Since my girl started taking the pill, out sex life has been pretty shitty. We only do it once or twice a month. It just seems like she doesn't want to have sex with me.

Currently she is not on the pill because she needs an exam before she can get a refill. She's been off them for a week, and it's been the best week I've had for awhile. She actually initiated the sex today, which hasn't happened since before she was on the pill. Sex was so much better even with a condom.

Even her overall mood is better this last week. She seems so much happier when I'm with her. She still gets in moods (she's a girl, durr) but it's only been once or twice this week instead of near daily.

Yeah, it's great fucking without a condom, but is it worth it if I can only do it once or twice a month? Is it worth it if she's not enjoying it? Not really.

What was she taking?

See if you can get her on a different kind of BC. My girl is on Ortho Lo-Dose, and I swear she wants it more now.

Word. You might suggest that she try out a different brand/dose etc.

the pill sucks ass - have her chart her cycle and then you can fuck fairly safely at least half the time, without a contraceptive

look up "natural birth control" shit

That's weird, that never happened to me. We've always had sex at least once a day. Maybe it's the type of pill she's on?

Weird. I'm on the pill too, and I always want sex. :( Almost 24/7.