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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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# 1

2007-05-27, 05:22
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My Girlfriend's at a party...
She is an amazing girlfriend. I am very much in love with her. We have been going out for over 8 months.
Tonight she went to a big party at some guy from school's house. She went with 3 friends (all girls). This party is BYOB and she brought a mickey of vodka, a twixer of whiskey, and a 6-pack of smirnoff ice. She is planning on getting totally TRASHED. And by trashed I mean forget your name, losing total control, pass out on the floor, borderline alcohol poisoning.
She is 16 and I am 17 now.
There is a pool at this guys house and she said that she will go swimming there too, even though she brought no bathing suit.
Which brings me to what she is wearing. She is wearing a pair of extremely revealing short shorts, and a tube top that shows off her boobs and her bellybutton. She doesn't dress like this on a regular basis.
I totally trust her in normal circumstances, but I don't trust her when she is wasted to the point where she passes out.
What is your opinion, totse?
Should I just break up with her?
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# 2

2007-05-27, 05:26
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Re: My Girlfriend's at a party...
sounds like she'll be the kind of drunk where you pee yourself, in which case you're in the clear as far as other guys fucking her.
but yeah, i'd be pretty pissed. what do you do? you occupy yourself and try not to go crazy thinking about it, and then tomorrow you find out what happened and if she's a huge slut you dump her and treat her like a huge slut. if nothing happened you at the very least ask her why she feels the need to dress like a whore and get trashed with a bunch of people she probably can't trust to drag her drunk ass to a couch and make sure she doesn't choke on her own vomit. the bottom line is, you talk to her very seriously. and then you see what kind of pattern this becomes.
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# 3

2007-05-27, 05:32
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Re: My Girlfriend's at a party...
you're a fucking idiot. I'm too lazy to count the ways.
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# 4

2007-05-27, 06:38
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Re: My Girlfriend's at a party...
Should you just break up with her? Give me a break, if you trust her you wouldn't be talking like that. Wait until you find out how her night went (which i'm sure was pretty harmless) before you start asking yourself questions like that.
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# 5

2007-05-27, 06:54
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Re: My Girlfriend's at a party...
You should stay with her if you want the type of girl that feels the need to get hopelessly drunk, possibly risking her life to do so. Which means she probably has some major issues.
She could also be testing you (telling you these things) to see your reaction to this situation (hint: act somewhat worried and upset, while still seeming to trust her. Shows you care / are jealous, which she probably likes, most girls do).
You piss her off recently?
Anyways, Not my sorta gf material, but each to their own.
Oh, and its alot easier to break up later than to un-breakup.
And, Finally, pixplzthx
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# 6

2007-05-27, 06:56
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Re: My Girlfriend's at a party...
What the fuck?! Dump that bitch!
I mean right now!
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# 7

2007-05-27, 07:26
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Re: My Girlfriend's at a party...
1. Dress up as a clown.
2. Sneak into the party.
3. ???
4. Profit
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# 8

2007-05-27, 07:47
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Re: My Girlfriend's at a party...
If you love her enough, trust her. If you don't, don't trust her. But becareful not to love someone you can't trust.
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# 9

2007-05-27, 10:50
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Re: My Girlfriend's at a party...
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Originally Posted by pepper23
She is planning on getting totally TRASHED. And by trashed I mean forget your name, losing total control, pass out on the floor, borderline alcohol poisoning.
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I've never understood why people find this fun. Get drunk, don't get fucked up.
OP, you better hope two things. One, that you can trust her. Two, that you can trust the people at the party. Guess you'll find out soon.
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# 10

