OK so i am a 17 year old who has not had much contact with females in the past (had the occasional slut mainly).

Well anyways i managed to chat up this girl n i really fancy her, meanwhile a much better lookin (pure physical attraction)
girl has been seeing me.
i know i am not goin out with either yet, but i obviously have to keep them a secret from eachother.

So is this morally wrong to do sexual acts with both of them, yet not tell them about this "situation"?

Whether or not it's morally wrong isn't the question. If you're on totse your certainly morally bankrupt so I don't know why that's a question. The question is can you pull it off without them finding out about each other? You will have to have a sort of system if you can do the deed. However long you keep it up will probably turn out to be the highlight of your life.

One of them will find out about the other eventually. How do you think they'd react?

well it depenends how serious you are with them probly if your not going out with either of them they wont really care when you say your going to the mall with friends but i wouldnt introduce them to each other unless you dont like one of them

If you have a solid plan, nothing can go wrong.

I suggest researching the episode of the flinstones where Fred has a date with Wilma and an event at the water buffalo lodge.

ill get right to it silentmind.


ok basically they'll just call me sayin they wanna hang out, or i ring them as they both live like a 1 hour walk away (i catch bus usually, or train to tonis).

and i am serious about 1 girl, the other one, like i stated is more of a physical attraction.
Also just being on totse doesnt mean i haveto lose my morals, that wasnt in the terms and conditions, or rules.

It's not really a matter of Morality, Its a matter if your conscience will catch up to you and wind up making you feel bad if one or both of them end up falling for you. If they don't and they find out you can cut your losses and walk away. But you never know if one of them is psycho and will kill your arse.

Cheers,

G

i felt bad about it, so thats why i made the thread.

to be honest though i'll just not ever answer the phone when -------1 calls when i end up goin out with -----2.

You feel bad. You think it's morally wrong. What more do you need?

I wouldn't say it's morally wrong if you're not going out with either one of them, drop subtle hints in now and again teasingly

"You know I still see other women.." in a cocky teasing manner that lets them know you don't give a fuck.

Wear a condom and it's all good in the hood.

there's no way i'd say somethin like that.
and i always wrap my tool, getting a girl pregnant would fuck my life up.

This is true. You know yourself more than we do. You admit you feel bad about it. If you need it to be spoonfed to you, it's because you think it's morally wrong. Don't think with your penis and do something you'll regret later.

You mean "dating"?

duno 5leter

Morality is subjective, no one can decide this but you.

So is this morally wrong to do sexual acts with both of them, yet not tell them about this "situation"?

Well, polyamorous ethics strongly suggest...

1. Openness and honesty as the moral and interpersonal framework of any relationship, and...

2. Getting as much pussy as you can.

Personally, I suggest that you try to maximize both of these. It's good for you. Really! Kid-tested, teenage-mother approved!!

Also just being on totse doesnt mean i haveto lose my morals, that wasnt in the terms and conditions, or rules.

...ahhh... I see another one didn't read the fine print!! BWAHAHAHAHA!!!

^after reading the smallprint i will go with #2

omg im takin advice off someone called joepedo, what has my life turned into..

oh well, ill be gettin soem pussy this afternoon.

omg im takin advice off someone called joepedo, what has my life turned into..

oh well, ill be gettin soem pussy this afternoon.

Yeeeeess... this is exactly how &t claims them, one by one...

Enjoy the pussy. It really is worth it. :D

Morally, you should stick to the one that you yourself went through the effort of asking out.

If you yourself asked both of them out seperately, i'd have to say that morally you're a douche.

Dude, it's like, so morally right it just seems morally wrong.
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Sex isn't immoral.

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If you yourself asked both of them out seperately, i'd have to say that morally you're a douche.

basically what happenned was, i wanted a girl n decided to do somethin about it. So i used liek a trial and error method, just happens that ive got more than one girl.

this is perfectly acceptable

I would just make the most of it while you can, because when they find out your pretty fucked!!

when?
i'll just lock it with one of em when i star goin out with the other.
ie. put things off like always n enjoy the guilty bounty mwahaha

Don't worry about it there probably doing the same thing to you.

since i generally respect women, i would never do this. it may be morally wrong if you got a disease from one and give it to the other though

ahahahaha that made me laugh.

whats with all the disease talk, i thought the chances would be pretty slim if u wrap your tool.

Morals? On totse?



Since when??

Just talk thm into a 3some and problem solved