I've been trying for ages to try and attain ejaculation mastery for a while now and yesterday, I got it. I've read ebooks and forums galore, and done exercise after exercise to try and gain control of when I come, so that I can achieve that oh so sweet dry orgasm. While I didn't manage the dry orgasm, I managed the ejaculation control.

So me and the girlfriend were in bed together. I had asked her to learn deepthroat as my birthday present, and she was wanting to know how well she was coming along with it, so she was giving me the best blowjob she'd ever given me. It made me a very happy boy :)

I really, really didnt want it to end. Sure if I blew my load I'd get one hell of a good feeling, but getting there was pretty damn good too. So I racked my brains for all the things I read and practiced about jizz control. One piece of information sprang to mind. Relax. When you're about to jizz, your balls raise up before sending their goods off to the prostate. I had to relax myself so they didn't raise. Its like a revolver, can't shoot it's load if its not cocked and ready.

So instead of tensing some muscles like I've heard can be done to prevent it, I tried something I'd never done before. I relaxed all the muscles I could in my gooch area to bring my balls back down. In short, I pretty much tried to take a shit. And it worked.

Now I've heard people say "use the muscles that you would to stop yourself peeing", but I allways incidently raise my balls trying to find those muscles and make myself jizz faster. The take a shit method is something I'm going to look into. Because I was enjoying myself so much and wanted to offload, I was tense enough that I didnt actually shit, but relaxed enough to not come.

It was awesome

I'm awaiting the "FUCK guys I shit myself in my girlfriend's bed" thread eagerly.

I'll try not to be the one to deliver that thread

That's not a problem, I'd appreciate it whoever posted it.

Pretty cool you managed to control yourself that well. For dry orgasm, though, you need to use the tensing method, since you're keeping the semen back when you orgasm. Although keeping it back as long as you want would also be great. Kudos to you!

Now set your girlfriend the challenge of making you cum when you're actively trying not to. She'll spur herself on to new heights of oral skill trying to break your control, which can only be win for you.

I loled. Hard.