Need some advice...

Last week, I met a girl through a friend, and we flirted a little, although nothing major.

Originally, the three of us made plans to go out for tomorrow night, and I was just going to find another friend to tag along. However, today I find out that my friend can't make it, and they have invited several other girls to come along....so now, I'm going to be the only guy in a group of 6 or 7 girls.

I see this as a problem, as it will be more difficult for me to talk to her one on one. The good thing about this situation is that I am friends with most of these girls, and am comfortable around them, so that could work to my advantage...but I'd really prefer there be more guys there with me, not only to work as wingmen, but just because I'm going to look like a queer with all those girls.

Is there any way I can take advantage of this situation and still make a move on her, or would it be more appropriate to wait when I have time alone with her ?(which I fear will be difficult to get).

You will only look like a queer if you act like a queer.

Wingmen are like training wheels.

Here's how you'll do it.

The trickiest part is to act slightly cocky from the beginning. Not asshole-like arrogance but don't be the "nice guy" who she can only be friends with. Tease some of the other girls at different times during the discussion. Talk to her, but don't tease her. That will show her, even subtly, that you don't think of her as just like all the other girls. This part is important, put yourself next to the girl or as close as possible. This gives you an oppourtunity to talk to her even with all your friends around. Whisper stuff into her ear. Anything really. Even if it is, "Look at Ashley, she has a piece of food on her lip."

Make eye contact and smile as much as possible.

Relax.

When in the group, keep flirting to a minimum.

Get her number and suggest that you see her again.

that's good advice above... also make sure to build a repertoire with all the females. talk to all of them, participate in the group discussions, this will show that you are confident enough to socialize and are not intimidated by being around several (attractive i'm hoping) females.

and quit that shit about being around 6-7 girls making you look queer??? that's off the chain PIMPIN' if you know how to carry yourself. I was in a similar situation last year at a party I went to... I was invited over and all her girls were getting ready, I was the only dude there chillin with 6-7 hott women. it was fuckin awesome. get your goddamn mind right man, this is a ballin opportunity you have.

Where we goin' dude?...I'm in!

Don't worry about the gay thing too much...Being in the middle of a group of girls can be fun. It can be annoying when they keep jabbering on about their boring crapola but on the whole it ain't too bad.

Just try to integrate yourself into the conversations as much as you can and hope for the best.

Also, you may want to think about making it known to a couple of the girls that you really like this other girl. Women have a way of making things happen. They can't help themselves most of the time because most of them are nosy!

Why would you limit yourself to one girl?

Try and get to know them all, be funny, witty, and see where you end up. Who is to say after a few drinks Truth or Dare could not be instigated? And we all know where that can lead.....lol.

You're young - go and have fun. You never know if one of the other girls is a better match for your personality.

It's all good advice from the people above though - think about it, and do what you feel best doing.