I have been dating this girl for 6 months now. To understand the situation you have to understand her background. She is 16, she has been through alot in her life. She comes from a broken home and lives with her Grandma after her mother lost custody of her and her brother. Her mother has an alcoholic that brought it abusing boyfriends. Her father died 5 years ago. She tried to kill herself from the trama when she was 11.

Then she met me. I was her first but she has had alot of boyfriends in the past. This is my first serious relasthonship. We have a few consistant problems I don't know how to deal with.

The most recent problem has me very confused. I started asking her about past experiences and she told me how she got really drunk with one of her friends and she woke up the next morning with the taste of semen in her mouth. I didn't understand this because she has always refused to give me head even though I have eaten her out a few times. When I asked her why she got really upset and started crying saying that she didnt want to talk about it. She mentioned something about her brother doing something to her. What i think happened is that her brother made her give him a BJ, but who knows how much etc.

So you can see why I would be upset. She gets mad at me when I try to talk about it. But she gave some random dude a BJ. I was really upset after she told me about this, I was alrdy upset from different things too. She dosn't ask me what is wrong I get the feeling she dosn't care about me even though she says she does. I just have no idea how to measure the strength of our relasthonship.

I just get upset when I think about this BJ. I get jealous when I see her hugging her guy friends in pictures. She will barely give me a kiss in school. I get pissed off when she says she will call me in the morning but instead goes on facebook first before calling me. IDK...

what to do?

Dude,

What a girl does before you and her hook up shouldn't matter in the slightest. If it does, you have issues that you have to work through yourself.

It is obviously a big deal to her what happened with her brother. When she's ready to talk, she will. Mabey it will be with you, mabey it won't. Mabey it will be tomorrow, mabey it will be in 5 years time. Just a hint - it probably won't be you if you keep hassaling for a blow job.

Some chicks don't like giving head. Mabey your cock stinks. Whatever it is, I bet you keep bringing it up, and she just gets the shits with you and digs her heals in. Let it go, and try and do some fun things with her without trying to have sex all the time. She'll appreciate it, and will be more likely to open up to you.

If she doesnt give head how does she know she woke up with teh taste of semen in her mouth - how would she know what it tastes like? Shes being a brat. Tell her to grow up.

Maybe it's an elaborate ploy just to not give head.

It wouldn't matter to you if she was a slut before you met her.

why don't i trust her with her guy friends...

You're a dumbass for 2 reasons namely

1. You're jealous of a blowjob your girl could have given her brother years ago when she was drunk and didn't remember

2. You're with a girl who doesn't suck dick.

It wouldn't matter to you if she was a slut before you met her.
Thats something I'd consider before going out with someone....

why don't i trust her with her guy friends...

You have insecurity issues. Deal with them, or dump her.