Lately, when my girlfriend and I are having sex I keep going soft.. I've never had to use a condom with her before today because she is on birth control, but she hasn't taken it in the last few days so yeah... Well I know it's not just the condom because it was happening even without the condom.

I can get it up fine, I just cant keep it up for more than 5 maybe 10 minutes...

Anyone else have this problem? Any solutions?

Your girlfriend is broken. Get a new one.



In all seriousness though, is anything stressing you out or keeping your mind occupied? Finals/exams coming up? Job stress? Anything like that? Even if you don't realize it those types of things can make a big difference.

Are you taken any pain killers? I go to a methadone clinic and my normal dose is 130mg once a day but occassionally I double or triple dose and when I do that I have the same problem.

Just make sure your girl knows it's not her fault they tend to be over-sensitive about not being able to keep their man up, then you have to deal with questions like I'm not pretty enough or do you think I'm fat or would you rather be with someone else.

you're clearly fucking the wrong gender of the species then.You'd be more well suited to "recieve"

I haven't had an erection in over a month. Beat that.

It could be that, but I feel that I'm kind of just a stressed out person in general. It's been going on now for the past like 2 months.

dude that happens to me too...more frequently lately... it's wierd...some days I will be rock solid all day long and can fuck her like a champ for as long as she'll let me....other days, i'll get it up, start going and it just fizzles out and starts going soft... it has nothing to do with her...I think she's hot as hell and has a banging body..... usually i just back off for a few mins....kiss her for a while and finger her, sometimes eat her out...then it usually comes back and I keep going.

it's really wierd....seems to happen less frequently when I am in better shape and exercise more often.

Well that last part about the being in shape and everything doesnt surprise. Exercise promotes bloodflow to the extremities so yeah that would make sense. But thanks, I never though of that. I really do need to start working again anyway

Well that last part about the being in shape and everything doesnt surprise. Exercise promotes bloodflow to the extremities so yeah that would make sense. But thanks, I never though of that. I really do need to start working again anyway

Chicks dig guys with jobs.

Chicks dig guys with jobs.

haha. *working out

Yeah the guy that I was seeing had the same problem. My sister is in a health major and she said that if you smoke a lot of weed (which he did) it can do that.

Buttt he said cause I put to much pressure on him. Whatevs...I didnt put any

Well that last part about the being in shape and everything doesnt surprise. Exercise promotes bloodflow to the extremities so yeah that would make sense. But thanks, I never though of that. I really do need to start working again anyway
not only that but exercise relieves stress which can be one of the factors that makes you go soft.

The one time I deflated, it was due to thinking about much I didn't want to be fucking the girl I was with at the time. It was weird, in the middle of fucking her all sensually and shit, I realized just then how much of a bitch she was...I ended up going gorilla on her pussy 'til I got hard again, then came in her after saying I wouldn't. (No birth control, haha...she was freaked out for like 4 weeks, buying preg tests and shit)

I wouldn't recommend my action as any sort of guideline. I just have a pretty good idea of how ovulation works, and once you stop caring about someone in 'that' way...you don't really think about them, even when your cock is inside them.