Welcome to the fun affairs of Modzilla and his best friend...

I always loved her, She's always had him. They've always argued - She's always ran to me, I've always fixed it. She's always needed a helping a hand, I've always been there.

Generally, I was the emotional tampon so to speak.

Until, I had a giant argument 3 weeks ago and I told her "I can't fucking take this anymore. I fucking LOVE you, Can you understand that emotion?" - Ever since then we've been closer then ever.

Then we had another argument... and I pushed and pushed her to tell me what was wrong...
"I cant tell you.. its messed up..."
"Please.. Im gonna ask you repeatedly until you tell me!"
"Noo..."
"I'm not going..."
"Ok... I love you... I cant bottle this shit up anymore.."
"Thats wrong?"
"I'VE GOT A BOYFRIEND FERG..."

So it appeared we where both even... I continued helping her shit out, and she done the same for me. We where as close as EVER - We still are.

Shes stilling having shit with her bf.. But I don't mind about him - As long as shes happy.

Theres been another kid who is pestering her a bit - I have been helping her with him.. (If, accidentally, stirring shit up :|)

Anyway, We had a long discussion yesterday where I actually had her rolling on the floor laughing for real... at the side of the road! I then went home and rang her - we chatted and discussed:
-We're both jealous of eachother. She's jealous of a gay dude I know and a slut I know. And I'm jealous of this dude pestering her..
-She saved me at the weekend. I was stuck with a bunch of retards for 2 days and 2 nights and I didn't talk to them - I sat there txting her! (Much to her boyfriends annoyance)
-I feel really strongly for her... REALLY STRONGLY.

Then at the end of the phone call, When I had tears in my eyes and stuff, This happened...
"Ok.. Cya!"
"Bye" (We always do this in a really gay camp voice - Its meant to be cute I think :P)
"Bye..."
*long pause..."
"Love You... Oh.. *hangup*"

She said it again? But... It sounded so.. so.. deep? I spent the night and today thinking about it and I rang her earlier on (WIth the latest gossip on her pest) and she brought it up..

"I may have said something yesterday..."
"Really? Uhmm..."
"Yes.. To you.."
"Uhmm..."
"Oh, You didnt hear.. Im in the clear..." *jokingly*
"I did... I was touched"
"Ohhh.. You did... well?"
"You didnt need to hang up! I sat there confused for about half an hour!"
*she laughs*
"Well, I said it aswell yesterday... About 3 times!"
"Oh yeah... Im confused!" *laughing again*

Then we changed subject...

Now, She said she loved me twice - I have said it about 3 times, Yet she always talks about her boyfriends problems immediately afterwards... Like theres a hidden message. What can I do? How can I cope?

I know the bf acts all friendly to me.. but she has told me hes got jealous of me before. As she will come to me before him alot of the time.. but vice versa aswell.

I need help!?! I just want to talk about this so called "Love" but how? She brought it up in convo today but we changed subject... Its awkward to talk about it. I dont want to act like "OMG, YOU LOVE ME.. LOLZ WE'RE GONNA RUN AWAY TOGETHER", Or it looks like im getting my hopes up forgetting the bf and shit.

How can I act about this? Im stumped... I've never been here before.

my friend,my deepest sympathy goes out to you,and i think i can safetly say that all of us men at one time or another in life go through a expierience much like your own,[not exactly a replica of your exact conundrum but im sure you can understand what im saying],, now as how to deal with it that is a different case,heres some additional info we all might need to further analyze your problem and provide you a quick solution to your liking

-how long have you known her for
-does it ever seems shes the type who would possibly play others for her own egotistical gain?
-and how serious is she with the guy?
-also have either of you ever even fooled around or even had any sorta physical interaction with each other??

none the less,stay strong if you really like this girl but stay aware that the torment of your feelings could very well be lurking around the corner if it all goes sour

You're the "emotional tampon"...If she pisses you off and you leave, who else does she bleed all over?

Easiest way is to say she loves you too, keep it in your mind that you may have a chance getting her in the end while she's with this dude who probably has a bigger wang than you do or something.

If it's love then you two would be together. She wouldn't be with her boyfriend for starters.

This is attention whoring as far as I can see.

Maybe I'm missing something.

This is attention whoring

lawl, seriously though stop being gay just give her an ultimatum. Tell her to dump the bf and start sucking ur dick, or fuck off because some crap like your heart cant take seeing her with someone else

ur letting urself get pulled around like a little gay boy

"No Garth, we musn't say it! We musn't even think it."

*pulls out a handgun*

^^^ Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha!!!

"Don't chase girls that think your ear is the most attractive part of your body."

Standard. Try not being 15 next time.

She sounds immature, no matter what the case is. You'd probably be better off without her in your life...but I'd say risk the friendship first to see if you get something rare and beautiful out of this.

