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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2007-06-01, 03:19
So_Cal_Tay_12 So_Cal_Tay_12 is offline
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Default Going down on my gf, first time, any tips?

I feel this is pretty straight and forward, I'll be going up to my gfs house later and already know for a fact she'll let me go down on her, and is probably expecting it. I have never done this nor has anyone done this to her, any tips to make it a pleasurable first time for her?
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Old 2007-06-01, 03:24
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Second Star To The Right And Straight On Till Morning
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Old 2007-06-01, 03:32
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Default Re: Going down on my gf, first time, any tips?

each one is different. ask her to tell you what feels good and what doesnt.
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Old 2007-06-01, 03:48
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Beginners method is the alphabet with your tongue. Then pay attention to which letters she likes by how she reacts (moaning, purring, touching your head, squeezing her legs, spreading her legs) Then repeat those letters more frequently.

If your tongue gets tired stick it out and move your head. With practice start throwing in some clit play with your hands and fingering. Eventually work up to stroking her g-spot while eating her out. She'll go crazy.

Also dont just dive in. Tease her a little. Kiss around work your way down accross her body. Move towards going at her then slowly slip past it. Make her wish for it even more. Anticipation makes it that much better.
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Old 2007-06-01, 03:56
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Originally Posted by Euda
Second Star To The Right And Straight On Till Morning


FTW...
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Old 2007-06-01, 04:04
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In my experience girls love for you to stick your fist in there butthole
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Old 2007-06-01, 05:05
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Originally Posted by Euda
Second Star To The Right And Straight On Till Morning


Peter Pan FTW!
Seriously one of the best kids movies of all time. And taht includes Hook too. Rufio, Rufio, RUF-I-OOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Old 2007-06-01, 06:09
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Default Re: Going down on my gf, first time, any tips?

tongue fuck her if you have a long tongue makes her come everytime
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Old 2007-06-01, 08:57
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Default Re: Going down on my gf, first time, any tips?

Move downwards slowly, tell her you will kiss her all over her body. Do so, and move slowly downwards. Spend som time kissing her on the inside of her thighs, the lower part. They love that :)

A circular motion around her clit is also ery nice. Start by barely touching the "hood" at the upper part of the clit. The way it should be done is the way you woul pick up one piece of rice with the tip of your tongue, over and over again. That is as my girlfriend states "teasing". If you got a fairly strong tongue you can do it a little harder towards the climax.

Hope you'll enjoy it, and don't worry if it tastes funny, after bout 10-15 secs your nose will die, and there is nothing to worry about :)
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Old 2007-06-01, 09:09
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Blow a huge raspberry on her vag.
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Old 2007-06-01, 09:27
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Default Re: Going down on my gf, first time, any tips?

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In my experience girls love for you to stick your fist in there butthole


Lul fistingfreddy said that.
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Old 2007-06-01, 19:26
KABar KABar is offline
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The alphabet is always good. Or you can spell different things.

Be sure to tease
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Old 2007-06-01, 20:42
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Default Re: Going down on my gf, first time, any tips?

Teasing is always good, like many have said. Also don't think that you can fuck her like your tounge is a dick unless you have a REALLY long tounge. You're better off licking her clit. Also, if done right (and you have BOTH decided that you're ready for actual sex) she will then beg you to fuck her, because alot of girls get this overwhelming urge to be filled if all they have had is clitoral stimulation. It makes for great sex :D.

And unless you have a really strong tounge then it will get VERY VERY tired. hopefully you'll be able to get her to come before your tounge feels like it's on fire and will fall off.

-altair
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Old 2007-06-02, 06:50
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Default Re: Going down on my gf, first time, any tips?

If she's not shaved expect your nose to be deep in the muff. Try not to suffocate.
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Old 2007-06-02, 06:58
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Default Re: Going down on my gf, first time, any tips?

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The alphabet is always good. Or you can spell different things.

Be sure to tease


I learned the alphabet method from "Another Day in Paradise" when I was 16.
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Old 2007-06-02, 07:30
PaperSwansAreFun PaperSwansAreFun is offline
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Default Re: Going down on my gf, first time, any tips?

Take your time. Don't go straight in for the kill. Slowly and lightly run your fingertips over her body, barely touching her. Kiss around a bit. Kiss around her clit. Tease the fuck out of her for five or ten minutes. Don't finger her or anything, just play.

I usually flicked my tongue softly on the clit to start, and use stronger licks the more she moves. Use your whole tongue. Suck that clit into your mouth and give it a good lashing. All this while fingering, of course.

Most importantly, ask her what she likes. Explain that you've never done it before. Let her know that she can tell you what to do.
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Old 2007-06-02, 07:34
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http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b116/horta/orgasmspicure4ko.jpg

Crimson Smoke's famous guide.
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Old 2007-06-02, 07:49
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http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b116/horta/orgasmspicure4ko.jpg

Crimson Smoke's famous guide.


*claps shoulder* Good man!
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Old 2007-06-02, 08:59
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Default Re: Going down on my gf, first time, any tips?

Crimsonsmoke's famous guide.

That's what happens when you play too many videogames. You start thinking in walkthrough form.
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Old 2007-06-02, 09:21
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Default Re: Going down on my gf, first time, any tips?

That's what happens when you play too many videogames. You start thinking in walkthrough form.

I take it you're refering to CS? The last 'video game' that made any sense to me was Jet Set Willy on the ZX Spectrum.

Although having been forced to stand outside the shop in the queue early on the morning it came out I did try Grand Theft Auto 4(?) I did have a couple of tries of it.

Here it was verboten for under 18's to buy and so on release day there was long long queue of pestered freezing parents outside the shops.
 
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