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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2007-05-29, 11:21
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Canberra Australia
Default Why is this so? Re: Going down on someone

Why will any guy (generally speaking) let any girl willing to suck their cock do it, but if a girl was asked by a stranger to go down on them they wouldn't have a part of it unless under what I'd consider not normal circumstances?

Just thought this earlier.
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Old 2007-05-29, 11:35
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Canberra Australia
Default Re: Why is this so? Re: Going down on someone

Could you rephrase this? I'm not sure if you mean why would a girl not let a stranger go down on her, or why would a girl not go down on a stranger if asked.

"Why do guys let strangers suck them when girls don't let strangers go down on them?"
 #3 
Old 2007-05-29, 11:37
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New Zealand
Default Re: Why is this so? Re: Going down on someone

What the fucking hell? There's no way I'd let any random woman suck my cock.

Anyone who trusts a stranger not to bite off their cock is a fool.
 #4 
Old 2007-05-29, 11:40
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Canberra Australia
Default Re: Why is this so? Re: Going down on someone

Quote:
Originally Posted by rabbitweed
What the fucking hell? There's no way I'd let any random woman suck my cock.

Anyone who trusts a stranger not to bite off their cock is a fool.


You liar :p haha especially if you were drunk.

How many times do you see guys trying to pick up whoever they can pull at the end of a night out for something?
 #5 
Old 2007-05-29, 11:59
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the reason i'd be hesitant about it (hesitant is bit of an understatement) is because it involves a lot of trust. i'm not especially comfortable with the idea of someone going down on me, i didn't even let my boyfriend do it for a good few months.

you don't want to be judged, or criticised. yes, it feels good, but what are they going to think of you? also, it's very very intimate. in some ways more so than sex. you're in complete view of a perfect stranger, something most women aren't comfortable with.
 #6 
Old 2007-05-29, 12:09
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dodging the rain and tractors
Default Re: Why is this so? Re: Going down on someone

Quote:
Originally Posted by NoSkills
the reason i'd be hesitant about it (hesitant is bit of an understatement) is because it involves a lot of trust. i'm not especially comfortable with the idea of someone going down on me, i didn't even let my boyfriend do it for a good few months.

you don't want to be judged, or criticised. yes, it feels good, but what are they going to think of you? also, it's very very intimate. in some ways more so than sex. you're in complete view of a perfect stranger, something most women aren't comfortable with.


Thats aslightly worrying (although no doubt really correct) answer.

No woman should feel that her genitals might in any way be 'not good', 'dirty' or 'ugly'.

:(

Rather saddens me.
 #7 
Old 2007-05-29, 12:15
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dodging the rain and tractors
Default Re: Why is this so? Re: Going down on someone

It's less convenient for a girl.
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One good reason to wear a skirt:P
 #8 
Old 2007-05-29, 12:46
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Canberra Australia
Default Re: Why is this so? Re: Going down on someone

One good reason to wear a skirt:P

Hahaha funniest thing I've read in awhile.
 #9 
Old 2007-05-29, 12:47
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Georgia USA
Default Re: Why is this so? Re: Going down on someone

I always wear skirts.:P
 #10 
Old 2007-05-29, 12:48
NoSkills NoSkills is offline
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Default Re: Why is this so? Re: Going down on someone

wait - i would never go down on a stranger. i wouldn't want a stranger going down on me either.

i didn't realise that it was the same person doing the giving and receiving in the discussion...
 #11 
Old 2007-05-29, 13:22
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Canberra Australia
Default Re: Why is this so? Re: Going down on someone

Quote:
Originally Posted by NoSkills
wait - i would never go down on a stranger. i wouldn't want a stranger going down on me either.

i didn't realise that it was the same person doing the giving and receiving in the discussion...


It's not. I mean why are guys so willing to allow someone they don't know to get them off, whilst women aren't

Okay a scenario to clear this up

I'm a guy.

If I walked up to a random girl and proposed I go down on her I'd probably get a slap in the face, a restraining order or something.

If I had a sister and she walked up to a random guy and asked if he would like to have his dick sucked I'd imagine he'd jump at the offer.

