... with my girlfriends best friend. And i'm not in love either. However i've met the girl i've been looking for.

About a month ago i hooked up with this girl (this one is named L) that was known for being a bit easy, but also a bit crazy. She'll meet a guy, fuck after a few weeks, and then "fall in love". The guy will eventually get werided out (which is happening to me) and dumps her, and then she "cries" after a 2 week relationship. Now i told this girl straight out that i'm not really looking for a serious relationship, just a girl i can have a good time with for a while. I've looked at it and realized i'm a terrible boy friend, i flirt with intensions of hooking up with her friends, i don't return her calls, and i've had more than one incident where i say "wow i really don't want to talk/hangout with this girl". She is literally the deffinition of a typical high school girl. Beleive rumors, get's way over dramatic, i don't even tneed to explain how it is anymore. So if this girl falls for me, then it's her own fault when she already knew from the begining.

So recently there was a fair here in my town, and my girlfriend happened to leave to go out of state. So i called up one of her friends (i'll call her J) who i'd hung out with before with my girl, but this time it was just gonna be me her, and my other friends. So we go to the Fair, and ride the rides,and happen to meet up with my girlfriend's best friend (i'll call her C), and her boy friend. So all four of us go on one of these really unsafe Carnival rides. Mine and J's cage faces C's and her boyfriends cage. So we;re like "ohh shit L's gonna be pissed we hung out" (because she's like that). So i used that to my advantage and went for a high five, but got my hand held instead. So we ride the ride, and come to a stop. It takes a while to get off so we kept our selves pre-occupied with making out and fooling around a bit (only so much you can do with the safety bar right over your crotches). However, due to the law of physics, her friends cage flipped durring the ride, and was facing us as we reahed the top and thy caught us. So L calls me crying fliping out (i was too stoned/drunk to really comprehend or care) and i told her it was bullshit, then she calls up J and starts bitching, and she told her nothing happened. So i calm the girl down, and then proceide to got to the Beach with J smoke a bowl, then go back to her house to drink. I didn't progress with my J because my buddy had called it, but he never made a move at her house so we just held hands and flirted alot more at her house.

Now this friend i happened to meet is the exact girl i was looking for. A girl i can chill with, be intimate with, but not get too serious. A girl who doesn't care if i go t a party, or talk to other girls, and i'll be the same exact way, i don't give a shit who she meets. If one of us happens to cheat, a simple appology is good enough, and then we can go on with our lives, if the appology is even neccessary. If this relationship hits off, it's probably gonna be similar to the one i'm in now. I'm gonna flirt with her friends with intentions of hooking up with them, i'd never let her not let me chill with my friends, and i probably wont return all of her calls. However there is a different side to this. I'm never gonna get the " i really don't want to talk/hang out with this girl" everything we hang out, it's always a good time. She's a girl who is out going, and does whatever it may be because she wants to have fun, she doesn't have to look for an excuse on why she fucked a guy.

So does all this make me a scum bag? It's my first actual affair, and i do plan on continuing it. Is there anything i should watch out for with this. I mean i don't care enough if someone get's their heart broken, it's high school, get over it, i went through it. Am i the only one with the right idea? because it seems like everyone in these so called "long term high school relationships" is miserable. I don't know, i'm only 17 years old, and i'm having a great time, and i've come to the conclusion, that's what counts in high school.

I do appologize for any missed punctuations, grammar points, or rambling sentences. A long night of drinking and smoking just makes my thought process the next day plumit.

Dump the girl you dont want.

fuck i was expecting to see "wit a stripper"

Your worse and more boring than T-Pain

What the fuck are you even talking about? Is this not the "sex and affection" forum? Dipshit.

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If you don't dump the one you don't like now your just going to drag it on for a few weeks, make you both miserable, and then dump her. Just do it now and go with the girl who you actually like. Why would you even want to stay with someone who bores you? You said it yourself, your in high school so do what it takes to have some fucking fun.

You said she's the typical high school girl? You're the typical high school boy.

You bring drama upon yourself. Good luck with all that. I'd suggest breaking it ALL off and wait until you have the balls to deal with your actions and the conjoined consequences.

Sounds like typical highschool BULLSHIT to me! Do what ever the fuck you want, it's not like we give two shits of a fuck (something like that)...

This from the guy who tries to impress us with stories of having done martial arts since the age of three and has a hobby of beating kids up with steel bars cos he's soooo hard.

This from the guy who tries to impress us with stories of having done martial arts since the age of three and has a hobby of beating kids up with steel bars cos he's soooo hard.

No actually i took martial arts from age 10, SO WHY DONT YOU GO FUCK YOURSELF ASSHOLE! Your the shittiest fuckin mod on totse! PEACE BITCH!!!!!!!!
your like 50 right? dont you have something better to do than be on totse all god damn day, you need to get a fuckin life dude, like seriously!

No actually i took martial arts from age 10, SO WHY DONT YOU GO FUCK YOURSELF ASSHOLE! Your the shittiest fuckin mod on totse! PEACE BITCH!!!!!!!!

Actually what you said was you'd done martial arts for ten years. I just did the math 13-10=3...

I'm in luv with a stripper
She poppin' she rollin' she rollin'
She climbin' that pole and
I'm in love with a stripper
She trippin' she playin' she playin'
Im not goin' no where girl im stayin'
I'm in luv with a stripper


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JJ7eXPuhhBo

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damn dude, i know exactly how you feel. i think i have been in a similar position. and dude, you sound like my friend ricky, is it indeed you, or no?

Actually what you said was you'd done martial arts for ten years. I just did the math 13-10=3...

oh, your so fuckin funny (der, retard). how about you go and rape your little FAGGIT kid you peice of shit!

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plus one!!!111!!11!!!shiftone!1!!!!!1!

No actually i took martial arts from age 10, SO WHY DONT YOU GO FUCK YOURSELF ASSHOLE! Your the shittiest fuckin mod on totse! PEACE BITCH!!!!!!!!
your like 50 right? dont you have something better to do than be on totse all god damn day, you need to get a fuckin life dude, like seriously!

Jesus, what are you, 12 years old? It's like someone with tourettes got a hold of a computer. GTFO off totse till your balls drop, dumbass. I don't care if you've done martial arts since before you were born, nobody within 100 miles of you cares, and this is the internet, go ahead and say whatever you want but no one here is going to take you seriously.

oh, your so fuckin funny (der, retard). how about you go and rape your little FAGGIT kid you peice of shit!

WOW. Your fucking retarded on so many different levels. JackKetch is actually a great moderator you dumb cunt. Terry Chivo has more damn intelligence and is better at martial arts then you, kidiot. If there is a god then a horrible electrical fire will ignite at your house, killing you and your entire family inside. Therefore aiding Darwinism in wiping your entire tainted seed from the earth.