How would you be if one or more or all of your kids hated you?

I don't get along with my dad, everything I do is either a way to make him look good or bad. He says things that are blantant lies, you bring him up on them and he takes you as a fool and extends the lie to a point where I think he is so engrossed in it that he begins to actually believe I'm falling for it or worse, that he actually believes it himself.

He talks gossip way too much, I hate gossip talk, and yet he always asks what did I hear at work today "Nothing piss off, gossips are dickheads like you are" *walks off*

My Father and Mother have been together for like 'forever' I mean I dunno much about how they met, I dunno what day they got married, none of that but they have stayed together ever since, no seperations nothing.

This all has jilted me I feel, as in their has always been a dad around...but not really. We don't talk and never have. We have never done anything together. I've never seen my parents kiss. There is one family photograph of us all together in existence and that was when I was a baby.

When he is dying I won't give a shit. When dead, so long thanks for the burial costs asshole.

So again my question is. How would you feel knowing your own son hated you?

I know how you feel.

no wonder why your a faggot. you never had a male role model your dad never tought you anything about girls. your the son of a gay man who does not even kiss his own wife.

Are you always such an asshole or only when something reminds you of your fucked up child hood?

im an asshole to assholes and my parents are split up but i have a great relationship with both of them so you fail.

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Ohhh please don't insult my dad I love him so maybe it's the reverse buddy. You're dad was far too loving and made you like girls that look like men because he fucked you all constantly, made you cradle his balls and whatever else you two got up to in what I hope was behind closed doors.

Wait a second...this isn't anything to do with me insulting you about the what would be my throwback girls in that other thread is it? Grudges are soooo cool. I was after some drama today thanks for biting loser. I feel good knowing there are types like you out there making me look just that much better (who knew I could look any better huh?)

Yah and I'm super man...everyone is perfect on the interwebz.

Haha they broke up because of you. Go cry some more. Did you "just wish they'd get back together"?? You know cause you get along with them both and having them together at the same time would be X2 the parent happiness fun time!

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Ohhh please don't insult my dad I love him so maybe it's the reverse buddy. You're dad was far too loving and made you like girls that look like men because he fucked you all constantly, made you cradle his balls and whatever else you two got up to in what I hope was behind closed doors.

Wait a second...this isn't anything to do with me insulting you about the what would be my throwback girls in that other thread is it? Grudges are soooo cool. I was after some drama today thanks for biting loser. I feel good knowing there are types like you out there making me look just that much better (who knew I could look any better huh?)

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its funny how you act like you know everything about me. atleast my parents love me.

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lol wow....too common, even to grammar nazi :P

Heil Webster!!!

lol wow....too common, even to grammar nazi :P

I did it on purpose haha

I suppose...deep down it's a release you know, because my parents don't love me :(

I'm glad my dad doesn't love me, if he said he did all of a sudden or did something to show he cared about me it would freak the hell out of me and I'd probably tell him to fuck right off.

J*A*D*A wants the Full House life excepted his parents relation was wrong from the start and he should never have existed. He sucks anyhow too bad his mum was a slut and opened her legs for his loser father.

I know all about your fucktard parents too. Go terminate yourself haha

odvioulsy you were a mistake a onenight stand thats why your parents dont show affection because they dont like you or eachother. and its odvious that it bothers you enough to make this thread. i bet everyday your mother regrets not swallowing you.

Well I would post here and make this thread awesome but a certain mod keeps arguing with a noob and spamming up this whole thread (subtle hint: ignore him).

ODVIOUSLY you can't see how bad you are typing because the emotion is overwhelming you and you can't see properly behind the tears.

This isn't between me and my parents just me and my dad. My parents must love each other douche and considering I'm not a only child and the age gap between us is a few years with our births all under wedlock I'm pretty sure I can confidently say it wasn't a mistake.

Your parents on the other hand fucked up royally. Exhibit A? The piece of shit you see in the mirror.

Get lost, let the intended responder reply to this.

You couldn't awesome up a thread if you had an automatic thread awesome-upper machine.

Jackketch is gonna see this and it's gonna blow his mind man!

ODVIOUSLY you can't see how bad you are typing...
I lol'd

It sounds like a disgusted and disappointed disinterest.

If you hated him, you'd want him dead.