Why is this so?
 #12 
Old 2007-05-29, 13:27
NoSkills NoSkills is offline
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ok. you can refer to my previous answer then.
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Old 2007-05-29, 13:45
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It's not. I mean why are guys so willing to allow someone they don't know to get them off, whilst women aren't

Okay a scenario to clear this up

I'm a guy.

If I walked up to a random girl and proposed I go down on her I'd probably get a slap in the face, a restraining order or something.

If I had a sister and she walked up to a random guy and asked if he would like to have his dick sucked I'd imagine he'd jump at the offer.

Why is this so?

Because unlike boys girls are a little more complex when it come to sex!

I know this may shock some of you boys but "Get ya coat darlin you just pulled" Although amusing, is in reality just not going to work.
 #14 
Old 2007-05-29, 13:50
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You liar :p haha especially if you were drunk.

This is one of the many reasons why I don't drink in unfamiliar company.

How many times do you see guys trying to pick up whoever they can pull at the end of a night out for something?

I said you'd have to be an idiot, not that it wouldn't happen:p
 #15 
Old 2007-05-29, 13:51
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dodging the rain and tractors
Default Re: Why is this so? Re: Going down on someone

For those who are "slang challenged", what does that mean? :)

Its brit and means 'PLease retrieve your hat and coat from the check in girl as I have decided to come home with you and we shall have freaky deaky monkey sex while hanging from the chandelier'
 #16 
Old 2007-05-29, 14:03
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dodging the rain and tractors
Default Re: Why is this so? Re: Going down on someone

(chuckles)

I'll never be hip...



(which is not a bad thing....:P )

Hip?

Like as in 'wow like cool daddy-o, faaar out man' ?!

oh dear.....

You do know JFK is no longer president?
:P
 #17 
Old 2007-05-29, 14:05
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Default Re: Why is this so? Re: Going down on someone

The night before last, me and my friend (also female) went down on a guy both at once.
PWNT!
Or not.. I don't know how relevant this is. We both knew him.
 #18 
Old 2007-05-29, 14:07
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dodging the rain and tractors
Default Re: Why is this so? Re: Going down on someone

Quote:
Originally Posted by Flock
The night before last, me and my friend (also female) went down on a guy both at once.
PWNT!
Or not.. I don't know how relevant this is. We both knew him.


DROWN IN YOUR LIES!

PIX oR iT NeVeR HapPEned!!!1111
 #19 
Old 2007-05-29, 14:10
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dodging the rain and tractors
Default Re: Why is this so? Re: Going down on someone

I remember that day. I just don't remember where I put my keys yesterday. :P

You think thats bad? keys I have...just can't remember where i left the house...
 #20 
Old 2007-05-29, 14:58
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DROWN IN YOUR LIES!

PIX oR iT NeVeR HapPEned!!!1111
no b seriuss lol!!1
I dunno if it's going to be awkward with them now.. they're a couple and I basically had my mouth on his cock, so did she.
 #21 
Old 2007-05-29, 15:01
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dodging the rain and tractors
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no b seriuss lol!!1
I dunno if it's going to be awkward with them now.. they're a couple and I basically had my mouth on his cock, so did she.

Tell them they need to even things up and he needs to go down on both of you?

Seriouslyy though how the hell did that happen??!
 #22 
Old 2007-05-29, 15:33
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Default Re: Why is this so? Re: Going down on someone

Even better than hijacking this, I shall make a thread about the whole sexy sordid story <3
 #23 
Old 2007-05-29, 15:40
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dodging the rain and tractors
Default Re: Why is this so? Re: Going down on someone

Quote:
Originally Posted by Flock
Even better than hijacking this, I shall make a thread about the whole sexy sordid story <3


'kay but if it starts ' her firm double D cup breasts heaved as she brushed her long golden hair' then you and i will have a falling out, girl!