2007-05-27, 11:13
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Re: My Girlfriend's at a party...
The questions is'nt if you trust your girlfriend or not, it's if you trust the boys at the party. Who wears short shorts?
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#11
 2007-05-27, 11:21
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avivsworld 
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Re: My Girlfriend's at a party...
Are you near the party? If yes, why aren't you there?
Just ask people who were there what she did. If it's bad, talk to her about it, don't just dump her straight away. 8 months is a lot to throw away, especially at that age.
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#12
 2007-05-27, 11:31
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Re: My Girlfriend's at a party...
If she dresses up like that and brings that amount of alcohol it sounds as if she's almost trying to end up being taken advantage of, in which case you're pretty screwed (and so will she be LOLPUN).
First ask her if she can remember much about the party, what happened and then if you think she's being dishonest perhaps voice your fears of her having cheated on you.
Then if that doesn't happen/go well, ask one of her friends that was there with her.
Hopefully they'll be able to remember SOMETHING about what happened if they played the good mate role and looked out for her.
But best of luck dude.
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#13
 2007-05-27, 11:42
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pepper23 
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Re: My Girlfriend's at a party...
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Originally Posted by polonius
Should you just break up with her? Give me a break, if you trust her you wouldn't be talking like that. Wait until you find out how her night went (which i'm sure was pretty harmless) before you start asking yourself questions like that.
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I know, I'm just freaking out. But if this becomes habit, then I don't know how long I can take it.
If you love her enough, trust her. If you don't, don't trust her. But be careful not to love someone you can't trust.
I trust her, but not when she's moments from passing out drunk at a party.
Are you near the party? If yes, why aren't you there?
Just ask people who were there what she did. If it's bad, talk to her about it, don't just dump her straight away. 8 months is a lot to throw away, especially at that age.
I'm not there because I hate the motherfucker throwing the party. I can't stand him. And I know 8 months is a lot to throw away. I wasn't going to just phone her up and call it quits. If I do break up with her because of this, it will only be because it becomes a habit, and she likes it, and she isn't going to change it. Those would be the only reasons/conditions in which I would.
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#14
 2007-05-27, 16:13
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reborn thief 
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Re: My Girlfriend's at a party...
if you hate him. wait about an hour so you know hell be drunk as fuck. secretely hop the fence. nobody would notice. knock the kid out and put him in the closet and then if your gf ask just say "i got invited have you seen the host?"
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#15
 2007-05-27, 16:28
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Re: My Girlfriend's at a party...
i didn't really flinch until the swimming and what she's wearing. girls i know go get trashed beyond belief on all sorts of crap, about half get slutty, the other half don't, not all girls' brains treat alcohol as a slutty switch.
isn't it morning where yuou are yet? ask her how it was, if she's okay, act worried and she'll feel guilty for making you worry for her welfare. if she knows it worries you and you think it's dumb, she might reconsider her own views on it and perhaps see things in a light more like yours.
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#16
 2007-05-27, 16:49
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Re: My Girlfriend's at a party...
Are you kidding. You KNOW from the facts of what you have told US that she IS asking for it.
Shes asking for it long and hard.
Go to the party and watch what happens. Shes 16 for gods sake and your letting her drink with no supervision? You idiot.
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#17
 2007-05-27, 16:52
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Strakynyar Krongoth 
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Re: My Girlfriend's at a party...
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Originally Posted by getoffmylawn
you're a fucking idiot. I'm too lazy to count the ways.
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QFT.
1. Dress up as a clown.
2. Sneak into the party.
3. ???
4. Profit
Also a good point.
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#18
 2007-05-27, 17:24
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Re: My Girlfriend's at a party...
why didn't you go to the party with her?
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#19
 2007-05-27, 17:35
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Re: My Girlfriend's at a party...
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Originally Posted by getoffmylawn
you're a fucking idiot. I'm too lazy to count the ways.
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Are you kidding. You KNOW from the facts of what you have told US that she IS asking for it.
Shes asking for it long and hard.
Go to the party and watch what happens. Shes 16 for gods sake and your letting her drink with no supervision? You idiot.
QFMFT
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#20
 2007-05-27, 17:38
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jackdaniels 
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Re: My Girlfriend's at a party...
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Originally Posted by vilbe
why didn't you go to the party with her?
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That's what I'm thinking. I know if my girlfriend goes to a party and is getting trashed off her ass, im going to be there, even more trashed, and if there's any sexing up, it's going to be me sexing her up.
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#21
 2007-05-27, 17:41
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Re: My Girlfriend's at a party...
the type of girl that feels the need to get hopelessly drunk, possibly risking her life to do so. Which means she probably has some major issues.
Shes 16 for gods sake and your letting her drink with no supervision? You idiot.
Is this some sort of cultural thing where it's not utterly normal for teenagers to get completely slaughtered for no reason in whatever crazy moon-country you're from?
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#22
 2007-05-27, 18:07
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Re: My Girlfriend's at a party...
Go to the party and watch what happens. Shes 16 for gods sake and your letting her drink with no supervision? You idiot.
I'm her boyfriend, not her fucking father. I don't need to "supervise" her...
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#23
 2007-05-27, 18:41
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Re: My Girlfriend's at a party...
So, what's the verdict? Is she home yet?
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#24
 2007-05-27, 19:17
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NiGhT PrOwLeR 