I lol'd

I hope you knew it was a joke in that I was poking fun at him and not any false irony on my part haha. Either way I hope you enjoyed the lulz

I hope you knew it was a joke in that I was poking fun at him and not any false irony on my part haha. Either way I hope you enjoyed the lulz

that I did

My dad is too oblivious of reality to understand I hate him. I've screamed, " I FUCKING HATE YOU NOW GTFO YOU STUPID COCKSUCKER!!!!!" and he still thinks I like to be around him.

Hmmm good question, don't really know.

I guess if one of my sons really hated me then I'd simply make sure he went his own way/left home as soon as possible. No one is helped by both being under the same roof.

I'd probably rationalise it and think that with time and him himself becoming a father that he'd 'come round' a bit.

Partly thats why I post so much about my own kids, I want the teens here to get an understanding for their parents. for why their parents say and do the things they do.

I hated my mother all my childhood. I mean REALLY loath. After I left home there were long periods where I had no contact with her at all (longest 'silence' was 7 years!). But with increasing age she and I have got closer. We're still not totally comfortable with one another but we get on well enough these days.

My heart sank reading this post.. I came from a very tight-knit family.. Hell, growing up, my allowance money was spent on presents for my family!

The notion of hating one of my parents truly scares me.. I definitely was never always understood, given enough space, way overprotected, etc.. But I understood that my parents were only trying their hardest to do what they thought was best.. Even if they weren't sure at times..

My parents always made sure they knew(to some extent) what we were doing and talked with us frequently about our likes and passions.. My family lived by a saying, "todo para la familia." (Yes, my daddy's side of the family is from Spain)

To see any family that was not at least AS connected as my family is, is painful for me..

I really am sorry that you never had a developed relationship with your father.. I really am.. But your nonchalance toward the subject is understandable since you don't know the relationships I have..

I really hope that you do make an effort to talk to your dad about this..

I went through some of these thoughts for a while. My father and I can't be around each other too much because, bless him, he passed on his temper to me - although I'm not nearly as bad (I do have a well tempered mother).
Do you still live at home? I would suggest moving out if you do. Everything got better with my father when I left - we appreicate each other more now.

If you actually 'hate' your father over things as petty as lies, being absent and gossiping, that's just ridiculous. You might not care about him or feel any familial bond, but I very much doubt that you hate him.

I hope you knew it was a joke in that I was poking fun at him and not any false irony on my part haha. Either way I hope you enjoyed the lulz

Hahaha You Did It For The Lulz :D Shut the fuck up idiot. How is asking about how work was gossip dumbass, he just wants to make conversation with you. I would've thought after twenty or so years being alive you would've learned some basic concepts of social interaction.

Hahaha You Did It For The Lulz Shut the fuck up idiot. How is asking about how work was gossip dumbass, he just wants to make conversation with you. I would've thought after twenty or so years being alive you would've learned some basic concepts of social interaction. Also jackketch is probably too embarassed to reply to this thread..

He was asking what I heard at work i.e "what did you hear at work?" like I said in the original post.

And Jack did reply...and yeah I did quote you before you editted so haha for you being caught out for being the dumbass you are.

He was asking what I heard at work i.e "what did you hear at work?" like I said in the original post.

And Jack did reply...and yeah I did quote you before you editted so haha for you being caught out for being the dumbass you are.

"what did you hear at work" oh yeah he's such a gossip, it's pretty obvious he's just trying to ask about your day.

Btw nice own hahaha catching me out like that you're such a detective

I still don't know why you would choose to reply to my post over his one which you have been asking for throughout the thread, this thread is just you spamming and ignoring everyone who gives you useful advice

"what did you hear at work" oh yeah he's such a gossip, it's pretty obvious he's just trying to ask about your day.

Btw nice own hahaha catching me out like that you're such a detective

I still don't know why you would choose to reply to my post over his one which you have been asking for throughout the thread, this thread is just you spamming and ignoring everyone who gives you useful advice

You know nothing.

/Infraction time for following me around spamming. Can't wait to see your thread in Bitch and Moan faggot.

Trouser you fail miserably. In your first post you go on about not caring if/when he dies, and then when someone dogs him out you are right there defending good ole daddy claiming you "love" him. You can't talk out of both sides of your mouth and still maintain credibility.

