So some of you may have seen my thread, but if you didn't or couldn't be othered to read it; i hooked up with a girl recently. A quick synopsis of it. Me adn this girl (my girlfriends friend) hooked up the other day. we only made out, and i felt her up because my other buddy wanted to hit it, but he never made a move. So later that night we go back to her house and continue flirting (holding hands, rubbing each others legs, etc). So i see her again and my friend tries getting with her, and has his arm around her all night, but never makes a move. I was fine with it because i have my own girlfriend. So since he never made amove, i've come to realize the girl i hooked up with, is the girl for me. Out going, optimistic, sexual, extremely attractive, and flirtaious. Basically the girl i've been looking for. One that i can have a good time with, but not get so serious that we are "in love". The night after, we talked on the phone and i asked her if she wanted to continue hanging out seecretly, and she said yeah.

Since we first hooked up about 5 days ago, we talked on the phone, and have talked in school. She actually got me drunk today druing class which was pretty cool.

Basically what i have in mind is if i don't see her outside of school (i never try to do stuff inside school), i'll just call her up and just say something along the lines of "yo, i think you're pretty cute, and my *insert my girls name* just isn't doing it for me, but i think you might be the girl that could."

comments, advice, flames, whatever.

Don't forget to wrap it.

Also, you did a lot of dick things on your part. Not to mention she's ok with you cheating on your girlfriend, which you said is her friend too.

How long do you think it will last?

I just want someone who i can have a good time with, nothing too serious.

So you think the one girl, the one to stay true to you, is the one thats entirely ok with you cheating on her best friend?

She sounds like a fun toy, but not really a long-term thing. At the very least, cheat with her for a good bit longer before doing something rash like that.

and i felt her up because my other buddy wanted to hit it, but he never made a move.

And when was this ever a valid reason? You felt her up cause you wanted to, don't try to make excuses. And if you do, make them better than this.

But it could eventually work. I almost went out with a girl after cheating together for a few months. But... yeah. I didn't, for the reasons listed above.

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And you can have a good time w/o "dating". It's actually more fun this way

No. Beyond the things that are obviously wrong with this, you'll get bored.

Why don't you break up with your girlfriend first, you cunt?

Well it's seems like some of you don't really understand what i'm getting at here. I'm in this for a girl who i can chill with, and stay intimate with, but not get really close with. I havn't been with girlfriend long, it's been only a week and a half. Also, i'm not using "mybuddy wanted to hook up with her as an excuse". I have a girlfriend at the time, and i told my buddy he could go for her friend.

No one is really answering the question here. I don't want people to analyse this situation, because there is no need. No need to tell me i'm gonna get bored with her. I just want to know if what i asked would work well or not.

DON'T go out with this girl there's no need to if she doesn't care that you go out with your friend just have one girl to have fun with and one girl to be your girlfriend. trust me it's the best way to do it i promise you the other girl won't tell your girlfriend.but sorry about me ranting on, and to anwser your question it won't work because she won't want you to break up with her "friend" for her and she might not like the idea of that

Yes, it will work for what you want. Don't be surprised when it blows up in your face, though.

oh it will blow up in your face unless you get smart and blow up in this chicks face first

oh it will blow up in your face unless you get smart and blow up in this chicks face first

You have a very very poor understanding of intra-personal and interpersonal relationships. Have fun while it lasts, I guess. I'd tell you to change your course, but it appears you've made a final decision.

You have a very very poor understanding of intra-personal and interpersonal relationships. Have fun while it lasts, I guess. I'd tell you to change your course, but it appears you've made a final decision.

well you got to think he seems like a young person so he really should just try and have fun with what he's got now and later on in life he should try looking for a relationship

Why would you want a "FLIRT" for your girlfriend..?
I'd be worried about her fucking around on you... you love shit like that you're gonna be singing http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T56vLzS5i5w
you fucking tool.

well i told this story when i was stoned and drunk, nwow i'm just stoned and realized i let stuff out. These girls hate each other. They used to be friends, but they're fighting hardcore now because someone told my girl we hooked up, but me and her made her not beleive it, but my girl is still pised at her because i told her i did hold her hand as a joke and, but my girlfriend (who i really could careless about) is still pissed. And the girl i hooked up wants to hang out in secret to keep the thrill of it i guess.

I don't care if the girl i hooked up with hooks up with someone else if i'm with her, i'll probably cheat on her every so often, just keep her around for good wild sex, and have some actual female company i can have a good time with, that's not just sexual. There will be no feelings of "love" in this.

Why do i have to explain everything, just answer the question.

Why do i have to explain everything, just answer the question.

Quoting myself:
Yes, it will work for what you want. Don't be surprised when it blows up in your face, though.

Well i'm just basically wondering is if asking what i first posted to the girl i hooked up with was a long shot. She's a bit of a slut. Not like 20 guys, more like 5, and 3 were my friends, so it's cool.

'Cause I know i want my friends sloppy fucking seconds...
GG you are probably the stupidest person on the forum, and your being a moron for not breaking up with your girlfriend and going with the other what do you have to lose..??

i say go for it. And i hope your world crumbles from beneath you.

Well first things first, it did work. And as for all the "you're such a dick for cheating on your girlfriend". I'm a 17 year old junior in high school. These girls are the same age. You honestly think i expect a long term relationship to happen. I've gone through two, both resulting in heart break. They don't last in high school. I want a polygamistic relationship, but no one can find someone that comfortable enough for that in high school. Well now i have, so why not? as for my girlfriend, we've been together for 2 weeks, we arn't "in love". I may break her heart, but it's her own fault. I told her i didn't plan on getting into a seirous relationship. Also, how can you be terribly distraught if you just broke up a relationship that was two weeks long. Also, i havn't used her either.

Get your shit straight you zelous fucks.

You're behaving badly, childishly. Since you're a junior in highschool, ask your Mom what she thinks about the situation.

Exactly, just as all "children" in highschool should act. Why set yourself up for a relationship that is bound to fail?

You know. You're a lot more focused and intelligent than the average 17 year old. Why are you fucking around like one? You know it just brings trouble...why are you doing that to yourself?

Currently going through a bit of your own 'fuck the world and its authorities' phase?

Well, it is your life, so you'll do what you please. You have a mind that seems to be sharp and the ability to observe some basic workings that most people don't grasp at all...I don't understand why you'd use your gifts to facilitate drama.