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Re: My Girlfriend's at a party...
You should have came with her!
you BASTARD!, you dont send your woman out into enemy territory for a nekkid swim,
thats like bending over and letting the enemy forces ram their flag up your anus, or in this case your girls anus.
but really, people get drunk,
ask her what happened there
then ask some other people what she was doing, if nothing happened just tell her you're pissed at what she did,
if she ended up with her end up, dump her.
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#25
 2007-05-27, 19:38
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Re: My Girlfriend's at a party...
Don't know if its been said, but.... Why don't you just goto the party?
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#26
 2007-05-27, 19:45
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Re: My Girlfriend's at a party...
That's what I'm thinking. I know if my girlfriend goes to a party and is getting trashed off her ass, im going to be there, even more trashed, and if there's any sexing up, it's going to be me sexing her up.
Except your like a short 14 year old ginger...
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#27
 2007-05-27, 20:29
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Assfuck Pennsylvania.
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Re: My Girlfriend's at a party...
Do any of you assholes even bother to READ THE FUCKING THREAD? He didnt go because he hates the cunts throwing the party,he said it earlier.
What i'm wondering is why he let a 16 year old goto a party with the intentions of getting that fucked up and going swimming at a party with a bunch of dudes (ones that he's on bad sides with nonetheless). Most 16 year olds don't give a shit about anyone but themselves and just date people because it's the thing to do during highschool.
Ask her what happened and to be honest. Since she sounds like a generic teenage moron,find out more from someone else at the party and make a decision then.
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#28
 2007-05-27, 20:30
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Re: My Girlfriend's at a party...
dude sorry to tell you i fucked her. it was really good. she said you just don't do it for her anymore becuase a. you are ugly 2. you have a tiny dick 3. she likes anal and you won't give her it.
sorry bro
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#29
 2007-05-27, 20:37
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Re: My Girlfriend's at a party...
Do any of you assholes even bother to READ THE FUCKING THREAD? He didnt go because he hates the cunts throwing the party,he said it earlier.
Thats even more reason to go...If my girlfriend goes to a party like that, especially with people I don't know/like, I make sure I'm there. If he's that ball-less that he won't go, because he doesnt like whose throwing the party, he's just asking to get cheated on....
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#30
 2007-05-27, 21:57
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Re: My Girlfriend's at a party...
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Originally Posted by chickenpoop
Don't know if its been said, but.... Why don't you just goto the party?
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Also I was at a diff party celebrating my buddy going away to college. I would rather go to that than some lame high school party.
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#31
 2007-05-27, 22:00
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Re: My Girlfriend's at a party...
Also I was at a diff party celebrating my buddy going away to college. I would rather go to that than some lame high school party.
but your gf was getting fucked at that lame party by the quarterback who is a nigger
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#32
 2007-05-28, 01:42
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Re: My Girlfriend's at a party...
but your gf was getting fucked at that lame party by the quarterback who is a nigger
You're a nigger troll?
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#33
 2007-05-28, 01:45
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drugsrbad 
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Re: My Girlfriend's at a party...
You're a nigger troll?
yep you are half right
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#34
 2007-05-28, 01:53
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Re: My Girlfriend's at a party...
Also I was at a diff party celebrating my buddy going away to college. I would rather go to that than some lame high school party.
Couples that play together, stay together.
It doesn't seem as if you have an interest in the relationship, outside of how long it has continued. It sounds to me like you're just looking for a reason to get out of it.
Could her reaction have come from your loud objections to her attending the party?
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#35
 2007-05-28, 02:47
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Re: My Girlfriend's at a party...
This makes a bit more sense now.
You both have a different party on the same night. I guess she wants to party with her friends, you want to party with yours.
I'm also guessing you have tried to get her to go to yours, and her reaction was "well, I am dressing like a slut, and getting drunk, and planning on swimming naked" - all to try and get you to back down.
Well, dude, 10 points for not giving in. Chances are, she's bluffing. If not, she was going to dump you soon anyway - this way, she at least has a bit of fun.
Just chill, enjoy your party, and see what happens. You've cast your chick out, and basically implied "do what ever the fuck you want". It's up to her now....
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#36
 2007-05-28, 12:18
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Re: My Girlfriend's at a party...
Couples that play together, stay together.
It doesn't seem as if you have an interest in the relationship, outside of how long it has continued. It sounds to me like you're just looking for a reason to get out of it.
Could her reaction have come from your loud objections to her attending the party?
No, not at all. I didn't even know of my party til 2 days before, and I was never planning on going to the other party anyways, because apart from my gf, I don't really know anybody there.
And I left subtly hints, but never objected or made a big deal of it.
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#37
 2007-05-29, 04:55
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Re: My Girlfriend's at a party...
Uhhh. I would break up with my gf if she did that. Whos she trying to impress dressing like that?
and being that trashed you know shit will go down
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#38
 2007-05-29, 06:35
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Re: My Girlfriend's at a party...
she probably fucked everybody at the party. dump her.
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#39
 2007-05-29, 23:12
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Re: My Girlfriend's at a party...
so what happened>? did she bang everyone and then you killed yourself?
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#40
 2007-05-30, 03:36
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Re: My Girlfriend's at a party...
Except your like a short 14 year old ginger...
No. I'm not 14. I'm not short. And I'm not a ginger.
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