ok guys, and maybe girls here, but I've realised that after sex (eg when i cum) that I do not feel attracted to the female in question anymore.

I'm trying to think how I could describe it, but basically after i've finished, I get a rush of guilt and the feeling of not wanting to see the girl any more. I know it sounds shallow, and I've only had sex a few times with the same person, but it's really starting to get to me now.
I'm not shallow at all, there are a few girls I get on great with regardless of looks or interests, but I have no intentions of having anything sexual to do with them. But the one(s) I do, it just really pisses me off..
I'm currently not in a relationship but there is a girl whom wants me to go over to hers on Wednesday, and I am 99% sure that something will happen..which is why I have come (no pun intended) to ask this question

anyone else got this problem?

Its the rush of hormones, also makes you sorta sleepy, right?

yeah i do lol, i know what you mean but after about 20 minutes i'm feeling normal

..i think it is..yeah

looks like i'm not the only one

Heh, completely common. Have her make you a sandwich while you wait for the hormones to get brewing again.

fixed

The glow, it''s normal. I don't find any of the things that normally turn me on hot in my glow. When I'm out of my glow, though, I go right back into my fucked up paraphillias.

Second farker i've seen on here today. I was gonna say that but I didnt think anybody would get it

It's called doing ugly girls in the heat of the moment.



-deus-

Protip: "The (after)glow" describes positive feelings after an orgasm. Really, does "glow" sound like it describes feelings of misery and repulsion? No.

I've seen the negative feelings that may come described as "post-orgasm blues". Which sounds about right.

Got the blues, baby.

I've never had that feeling after sex or getting head or anything that had to do with the girl getting me off. Only after I masturbate I feel like this and over the years it's gotten a LOT less intense.