Don't forget all good threads inculde pics and h4wt steamy lesbian sex.
 #24 
Old 2007-05-29, 15:48
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Default Re: Why is this so? Re: Going down on someone

Because strangers would try to fuck with her gag reflex and choke her. If I didn't know a girls name I'd see how far I could go.
 #25 
Old 2007-05-30, 20:00
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Default Re: Why is this so? Re: Going down on someone

Dante Hicks: How many dicks have you sucked?
Veronica Loughran: Let it go!
Dante Hicks: How many?
Veronica Loughran: All right, shut up a second and I'll tell you! Jesus! I didn't freak out like this when you told me how many girls you fucked!
Dante Hicks: This is different, this is important. How many?
[long pause as customer buys something]
Dante Hicks: Well?
Veronica Loughran: Something like... 36.
Dante Hicks: What? Something like 36?

gotta love Clerks ;)
 #26 
Old 2007-05-30, 20:16
streetjusticeforall streetjusticeforall is offline
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Default Re: Why is this so? Re: Going down on someone

To the original post:

Because I just wanna get some. Simple as that.

I dont care who. I dont care where. I want it.
 #27 
Old 2007-05-30, 23:18
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Canberra Australia
Default Re: Why is this so? Re: Going down on someone

Quote:
Originally Posted by streetjusticeforall
To the original post:

Because I just wanna get some. Simple as that.

I dont care who. I dont care where. I want it.


That doesn't say anything except you're the guy that I said take it. I want to know why girls don't go for it so readily.
 #28 
Old 2007-05-30, 23:27
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Default Re: Why is this so? Re: Going down on someone

I want to know why girls don't go for it so readily.

Is it so hard to accept?

There are many girls that go for it without a second thought. Do you really want that?
 #29 
Old 2007-05-30, 23:29
streetjusticeforall streetjusticeforall is offline
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That doesn't say anything except you're the guy that I said take it. I want to know why girls don't go for it so readily.

Because that does not describe the average girl. That describes me. I don't get what you aren't understanding.

There is no reason why I have no standards when it comes to people sucking my cock. I just dont care. Girls do care. Maybe some have a reason, maybe some dont. Not every girl is the same. But the underlying reason is : They give a shit.
 #30 
Old 2007-05-30, 23:38
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Canberra Australia
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Is it so hard to accept?

There are many girls that go for it without a second thought. Do you really want that?

It's easy to accept, it's whats out there. I don't think there are many girls out there that do. And no, not really but I do wonder why the difference exists.

And to streetjusticeforall - The only thing I don't understand is how stupid you are. A guy doesn't represent the average girl? Hmmm who would have thought. You truly are a shining light of knowledge aren't you? Girls care as you said. What I wanted to know is why they do.
 #31 
Old 2007-05-30, 23:48
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She'd need to be at least reasonably attractive.. I'm not feeding some fat chick my cock, she'll think we're in a relationship or something.
 #32 
Old 2007-05-30, 23:56
streetjusticeforall streetjusticeforall is offline
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It's easy to accept, it's whats out there. I don't think there are many girls out there that do. And no, not really but I do wonder why the difference exists.

And to streetjusticeforall - The only thing I don't understand is how stupid you are. A guy doesn't represent the average girl? Hmmm who would have thought. You truly are a shining light of knowledge aren't you? Girls care as you said. What I wanted to know is why they do.

You honestly can't see for yourself some of the reasons why they may care? And you have the nerve to call me stupid? There are hundreds of physical, mental and social reasons. You can't come up with a few of those on your own?

Give a girl a pair of testicles somewhere on her body, and she will be much more open to the idea of random oral sex than the average girl.
 #33 
Old 2007-05-31, 00:14
TheExecutioner TheExecutioner is offline
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I am not exactly the average guy, but I would not let just any random girl suck me off at the drop of a hat. I would have to know her at least a little, and she would need to be reasonably attractive. I have these things called "standards," you see, and they don't allow for girls I don't like giving me head.
 #34 
Old 2007-05-31, 00:51
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Canberra Australia
Default Re: Why is this so? Re: Going down on someone

And you have the nerve to call me stupid?

Guys don't go for it either, stupid. As you'll read here if you actually read it. Don't be stupid I want to know why they don't take up any offers from guys brash enough to ask, and why if they did they are automatically dirty when it's not the case necessarily with guys.

You aren't gonna lay down any street justice on me are you? haha
 #35 
Old 2007-05-31, 01:07
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Canada
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I bet you're one of the kids that complained about 1+1=2.