It seems to me you started this thread as some feeble attempt at getting an emotional response from the Totseans, because of your utter failure of getting one from him. As if the opinions of complete strangers can make up for his shortcomings, and give your ego some kind of validation. Just pick a fuckin stance, and back it.....quit wavering one minute to the next. Do you hate him or not? If so, then why come running to his defense as soon as someone starts to insult him.

Nah, you are just holding out hope still thinking that your little Daddy is gonna wake up one day and love you the way you want to be loved. Stop trying to play the role of Mr. Hardcore Badass, when clearly you have "daddy" issues and you've exposed your insecurities to the open public. We ain't buying it, so go wallow in your despair alone.

You can't talk out of both sides of your mouth and still maintain credibility.


Ya think ? I know a lot of politicians who'd disagree with you and to be honest most totsians do it too-myself included.

Trouser you fail miserably. In your first post you go on about not caring if/when he dies, and then when someone dogs him out you are right there defending good ole daddy claiming you "love" him.

Are you refering when I told some dickhead to not insult my dad...that's the only bit where I can see where you might have perhaps thought I was defending him :S Uh if that's it the rolling eyes where there for a reason. It was sarcastic.

I wanted to know what a father might think or feel if they knew their son hated them. Stop looking for a hidden meaning here there isn't one.

You couldn't be more wrong sorry, but nice try and better luck next time.

/Infraction time

Too far.

Too far.

He's been following me around for weeks being a fucking idiot he should have got what was coming to him sooner.

If anything I let him go too far for too long. Just for future reference don't stick your nose into business you don't have a clue about.

I agree trousersnake. I'm really looking forward to if this asshole attempts to fuck shit up in OI..

He's been following me around for weeks being a fucking idiot he should have got what was coming to him sooner.

If anything I let him go too far for too long. Just for future reference don't stick your nose into business you don't have a clue about.

Yessir, Good point sir.

It's just that, during this thread, I think everyone is spreading around equal dickheadery.

Honestly think it should be locked. Nothing personal but it hasn't helped anyone, and I daresay, even if you guys wont admit to it, its not good for your self esteem either.

I haven't been 'following you around for weeks' dumbass, i can post in whatever thread I choose to.

Also you faggot everyone else has flamed you hear and hasn't been infracted, i raised a VALID POINT. I dont flame you for the sake of it, theres always something fucking stupid you say that requires me to point it out, how the fuck is that spam

And yoyobek........ go paint some warhammer or something

Go cry some more you little bitch. Suggesting I was spamming wasn't a wise move as all it did was highlight your own spam and as a reminder that it's all you do. Any thread I make you're in it being a dumb fuck. yoyobek has obviously seen it or something similar, sambob 'owned' you in a thread of my creation in &R&R so it's not just me you come across as the dipshit you are.

Ya think ? I know a lot of politicians who'd disagree with you and to be honest most totsians do it too-myself included.

True enough Jack, although I'm hard pressed to ever find "politician" and "credibility" in the same context. I guess in my twisted mind on the societal food chain I would consider it....

Totse Mod > ANY politician

Any thread I make you're in it being a dumb fuck.

That's the thing, i'm not being a dumb fuck, tell me one thing i've said in this thread that was dumb and counts as spam.

Okay i've been infracted twice for the same post by different mods, motherfuckers

That's the thing, i'm not being a dumb fuck, tell me one thing i've said in this thread that was dumb and counts as spam.

Okay i've been infracted twice for the same post by different mods, motherfuckers

How about you only posted in it because it was created by me and that you posted a second time after the first unnescessary post considering I spelt the scenario out. And it's not just for this one thread this bullshit you carry on with just finished being tolerated. You should have got done for spam a week or so ago in my thread saying I wanted to go backstage at a concert.

What you (and I unfortunately since you've dragged me into it) are doing NOW is spam also. Got a problem? Take it elsewhere not in a thread of no relevance to your stupid complaint.

And you've got it going on again in &R&R, see a post of mine, reply in a stupid unhelpful way...why? Going out of your way to be an ass, trolling. Continuously doing it in a manner that offers the community nothing, spam. Bang you're brown bread.

Are you refering when I told some dickhead to not insult my dad...that's the only bit where I can see where you might have perhaps thought I was defending him :S Uh if that's it the rolling eyes where there for a reason. It was sarcastic.

I wanted to know what a father might think or feel if they knew their son hated them. Stop looking for a hidden meaning here there isn't one.

