I keep falling for chicks that end up screwing me over in some way in the end. This has to be like the 100th time. Am I retarded or something? (Don't answer that!)

Or are emotions just too powerful for logical thinking?

I'm like one of those dumb sluts that every guy in town has fucked and chucked and all talk about me behind my back, yet I remain oblivious as to why I keep getting screwed over, only to have it happen again and again.

Gadz, can you answer something?
No offence, but are you a guy or a girl, or bi?
No problem if you are, just you're threads always confuse me lol:p

I'm definitely a guy, and I'm definitely straight.

Although a lot of people mistake me for being gay. Apparently my appearance, personality, and everything about me just exude homosexuality.

Plus, I'm not at all afraid of being perceived as gay. I can point out an attractive male and will vocalize my opinion without fear of prejudice. Also, another guy can hit on me, even touch me, (hell, even kiss me), and I won't freak out like "omg u fag wtf i aint no homo!!."

If any of that makes me "gay" or bisexual, then so be it.

I'm definitely a guy, and I'm definitely straight.

Although a lot of people mistake me for being gay. Apparently my appearance, personality, and everything about me just exude homosexuality.

Plus, I'm not at all afraid of being perceived as gay. I can point out an attractive male and will vocalize my opinion without fear of prejudice. Also, another guy can hit on me, even touch me, (hell, even kiss me), and I won't freak out like "omg u fag wtf i aint no homo!!."

If any of that makes me "gay" or bisexual, then so be it.

Ah right.
Then sorry dude, I must be thinking of someone else....

Your need for love? Makes you easy prey?

That is kinda (I must say) gay!

Are you looking too hard & turning up all sorts of 'dust bunnies' in your freaky search for love in all the musty corners of reality? I know I look too hard & sometimes some mighty dusty bunnies turn up.

It seems easier than working on my own stuff & getting it right. Like today I walked about five miles. With occaisional stopping for stretching. I'm always slacking on excercise. If your body isn't in good enough shape? Neither is your head.

Ah right.
Then sorry dude, I must be thinking of someone else....

That's ok. And anyway, you might have actually been thinking of me.

I have often been mistaken for a chick (online), and even more often for being gay (both online and offline).

Are you looking too hard & turning up all sorts of 'dust bunnies' in your freaky search for love in all the musty corners of reality? I know I look too hard & sometimes some mighty dusty bunnies turn up.

The thing is that I'm not really even looking right now. All it takes though is the slightest conversation with some girl that I meet at a party, bar, club, friends house, wherever; and I'm hooked. So even though I try to avoid looking, I still end up trying too hard.

I mean, I could avoid all social situations. That could minimize the issue. But then I might start to crave that companionship again, and I'd just be out looking even harder.

Plus, it can sometimes even happen when I least expect it. Like when I ran into Sherri recently. I ran into her in a park on my way to buy groceries. I thought I would be able to avoid any social interactions for a while once I moved out again.

It seems easier than working on my own stuff & getting it right. Like today I walked about five miles. With occaisional stopping for stretching. I'm always slacking on excercise. If your body isn't in good enough shape? Neither is your head.

I definitely need more exercise. I need a lot of healthy lifestyle changes actually. That could really help me a lot.