"Buuuuuut whhhhhhhyyyyyyyy?"

Beyond social and societal standards, your question was already answered. A guy doesn't have to open up for this sort of thing, only unzip; he doesn't have to expose himself.
 #36 
Old 2007-05-31, 01:13
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Canberra Australia
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A guy doesn't have to open up for this sort of thing, only unzip; he doesn't have to expose himself.

My girlfriends so hawt she sucks me off through telepathy
 #37 
Old 2007-05-31, 01:16
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Canberra Australia
Default Re: Why is this so? Re: Going down on someone

I bet you're one of the kids that complained about 1+1=2.

"Buuuuuut whhhhhhhyyyyyyyy?"


Oh and yeah I'm a scientist so I guess you're right. Am I right in saying I bet you're one of those people that read books and drinks coffee saying "that was a reallllly good bunch of words thrown together and this coffee is black...HOW IT SHOULD BE!

Get off my case.
 #38 
Old 2007-05-31, 01:21
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Canada
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Oh and yeah I'm a scientist so I guess you're right. Am I right in saying I bet you're one of those people that read books and drinks coffee saying "that was a reallllly good bunch of words thrown together and this coffee is black...HOW IT SHOULD BE!

Get off my case.

Oh, I didn't know you were a scientist. Gross.

I don't like sitting around discussing books. It's boring. Books are for reading. Coffee is for once in a while, but it is always black.
 #39 
Old 2007-05-31, 01:50
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Oh, I didn't know you were a scientist. Gross.

I don't like sitting around discussing books. It's boring. Books are for reading. Coffee is for once in a while, but it is always black.

Damn you like reading but can't grasp it really which is sad man considering you like it so much. Discussing books? I implied you sit down and when you finish a book proclaim to yourself that it was good. You couldn't get that from what I said? How do you 'appeciate' books then? :S

Oh and I had the perfect cum ;) back to this all but you know it's too much for everyone here. Especially with the people it might get off side with me.
 #40 
Old 2007-05-31, 02:06
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Damn you like reading but can't grasp it really which is sad man considering you like it so much. Discussing books? I implied you sit down and when you finish a book proclaim to yourself that it was good. You couldn't get that from what I said? How do you 'appeciate' books then? :S

Oh and I had the perfect cum ;) back to this all but you know it's too much for everyone here. Especially with the people it might get off side with me.

Why would I proclaim something to myself? Do you make a habit of talking to yourself? Confused

Alright, we'll bury it. We both know it's in good clean fun. :)
 #41 
Old 2007-05-31, 02:12
streetjusticeforall streetjusticeforall is offline
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Guys don't go for it either, stupid. As you'll read here if you actually read it. Don't be stupid I want to know why they don't take up any offers from guys brash enough to ask, and why if they did they are automatically dirty when it's not the case necessarily with guys.

So you are one of "those" kinds of scientists. Have you never heard of double standards? Honestly. This is getting ridiculous. Close the books and turn on the TV more often. Girls are dirty sluts and guys are mutha fuckin pimps. That is life as we know and live it.

You are trying to make me look bad by discrediting your whole thread. You tell me to read it, and by reading the entire thread, guess what? There is no double standard apparently. Guys would consider themselves dirty too. So then it brings me back to, what the fuck do you want to know?

You just want to know, why dont girls let random guys go down on them? Because it is obviously not a comparison as we have seen. We tried to go the comparison route, and the responses from many males were that you are wrong, they wont let any girl go down on them. We also tried to discuss physical and social aspects in comparison, but you weren't willing to accept that.

So then just straight up ask your real question. Why doesn't every girl in the world just let every guy perform oral sex on them, if the guy has the balls to ask? And then, the mods would most likely consider it a trolling thread, and close it.

Fuck. Judging by your previous posts, you don't even have the brains to process everything I wrote, which is a shame, because it really does put you in your place.
 #42 
Old 2007-05-31, 02:16
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Canberra Australia
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Fuck. Judging by your previous posts, you don't even have the brains to process everything I wrote, which is a shame, because it really does put you in your place.

