So, me and her had another tift.

Well, it wasn't just a normal fight. We broke up for two days, ignored each other, screamed and yelled, and basically broke down. I realized that I never really want to be apart from her, or at least not now. She is something so incredibly special to me.

When we were broken up and she refused to talk to me when I had important things to say about us, I physically shook, cried, hit things, had the intense shivers, dreaded the future, had no optimism, and life crawled by slower than a snail. I actually became ill from the whole ordeal.

You see, I've done it before. I've broken up with her, screamed, said things that I didn't mean etc and I've said I've learned. But my actions don't show it. I'm truly afraid of loosing her now, as she said she doesn't truly trust me with her heart. She's very distant now, hardly calls me, and speaks with other guys. We used to send each other loving voicemails and emails but I haven't received any since the break up.

What can I do to show her that I'm truly sorry, and that she can trust me like she did before, completely, utterly, 101%?

Text bomb her 99999 times saying "call me".

But my actions don't show it.

You've broken up with her before. You've now broken up with her for a second time. Plus the fact that you are acting like you say you are, any normal girl would cut her losses and walk away.

How long have you two been together?

You can never go wrong :o .

Is this an internet relationship?

it wont work out. just ditch her.

or better yet, fuck the shit out of her one more time then leave her.

Play some really meaningfull linkin park song to her, or some shit like that. Usually works.



Question is, do you really want to be with someone who doesent trust you?


Do you truly fear being without her? Or simply being alone?

It sounds like a very unhealthy relationship. The both of you are probably going to be better off if you don't get back together.

What was the fight about? Why does she feel that she can't trust you?

You should try talking to her and figuring out what causes the problems and what you two should do about it. Have a discussion and decide if you two think you can give it one more shot and do things right. And for god sakes grow up.

The soft get killed, and the hard live a life not worth living.

Decision time, youngin'. You going to go 'man up' and fall into the same cynical cycle that continues to drag the human spirit through the pits of personal hells? Or are you going to truly man up and learn to respect your weaknesses as much as your strengths and utilize them both the best you fucking can?

It sounds to me like your pussy-whipped and need to get your shit together. If you can't live a happy life without a girl, you'll never live a happy life with one. It shouldn't come to the point that you're going through fucking withdrawal when you're not with her