So this morning I wake up to a text message from one of my friends that I really like, and we send back and forth for about an hour. Then later today we talk back and forth on aim for about 4 hours (this happens just about every day for the past 6 months). THEN I text her until she goes to bed which is about 20 minutes... Is this shit normal? Do just friends talk this much? I fuckin LOVE this girl, I'd talk to her for longer if I could, shes got a great personality and shes hot too... and a virgin. :O

we're 16 btw.

Pefectly normal but means nothing by itself.

Go for it dude. You'll never know if you don't.

yeah.... go for it. try once or twice, she might htink your gay. that happened to me.

Yea dude, usually if you talking to a girl that much its obvious....ive seen people talk like that all the time....especially ur online relationship people....so ur at the normal level when it comes to that type of talking

Text messaging's cute. You better hope they're free or else that bitch is costing you money.

yeah... i always say "my phones about to run of money" or somethin after the first few texts. Unless im trying to pull.

go for it, although remember lots of girls at that age flirt for the hell of it. but the length of time this has been going on suggests otherwise

Why don't you call her? Fuck text messaging for hours on end. But hey, to each his own.

You know, for a couple cents a minute, you can talk on a land-line. Much more personal AND cheaper than 5-10 cent text messages that can barely support conversation. You should try it.

you talk online and through text messages. wtf?

why not call her or do something with her in person? when do you ever see/talk to this girl face to face?

Those of you who say 'Why not just call her?'
You dont suffer from the
"Oh shit. I just whored myself out for her attention, I'm wasting her time, dont actually have anything to say and I'm coming across as a complete twat! oh fuck oh fuck oh fuck...."
thing at all?


texting is cool. I'd rather spend a few pounds texting someone and them being able to respond when they wanted to rather than phone them and demand their immediate attention.




Thread Starter: perhaps she really likes you? and finds you as cool as you find her?
This doesent mean she's automatically trying to sex you though, so be carefull. If you like her as much as you say, randomly lumbering over to her and saying "SO LIEK YOU WANNA MAKE OUET?" like a typical totse member may well scare her away.

Those of you who say 'Why not just call her?'
You dont suffer from the
"Oh shit. I just whored myself out for her attention, I'm wasting her time, dont actually have anything to say and I'm coming across as a complete twat! oh fuck oh fuck oh fuck...."
thing at all?

I suffer from that when I'm worrying about what to say. Silence isn't awkward unless you're trying to force conversation. Letting your thoughts flow>forcing speech. And if it comes to you running out of fresh thoughts, you can always use an awesome in-line such as, "I really like talking with you, but I need to go, would you like to meet up later?" If phones are bad for you, learn how to end a phone-call smoothly AND make real plans in a single sentence.

texting is cool. I'd rather spend a few pounds texting someone and them being able to respond when they wanted to rather than phone them and demand their immediate attention.

Well, if there's any chemistry, you won't need to demand attention. They'll be glad to speak with you, glad to meet up with you. Maybe even glad to give you first date lovin'.

Those of you who say 'Why not just call her?'
You dont suffer from the
"Oh shit. I just whored myself out for her attention, I'm wasting her time, dont actually have anything to say and I'm coming across as a complete twat! oh fuck oh fuck oh fuck...."
thing at all?

This man understands me. And we've both got unlimited texts, so its cool.

And I've been looking for shit to do with her for the past month or two.. concerts, movies, etc. Ive been to her house but nothing went down, there really wasnt an opportunity for it cuz her parents were always around, and I need alcohol/weed to function like a beast.