Haha you're talking up your posts. Pat on the shoulder for a job well done eh? Put me in my place? Hell I didn't even read any of your drivel :)
 #43 
Old 2007-05-31, 02:20
streetjusticeforall streetjusticeforall is offline
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Haha you're talking up your posts. Pat on the shoulder for a job well done eh? Put me in my place? Hell I didn't even read any of your drivel :)

Then how the fuck would you know what I posted? You obviously read it, and just want to seem cool by saying you didn't. It is a classic case scenario when someones post content is too much to handle.
 #44 
Old 2007-05-31, 02:32
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Then how the fuck would you know what I posted? You obviously read it, and just want to seem cool by saying you didn't. It is a classic case scenario when someones post content is too much to handle.

I read the first and last bits only. I'm pissing people off today you know? Yeah probably cause you said I can't handle something...the exact same reply I gave someone else here. Stole it or freaky coincidence. Fuck off dumb cunt :D
 #45 
Old 2007-05-31, 02:35
streetjusticeforall streetjusticeforall is offline
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I read the first and last bits only. I'm pissing people off today you know? Yeah probably cause you said I can't handle something...the exact same reply I gave someone else here. Stole it or freaky coincidence. Fuck off dumb cunt :D

This is the exact reason this thread should be closed. You aren't even giving a shit about the original reason you made the thread. You care about these stupid ass arguments which you obviously can't handle. You wanna have little e-wars? That's fine, but you will lose every time against me.
 #46 
Old 2007-05-31, 02:36
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I read the first and last bits only. I'm pissing people off today you know? Yeah probably cause you said I can't handle something...the exact same reply I gave someone else here. Stole it or freaky coincidence. Fuck off dumb cunt :D

you are a fucking dick just like your name. your in a shitty mood because daddy doesn't love you, virgin.
 #47 
Old 2007-05-31, 02:38
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Canberra Australia
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you are a fucking dick just like your name. your in a shitty mood because daddy doesn't love you, virgin.

Tier 3 of upset grudge posting eh? Go into BLTC I have some threads in there you can be angry with me at in.
 #48 
Old 2007-05-31, 02:39
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Canberra Australia
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This is the exact reason this thread should be closed. You aren't even giving a shit about the original reason you made the thread. You care about these stupid ass arguments which you obviously can't handle. You wanna have little e-wars? That's fine, but you will lose every time against me.

bwahahaha oh noes. *fires up the e-cannon* E-War is hell.

You dumbass.
 #49 
Old 2007-05-31, 07:14
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S. Africa
Default Re: Why is this so? Re: Going down on someone

Quote:
Originally Posted by Trousersnake
Why will any guy (generally speaking) let any girl willing to suck their cock do it, but if a girl was asked by a stranger to go down on them they wouldn't have a part of it unless under what I'd consider not normal circumstances?

Just thought this earlier.


isn't this kind of fucking obvious? i don't know how old you are, but as a teenager, can you imagine girls letting just anyone finger them, for the pure pursuit of pleasure? uh, no. same can be said with oral sex. girls protect that pussy, and you got to earn their trust generally before you can get down there with your hand, then your tongue, and then your dick. whereas guys just want to get as many girls as they can to touch, lick, or ride their weiners, as often as they can.

on a sidenote, i would not let just any girl go down on me. any moderately attractive girl i know, well sure, but not just some random stranger. diseases, man. diseases.
 #50 
Old 2007-05-31, 07:31
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I wouldn't put my cock in the mouth of a stranger... unless it was an old woman with her false teeth out.
 #51 
Old 2007-05-31, 07:52
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Docta?
I wouldn't put my cock in the mouth of a stranger... unless it was an old woman with her false teeth out.


http://www.istockphoto.com/file_thumbview_approve/413722/2/istockphoto_413722_senior_false_teeth.jpg

I held up my end of the deal...
 #52 
Old 2007-05-31, 07:55
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I always wear skirts.:P

When Zek and I were first dating, I ALWAYS wore skirts.. Just in case the need arrived, (which it did a good billion and a half times a day) we could do it anywhere! :p
 #53 
Old 2007-05-31, 15:09
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Georgia USA
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I draw the line when he asks me to forgo my panties, though.:P
 
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