#1 - Should I be Angry?!?

Ok, the scene: a party...

so my boyfriend and I were both horribly drunk...like to the point inwhich you forget who your talking to or where you are...or why...yes...expensive wine will do that...anywho...

he starts opening his heart out to me, you know; "I love you, I think about you all the time...I wake up thinking about you!"

and then I reply with "well prove it...Go kiss {other girl}"
Ok yeah it doesn't make much sense now, but at the time the logic was definaintly there...somewhere! lol!

So he does it no doubt.
I wake up and remember...
he says sorry but secretly I still a tad worried/pissed off
Was this just a drunken stupor or something more?
Should I be angry?!?

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#2 - At what point is alcohol consumption a problem?

Yes it's him again but not just him - myself as well...

we share eachothers problems and each others alcohol, it's really quite pathetic as we are both increadibly smart/talented people with bright future's ahead.

My friends tell me to stop him drinking by not drinking infont of him so he knows it's not acceptable...BUT I can't...the wine's just devine...

I askled him once whether he thinks we have a problems he said "It's only a problem if you want to change it" and the truth is I don't...I couldn't...

we've both even accused eachother of preffering alcohol to oneanother...not that I believe that it's true...

I don't want him to wind up homeless and with nothing because he has SO much potential!

hmmm....what should I do? Is it really a problem?

The real question you should be asking is why am I going on the internet to ask a bunch of strangers what I should be feeling, and whether or not the vague amount of information I just gave them makes it seem like I'm interesting and have a wicked cool "drinking problem?"

Oh, that's right. (http://lelombrik3.free.fr/Photo/attention_whore.jpg)

So let me get this right.....

A guy you care about, tell you he loves you? Your response to that INSTEAD of reciprocating his feelings/thoughts is to come up with some nonsensical immature dare? So to "prove" his love, he follows through with the dare (YOUR dare, not his idea)? And the next day you are now pissed because he did as you asked??????

Not only are you a drunken lush, but a psycho whore to boot. Gals like you are great to pick up at the bar and roll around in bed with for a night......but its best to GET FAR AWAY from whack jobs like you once the sex is over. You are NOT girlfriend/wife material, and perhaps your only future is just blowjob barfly until you get so old no one even wants to think about it.

By the way, telling us about how pricey your booze is...is NOT impressing anyone, nor is it making you appear any less a gutter piece of trash. It doesn't matter if your drinking some fancy cabernet from France or a bottle of Nightrain......you are just a wino.....nothing more, nothing less.

1) No, I don't even see how you could be angry if you're the one who asked him to kiss her (?)
2) This is just a stupid question cause it's different for everyone, but I'm pretty sure you do not have a problem at all but are indeed attention whoring.

im sure he wouldnt mind if YOU kissed other girls...

This is the stupidest fucking thread ever. It isn't even a "problem." You and your boyfriend sound boring and dense so get some better personalities and then try again.

The real question you should be asking is why am I going on the internet to ask a bunch of of strangers what I should be feeling, and whether or not the vague amount of information I just gave them makes it seem like I'm interesting and have a wicked cool "drinking problem?"

Oh, that's right. (http://lelombrik3.free.fr/Photo/attention_whore.jpg)

I concur.

Question 1: You told him to prove he loved you by kissing another girl, so he did. Or you meant go kiss that girl there (to prove you only want me by not kissing her)
You should have been a little more descriptive in your test plus you were both drunk. Let it slide.

Question 2: If you have any doubts about you guys having a drinking problem, set yourself some targets. Keep alcohol in your house and don't touch it. Gon on with your life without drinking until you meet your target time. If you can't do that then I'd say go call alcoholics anonymous.
If alcohol is ruling your life or something, knock it off.
I love a beer but some days I can't be bothered. Hell, some weeks I can't be bothered. I know I control the alcohol. Not the other way around.

My question to answer your question is:if you could go back and change it.
would you?

Oh and you dont have a drinking problem unless you drink like jackketch.

Jack doesn't have a drinking problem until he starts drinking like someone else.

Jack doesn't have a drinking problem until he starts drinking like someone else.

I never said he had a problem but most people who drink the same amount he does would.;)

he starts opening his heart out to me, you know; "I love you, I think about you all the time...I wake up thinking about you!"

and then I reply with "well prove it...Go kiss {other girl}"

painfully flawed logic.

"It's only a problem if you want to change it"

...ditto.

consensus: both of you are idiots, and your reliance on and attitude about alcohol is pathetic.