For the first half of this year, I was hell-bent on getting laid (and a lot). I had a few near-successes, but essentially I was a dumbassa and fucked them all up. Halfway through the year I tried to tone everything down. I stopped getting completely fucked-in-half drunk, starting doing some more fulfilling things in my free-time, etc. My random hook-ups definitely went from relatively constant to non-existent at this point. Towards the end of the year I started going out more often with the main goal just being to have a good time with friends and such.

Now I'm basically in the final stretch of days before I go home for the summer and just relax. I essentially don't have any inclinations to approach girls anymore. I still want to hook up, but I feel completely comfortable just relaxing and looking around. Occasionally a girl will approach me, and I guess that's mainly what I'm seeking.

I have basically 3 days to have some fun before I have to tone it all down for the summer, and...I'd like to actually have some fun with girls again. As I said, I think I was doing pretty well several months ago, but I guess I kinda reverted to being kind of shy (though my actual feelings are more of a nonchalance rather than nervousness).

"Halp".

:(

I feel the same way brother, except my problem is that I've always felt this way. Make friends with girls and just hang out with them. Just relax and take it easy. There is nothing wrong with that. To be honest, it's really not worth the trouble to go out of your way for them, just let them come to you :-)

I have no idea what you're asking.

What the fuck are you talking about man?

I think he's asking how to get pussy.

DerDrache, oh how the tables have turned. ;)

The best way to pick bitches up is get high as fuck, post out front of a mall eating peanut butter. Hella girls come up all OMG why are you eating peanut butter? Be like you want some? And give her more then just peanut butter.

I like the new troll. :)

Hahahahaha!

I think he's asking how to get pussy.

DerDrache, oh how the tables have turned. ;)

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Meh. Well, I'm not really asking "how to get pussy", so much as how to get out of this slump. I mean, it doesn't really feel like the traditional 'fear of rejection' thing...I want to go approach girls when I go out, but at the same time I find myself not caring enough to go do it. Am I making sense?

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Meh. Well, I'm not really asking "how to get pussy", so much as how to get out of this slump. I mean, it doesn't really feel like the traditional 'fear of rejection' thing...I want to go approach girls when I go out, but at the same time I find myself not caring enough to go do it. Am I making sense?

So just chill from girls for a while ?

I kinda understand how you feel, it happens in lots of things in life. You fail a bunch of times at doing the same thing at some point you just feel like it doesn't matter anymore or that you just don't care ...

My advise is to just chill from girls for a while. Enjoy yourself with your friends like you've said. There's no hurry to get with a girl.

GL ?

"Be a man!"

If you want to get laid before you go on your slack-about then just go for it. If you could do it before, you can probably do it even easier now (Granted you haven't become a fat sack of shit).

The problem is your putting the pussy on a pedastal.

the less you care about getting laid, the easier it becomes to get laid.

and if it doesn't become easier, well, just remember, you don't care!

apathy is a win-win situation, nigga.

Congrats, you've matured!

I agree with Snoogins.
The problem is your putting the pussy on a pedastal.

Just don't worry about it. And even if you don't get it, there's always college. (People who don't get much in highschool often get LOTS in college.)

So true.. lol.

I stopped caring, but I also pretty much stopped getting laid, but I don't care so that is the best part.

You have to *actually* not care though. Pretending not to care never really worked out for me.

Congrats, you've matured!

I agree with Snoogins.


Just don't worry about it. And even if you don't get it, there's always college. (People who don't get much in highschool often get LOTS in college.)

I'm in college. :-(

Masturbate less, drink more and odd as it may sound, more sleep helps. If you really want to care about pussy that is. I find it's much easier if you don't care quite so much but each to their own.

Dude thats is extremely messed up, Im going through the same thing, I really wanted the pussy a lot, like you know whateve really wanted to fuck, but then, and I dont rmemeber exactly when but its been liek this for at least 6 months now maybe more I just dont care anymore, its a wierd feeling, youd liek to go out and get a girl and fuck or to have a relationship or both etc... but you dont really care anymore about it and yet at the same time you do. You want to have that feeling back of wanting the pussy again but it just wont happen. Personally when it happened to me I was thinking oh no could I be gay? But after thinking about it etc.. I came to the conclusion that im not and it feels like because I dont care could soewmthing be wrong with me? Im in college to man and its wierd to think about cause were at our peak age of wangting sex, but we just dont care anymore, I think it could be putting the pussy on the pedestal or maybe weve just treid so hard weve given up. I really have no idea what it is but its kind of an annoying feeling because you want to want chicks but you just dont care anymore. I think its probably something psychological but I just havent been able to find out what it could be. I understand completly where you coming from man and theres nothing I can say that will help really, but on the other hand Im glad I found other people that feel this way too because ive tried to explain it to my friends but they just dont understand it. Whatever just wanted to let you know your not the only one out there having this problem and um ya thats about it. LoL I wish I could go back to caring but Oh well what can you do.

P.S. In a way it feels almost like having either no sex drive at times, or very little sex drive if any at all, but like I said Im sure its soemthing psychological. It might be learned helplessness or soemthing I dunno.

bump.

yeah hire some hookers wussy boy

So....your turning gay now?


I mean I'm just saying...that sounds gay.