Tell her to dump her shitty boyfriend for you?

There is a simple solution to this simple question, find out for yourself! It's not that hard :p

The lesson is never til a girl you love her (even if shes your girl) unless you're either drunk or want sex right now.

I've known her for about 18 months. Closely for about 14 though.. Like No secrets close.

She does seem to have the people who are brown-nosing her near her all the time - But I'm not like that, I always speak out against her and I think she likes that. I'm not constantly stuck to her ass - But I'm still the best friend she has (She says it all the time).

She's been with the guy for 16months or so.. But she gets dumped every week and begs to go back to him. Yet she will then tell me she thinks its time to break up... She has admitted shes to fearful over what happens AFTER him.

We have never done anything physical, We're purely best friends - Except with this love thing. :/

She can be an Attention Whore - But this is different. Its not the type of thing she'd lie about - her body language and everything showed she was nervous the first time we spoke after she said it. Also, her normal attention whoring aspects are small shitty lies... Nothing big.

dude, your getting used like a little bitch, are you soooo blind that you cant see this?

You need to ditch that little immature bitch and go after some different pussy, seriously! Your being used and shes loving every minute of it...

You don't know half of it... BUT - From what you do know, How am I being used?

Listen here douchebag. Numerous people have told you whats going on here, and you don't want to accept it. What the hell do you want from us?

IF she really loved you, and IF her current boyfriend is the dick you make him out to be, why the FUCK hasn't she dumped him for you yet? Exactly.

Maybe, you say, maybe she's just confused; maybe, even though she loves you, she still has feelings for her current BF.

Well her indecisiveness is fucking you over pal. Tell her to shit or get off the pot.

Your her emotional tampon, you said it yourself buddy! She may have feelings for you but most likely she just wants you there so she has someone to cry on when shes having problems with her bf.
I mean come on, if she REALLY loved you (more than a friend) she would break up with her shit boyfriend and go with you...

Maybe turn to drugs, they helped me! I was in your situation many a times and basically i got fed up with being dick teased and said fuck off you dick teasin bitch. Then i went and got some roxicodones and shot that shit (it was like having an orgasm for 5 hours straight, the best i have EVER felt)...

FUCK WOMEN AND THEIR STUPID GAMES, DRUGS ARE SOOOOO MUCH BETTER!
LONG LIVE THE OPIATE......

Drugs + Women are pretty fun though.

gosh, i'm seeing something quite similar to a situation i was in quite a while ago. but i was the girl.
such things never end well, and she's likely just a little lost and confused. don't open up to her anymore with this lovey shit, just be cooool

I know that I can't open up to her with this anymore, But its hurting me so bad... It got to the point where I was AVOIDING her... My best friend? Then when she said "Why are you pushing me away?" after that - it felt like a real physical pain... I just wanted to hug her more then anything.

So I took her out to London for the day, Just walking around (I live 30 minutes or so from London by train).. and it was just weird.

Yet two weeks ago (When she originally said it) she also said "It feels like you only want me, when you want something else...", combine that with "I cant take bottling this up anymore.. I love you" and "I feel as if you're pushing me away."... Its as if she feels VERY similar.

Then theres the feeling of "For every moment she's on my mind, He's on her mind" - Do you know how much that shit hurts?

Combine that with seeing her fucking stalker every day, and hearing about his sick perverted txt messages, and his sense of self-importance... Dirty cunt.

I can't cope having anything todo with her anymore.. But shes the only person I have.

...Yet two weeks ago (When she originally said it) she also said "It feels like you only want me, when you want something else...", combine that with "I cant take bottling this up anymore.. I love you" and "I feel as if you're pushing me away."... Its as if she feels VERY similar.


You soppy prat!

There's a kicker right there: "It feels like you only want me when you want something else"
Has she given you anything else? Or is she too busy fucking her boyfriend, who is an arsehole but won't dump? And the stalker for that matter. Why hasn't she grassed him up to the old bill yet if these text messages are so damn gruesome? She's an "attention whore"
She's saying that to make you feel guilty and work even harder at trying to make her feel loved and wanted and important.

Also "I can't take this anymore.. I love you"...She's making you think "OOH whoop de doo...She loves me too...Hip hip hoo fucking ray!"...Now you're trying even harder to show her what she means to you!

Last but not least, "I feel as if you're pushing me away"...So you'll try harder again to show her you're not because you love her.

You're the emotional tampon, boy....You are getting used for your time and attention because you're too star-struck on what you think is love to see it! And she's loving every minute of it!

Mate, for fuck's sake, let her go!

You are her man-bitch. Plain and simple.

Kiss her you fool.

Right, next time she breaks up with him and comes running to you, you say enoughs enough.

Make your move.