You couldn't be more wrong sorry, but nice try and better luck next time.

Fair enough, I'll have to take your word for it that you were joking. I still think you are somewhat kidding yourself as far as your "hate" for your dad goes. I believe if you really detested him as much as you do, you wouldn't even care one iota how/what he thinks or feels. I say that because I know full well about hating a parent, as my mom is the most vile, toxic, and disgusting wench to ever walk the face of this earth. She taints any good time, and makes bad times even worse. It repulses me that her blood courses through my veins. Hell, I've even questioned my respect and admiration towards my father because of his choices to be with her. My dad has been dead 20+ years, and I wonder to myself "what the hell was HIS problem".....the fact he married her TWICE, and stuck his dick in her at least that many times considering they had 2 children. Now that I have kids of my own and know what its like to really love and parent children, my loathing for her has only grown to an exponential level.

Now I didn't say all of that to make myself out to be badder, better or even more hardcore than you. I'm just trying to tell you that with true and real deep seeded hate, you have ZERO concern about their needs, thoughts, or worries. It never crosses my mind. Check that, her well being IS somewhat of a concern of mine, because every day that she continues to walk this planet more of my inheritance is being whittled away with every breath she takes. Beyond that I couldn't care any less.

Just something for you to think about......

I've told my parents I hated them before and they've said they hate me. It's what you do when you hate someone in a moment and you don't want to beat them. It's healthy to say you hate someone. There can't truely be hate without love.

How about you only posted in it because it was created by me...

http://dictionary.reference.com/search?r=2&q=conjecture

I love my parents and they love me too.
I win.

http://dictionary.reference.com/search?r=2&q=conjecture

I really don't have to jusitify shit I know this pathetic dipshits game and if I wanted to and knew this ass would continue to be an ass I would have taken a screenshot everytime he fucked a thread of mine up, that in addition to showing the ratio of his posts to his posts that were garbage in my threads. You need a clue too and stop kissing my ass after I confront you with stuff like this.

There is waaay too much hatin' in this thread.

"All you need is love,

All you need is love,

Love is all you need."

Woooh! so much angst in this thread, hard to believe so many of you have parent problems to such a degree!

I adore /love respect my mum n dad so much, they are the best friends I could ever have........ it makes me so sad that other don't have that. My dad may be a dippy old hippy but I know he would do anything for me and I love him to bits cos I know thats for real.

I really don't have to jusitify shit I know this pathetic dipshits game and if I wanted to and knew this ass would continue to be an ass I would have taken a screenshot everytime he fucked a thread of mine up, that in addition to showing the ratio of his posts to his posts that were garbage in my threads. You need a clue too and stop kissing my ass after I confront you with stuff like this.

http://www.reference.com/search?q=calm+the+fuck+down

I would beat my child unconcious. You don't know how good you have it. I wish I had someone to throw the ol' pigskin around with. Any takers?

This thread is a bit of a "lol wut"?

I don't wana get into a gay-fest-debate with you Trousersnake, like so many others are willing to do, but come on...

You're throwing back your dad's attempts at being interested in you in his face. You expect him to know you hate gossip and stuff, and you're this serious, intelligent dude with interests in such and such? Maybe you've never told him? If you actually worked on the bond between you guys, took some family photos, asked your parents separately how their relationship is (heh, it's weird to ask, but maybe they wouldn't mind opening up?).

I dunno dude, I know this aint your fault... you've been stuck in a somewhat... static family, where stability is mean to equal happiness and interest... but it's never as simple as that is it!!

Thing about how you'd feel if your dad was run over tomorrow. He's not gona live for ever, and he is your dad, for all his failings. Maybe you should be the big man and take the first step to a real relationship? Suggest stuff to do, and try and let the guy into your head, jeez, i bet he's dying to know what's really goin' on with you!!

Good luck :)

And I can't imagine hating my father to the extent i'd want him dead and wouldn't care about his existence, I think it's very hard to break that "bond" with a family member! If my (potential future) sons hated me though... meh, i'd consider why, and how these feelings had arisen, what i'd done wrong etc. I'd probably try and separate us, give him time to "cool off" and think things over, without giving up on a relationship with him. I'd keep trying, because I would think it's worth it, and because I would feel i'd have more to lose from doing nothing!