Ok so a very close friend of mine who i've known for most of my life came to me today for advice. I was at a loss for words and told her i'll get back to her, so I ask you, Totse, what is your opinion?


Backstory= She has been with the guy for over a year and it isn't often they can see each other.(He lives out of state and is in the process of moving in so that will change). Last December he was in town and they had their time together, she said the bond was great, the sex even better.

Now he's back to begin his move and she tells me there are problems. They argue a little more than what they used too, and she says the sex sucks. (A few comment about penis shrinkage and an ex from his hometown he's been calling come into play.)

So, I ask you, what advice should I give? I've mentioned to trust him more as he was good friends with his ex before & after the relationship. As far as sex goes, if she says he's small, how do I give her help there? Are there any positions you could suggest or even maybe something there could be to keep them strong through this little scrape in their relationship?

Any help is greatly appreciated.

Let it play out a bit. Give it time, it may get better...

break up with the dude

Tell them it's not your problem.

Just like its not mine.