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AHAHAHA Son you have no idea how much that brings back memories.

Why do you think I always stress to girls here that they should NOT try hinting at things?

We men, especially young men, just can't our heads around the concept that 'would you like to walk me home in this force ten gale with lightening and rain so hard that it'll go through body armour?' actually means ' would you like to call a taxi for me, come up to my place and watch while me and my lesbian friend have h4Wt bath sex together before both going down on you?

No man ever really gets fluent in 'female' but with time and practice you'll recognise a few key phrases (like 'does this dress suit me'?).

It's not too late. Call her up, tell her you're sorry, but the last 3 nights you haven't slept studying for exams. You'd really like to go shopping with her, and to make it up to her, it'll be a really girl (read: laungire (fucked if I know how to spell it) store).

Don't come off as needy. Simply tell her you were really irritable because of the lack of sleep, but you'd love to hang with her sometime.

Lingerie?

(lonn shar ray)

LOL! That just sucks! You exams might have really taken a toll on you...
Just as what these guys are trying to tell you, just contact her and tell her that you want to go out with her...

These guys are wrong, it's too late. She will never go out with you. You blew her off once, she will think that you will do it again, and will never trust you. Sorry mate.

Even if the guy above me is right, whats the harm in trying?

Ive had alot of issues with understanding 'female', its more fucked up than any other language Ive read or heard.
It basicly gives you alot of headaches to get the meaning, because if you go with her to a store, and she tells you not to pack the things (she is buying, she is paying, its her stuff for her own home) and not to carry it, although it may be considered heavy, WHAT THE FUCK? I mean if she just told me to pack it or said it would be nice Id do it in a blink of an eye, but then I froze for a second before I resolved what should I do. I of course packed it up and carried it but she said she would kill me if I wouldnt let HER carry HER groceries, so, unthinking I gave them to her, when she replied they were heavy and gave them back to me. Later on, she said I shouldnt walk her home since she should know the way by now (it was 10pm, and this was her first time in the neighborhood and the store) so I spoonfed her the idea that I really would feel better knowing that she got back home all safe and sound and therefor I will walk her. She of course allowed it.
AND god damnit! The end was the most enigmatic, I helped her to the door and that was the place I left her, I wouldnt barge into her place, so she took the stuff from me and just said 'Thanks, bye' and... thats fucking all... God, this stuff happens everyday and eachday Im thinking to myself how many times Ive fucked up because I read some hint wrong? Especially since I really like this girl...

In short: Girls, dont 'hint' at stuff, guys, always act nice, polite and all that, that way even if you misinterpret some hint you wont fuck up as much.

Blowing off women is never a bad idea. Unless your married or in a serious relationship. When you reject her, you send the impression that she isnt good enough for you, which lowers her self esteem. It makes your acceptance even more important to her. It makes you seem independent and self assured. Girls hate guys that are clingy. Ask her out later on your terms. You already know she's interested. Whats the worst that can happen?

ahah. It's already passed. It's gone. It was an event out of many in your life. Really, what can clinging to this do for you? DO you not realize your potential in this present moment to make any future for yourself, anything you desire that you devote your energy to? But here you are devoting your energy to something in the past.

It's all about being in the moment my friend. They dont say there are a lot of fish out in the sea for no reason. Its because they are. But if you are always hungry for it, you will probably never enjoy the moment, yourself, real sex, you will probably bust a nut immediately, sell your soul to one girl and never find any real lasting contentment. Just BE. Just be and that way, whoever comes your way will be like a cloud passing by, you will never get caught up in them, and you will still be happy after they leave. Stop worrying, it's poison, it's an illusion that you can do something to change the past. Change the present.

God damn man. I don't recall you being this philosophical and wise. Did you smoke some salvia? Trip some DMT?

You dumbass!

God damn man. I don't recall you being this philosophical and wise. Did you smoke some salvia? Trip some DMT?

They say Bodhidarma cut off his eyelids... maybe he did, but I think it's just a saying....

Now, why would one cut off their eyelids, except if they truly desired to be awake... Awake to those who would hate him, awake to those who would love him....

through misery and happiness, through night and day, to be always aware, that every word uttered, every law, every rule, everything is coming and going....

I found myself nearly dead from following the ways of others. Now I follow my own. You call it philisophical, wise, I call it the most basic instinct. Im not so sure if this "relationship" is ever what I wanted. Im not so sure nowadays I ever asked for a car, a secure house, a baby, a ring on my finger, possessions to keep me occupied. I got a guitar, thats good enough? Maybe to fuck, to have sex, but to sit around with one girl, talk about dreams, until you get bored and miserable with each other, and stuff my face, watch movies all day, then go to a job I hate... is this fulfilling to you? If not, maybe you need to become "philisophical" and "wise" yourself, or do you need to see many more die from obesity, heart attacks, stress from failed marriages, stress from bringing up kids in a collapsing system of control that never could last....

Let's face it. I see this neverending suffering at every job I go to and it's telling me one thing: People are not living up to their potential, they're growing restless and that can only lead to one thing, and it's NOT the desire to continue this way of life, come war, chaos, it will not last.

This world is but a giant dream. To remain aware through insult and compliment is to truly live. It's nothing "deep". To be dragged from here to there is to die fast. I dont plan on dying fast. Im not trying to be philisophical. I just wonder why so many people keep listening to what everyone else says, and sacrifices their own willpower for absolutely no good reason except for the fulfillment of another's impermanent, fleeting desire. Time for a change. Im not gonna fucking take it from these bitches or these people, my life is mine. They can go chase dreams, I only want the reality.

damn man hes good!

yarly!

i want whatever he's on!