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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2007-05-24, 20:36
lmaorofl lmaorofl is offline
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On a starting side note, I'm moving. Like, different city/ county/school, everything.
I have a girlfriend, we've been dating for a little while. not real long, like three months about, and I just can't bring myself to break up with her because I'm moving.
I mean, its not too far, I could still see her every couple weeks or whatever, but she has this distance problem. Maybe she won't, but I know from previous partners she's had, once they break up, she finds a new one in a day or so. She just can't be without BEING with someone.
and I don't know if this is going to effect us.

Then, I have this other girl I've been friends with, and she told me she liked me. The thing is, I've liked her back since before I started dating my current girlfriend.

And she knows I like her back, and I know she likes me, but I have this girlfriend AND I'm moving.
I know you're thinking, 'why not stay with your girlfriend?'
I guess because we're not doing too amazing right now. Lots of fights, can't make her happy.

The distance with the other chick wouldn't be a problem, I know, and I'd still see her too, but I don't know who to choose!
So totse,
the question:
-Do I break up with my girlfriend and date this other girl?

-or do I just forget about them both, and wait until I move and find someone there.
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Old 2007-05-24, 21:14
Beka Beka is offline
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-or do I just forget about them both, and wait until I move and find someone there.

That is what will happen in the end...
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Old 2007-05-24, 21:21
Flock Flock is offline
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I'd probably say "grow some balls and do the right thing" because it's a typical totse response, but I think I remember you being a female.
Sometimes things are just hard to sort out, even hypothetically.
I'd say break up with your girlfriend(if you really think it's the best option) and step away from the whole situation for a while before choosing who and what to do.
Er I dunno....
Tired.
At least you have a girlfriend.. unlike some!!
Heheh, sorry.
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Old 2007-05-24, 21:54
256 256 is offline
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I know from previous partners she's had, once they break up, she finds a new one in a day or so. She just can't be without BEING with someone.

Damn.


-or do I just forget about them both, and wait until I move and find someone there.

This does actually seem like the best thing to do, if your current girl can't deal with (long)distance. But, god knows, giving up on even the shittiest and most unlikely relationships is hard.
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Old 2007-05-24, 22:24
sidewayz6.6 sidewayz6.6 is offline
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...so you're a lesbian? NICE!!! :D
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Old 2007-05-24, 22:31
chumpion chumpion is offline
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You need to work out which one has the stronger tongue muscles. Cause love will come and go, but a girl that can lick a pussy real good is a keeper.....
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Old 2007-05-25, 00:32
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I know you're thinking, 'why not stay with your girlfriend?'
.

I was actually thinking Screw it. If she's going to go and get someone else the next day then she don't really care about you. bang your "friend" and forget about your girlfriend. And keep your "friend" as a fuck buddy for the few times when you see each other and get some tang in the place you're moving to


I like that plan.
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Old 2007-05-25, 12:01
ZeroMalarki ZeroMalarki is offline
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Forget them both, you can pop back and see whoever you like if its not that inconvenient sometime. Otherwise, it's no issue.
 
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