed have much more physical contact with other. My question is, how would one go about doing it without looking like a drooling, WOW playing geek? I mean, you can;t just be talking to a good looking girl and then sudden lunge forward and lay your hands on her. Also, how should the toucher be? Too far, and it becomes too obvious. Also, what are some scenarios that touch can be used specifically?

I dunno, man... I've been touching women on the subway for years, and never gotten the reaction you're describing...

On a more serious note... how would you touch your "bros?" (seeing as you're putting this much effort into scheming for pussy, I presume the term is a fair one)... how would you touch your family?

Yeah. Better yet, quit trying to figure out ways to touch women unless you already have a sense of what healthy, normative, boundary-respectful touch in the course of conversation might be. Unless you're on a japanese subway.

May i be the first to say i love touching a girls legs...

I think I'll be able to find a youtube video that explains this.

Basically its the concept of "KINO" as pick up artists call it.

So if you see a girl you've never met before and you go and approach her, shake her by the hand, but sometimes put your outside (the one that isn't shaking her hand) hand on her shaking arm.

The occasional touch of the elbow or something.. it's friendly but not imposing, or awkward. You do need some personality and confidence to go with it. It's sort of an additional thing, that'll add to what you already have.

So is the question "should i touch a girl?" Yes, it's about time....

Well.

You could try making a touch seem like an accident. Nothing too dramatic, and not clumsy on your part if possible. :P Best to start off with smaller touches and see how she reacts with that.

And I play WoW :( I'm a nerdy girl.

I don't know how to touch a girl during a conversation without it being awkward too.

Actually, I would find it kind of weird if some random person started touching me during a conversation. Well, unless, of course, said person is a hot female.

Believe you are a hot, confident guy and it'll make sense.

i was thinking about this the other day..shows some nice skill/confid if u kno what ur doing.....also shows the girl that u mean business....and may show that u have some smooth moves....also can keep things fresh and mix them up a lil bit....

I touch everybody, alot. If she touches back, you're in there.

I believe the whole purpose of kino is to make the chick feel physically comfortable with you.

I like touching girls but I don't like people touching me most of the time. One time someone went to give me "props" who I didn't want to touch so I spit on his hand and he was like WTF?

You gotta have a certain mentality to do it. If you're an anti-social geek, than touching a girl (be it during conversation or when you walk past each other) will be a bit weird.

I know a guy who's easy-going and has a sense of homour and he touches girls all the time (like soft punches or pushes and trying to tickle em). The girl(s) see he's a fun person and react positively to it.

You should also get to know a girl first before touching her.

Despite posting on totse very often, I am quite social, so the anti-socialness is not a problem. I do touch girls I suppose but its always in a teasing sort of way, like if Im making fun of her I'll grab arm or play with her hair or something and she will respond well. But, I got the impression that the studies were referring to a more calm, sensual touch, that really makes her think.

Read "The Game" by Neil Strauss. A physical indication of interest is defined by Mr. Strauss as a "keno".

As for its effectiveness, I am going to say "extremely successful". I was taught to be very respectful of women so "keno-ing" was hard for me to start doing, but, no joke, as soon as I did, I started getting laid.

Some girls are more sensitive to this physical approach by someone they aren't comfortable, but they are never offended.

One last thing I forgot to add: the reason women like this is that it shows that you are a physical being; this will cause them to become physically comfortable with you faster.

The first step is to get a rep.
Then girls will let you touch them and it'll seem less awkward.


Just say so and so's got a big butt then poke it then grab it.
Thats how I started, I even did this to girls within 5 minutes of meeting them.

Make the vaginal examination fist (the two-finger gun) and poke in between their thighs.

I touch girls all the time and I don't even make it look accidental cos I do it intentionally (not in a perverted way). I am popular for touching girls and landing surprise kisses, so they don't mind me. I don't do this to strangers though. If you aren't introduced, don't touch them!! That will only make you look like a creep.