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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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Old 2007-05-19, 12:50
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So, I have some ancient ass website up containing an Ex's name. Apparently, some weird fucker contacted her through it (go him! I love creeps that mess with the right people). She made a plea for me to take it down. I lied, said I didn't remember my account name/password.

So, she simply said fuck you, and I responded thus:

Don't expect me to show any sympathy for you. I could not care less about some BS info on the internet that might be causing you some trouble. I suppose it sucks for you...but being apart, your problems have no bearing on me.

I *wanted* to be harsher...but I really don't have any feelings for her anymore. No resentment, no spark that could be rekindled.

Now, what I'm hoping for, is a story or two of totseans who DID have some major resentments when an ex made a plea.
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Old 2007-05-19, 14:54
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Excellent.
Out of curiousity, why the fuck havent you deleted her number/blocked it/got a new phone?

You must sever all ways for her to communicate with you. Remember that she is female and has mystical ways to manipulate you and fuck you up. So be CAREFULL!
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Old 2007-05-19, 15:33
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Excellent.
Out of curiousity, why the fuck havent you deleted her number/blocked it/got a new phone?

You must sever all ways for her to communicate with you. Remember that she is female and has mystical ways to manipulate you and fuck you up. So be CAREFULL!
LOL. I really hope you're just joking. She's no mystical being and she has no key to my heart or mind. She's a walking talking vagina, and nothing more.
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Old 2007-05-19, 16:29
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Sorry mate, I think you were wrong. You should have taken down the site simply as a matter of common decency.

I'm sure she doesn't deserve any consideration but sometime in life you'll be in a similar position and karma is a bitch.
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Old 2007-05-19, 17:18
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Oddly enough I'm going to agree with Jackketch on this one. It's just the ethical thing to do. No matter what she did to you she surely doesn't deserve to have strange fucks trying to communicate with her all night. What's happening seems to be the bad side of harrasment.

I'll side with you and agree that she was probably a bitch, but I don't think that was the right way to deal with it.
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Old 2007-05-19, 18:09
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Oddly enough, Ill be the middle man. Because I know that some bitches deserve it. Others, well, they were the good ones if you know what I mean and the breakup was a sad necessity, not an escape from a slutty/manipulative/psycho bitch.
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Old 2007-05-19, 21:46
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Nah. If she did something that seriously hurt you, she fucking deserves whatever she gets.

And really, it's not your fault some psycho has taken a fancy to her.
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Old 2007-05-19, 23:13
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It's probably against some law to post information like that about her on the net, especially if weirdoes are contacting her through it.

I say shut it down.
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Old 2007-05-20, 00:18
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^^ Good point.
Get a good photo of her and all her details on a piece of paper, with some sort of smart eye grabbing title that makes it seem she's a dirty fucking whore who loves to fuck random strangers. Then, photocopy it several hunred times and plaster the fucking city with them.



An ex deserves no mercy!!!!
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Old 2007-05-20, 00:21
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what's the website? can i get a picture?
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Old 2007-05-20, 01:19
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An ex deserves no mercy!!!!

It's a big sign you're not over them when you do or think of doing shit like that.
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Old 2007-05-20, 02:45
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^^ Good point.
Get a good photo of her and all her details on a piece of paper, with some sort of smart eye grabbing title that makes it seem she's a dirty fucking whore who loves to fuck random strangers. Then, photocopy it several hunred times and plaster the fucking city with them.



An ex deserves no mercy!!!!


It's not mercy it's decency.
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Old 2007-05-20, 12:23
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It's a big sign you're not over them when you do or think of doing shit like that.

Why?





I dont mean a generic ex, they come and they go.
But a serious one that did something very very shitty and hurtfull to you? Why the hell should you show them any decency when they did nothing but absolute evil to you?
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Old 2007-05-20, 13:22
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Why?





I dont mean a generic ex, they come and they go.
But a serious one that did something very very shitty and hurtfull to you? Why the hell should you show them any decency when they did nothing but absolute evil to you?

I've had a shitty ex before. Who hasn't? Getting revenge is petty. The way I saw it, I was foolish enough to let her into my life, I wouldn't be foolish enough to keep her in my life by letting thoughts of anger or revenge stay in my head.
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Old 2007-05-20, 17:30
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People can only hurt you if you care about them.
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Old 2007-05-20, 17:37
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Just because you can is no reason to take advantage of someone with which you once shared feelings.
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Old 2007-05-20, 18:19
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Originally Posted by yoyobek
^^ Good point.
Get a good photo of her and all her details on a piece of paper, with some sort of smart eye grabbing title that makes it seem she's a dirty fucking whore who loves to fuck random strangers. Then, photocopy it several hunred times and plaster the fucking city with them.



An ex deserves no mercy!!!!


Jeez.. you'll never reach enlightenment without understanding the power of forgiveness.

Besides that, time can be spent more constructively. Like exercising and eating ice cream.
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Old 2007-05-20, 21:23
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Jeez.. you'll never reach enlightenment without understanding the power of forgiveness.

XD

I sure hate when people go around flaunting their "enlightenment." Of course, they don't realize how ironic it all is...
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Old 2007-05-20, 22:58
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It may seem fun to abuse people who have hurt us, or who we think have hurt us. It doesn't feel good to hurt them, either, though.
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Old 2007-05-21, 00:15
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If you have no resentment, then why would you lie about forgetting the password and keep the info up there so she can be antagonized by people who stumble across it? That sounds kind of resentful to me.

Be the bigger person and just take it down, no matter WHAT she did to deserve it.
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Old 2007-05-21, 00:35
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If she wants it down, she can take it down herself. I have almost completely taken down my real name from the internet except from the caches of a couple search engines and a school site (I simply need ask, but I haven't gotten around to it).
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Old 2007-05-21, 19:57
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If you have no resentment, then why would you lie about forgetting the password and keep the info up there so she can be antagonized by people who stumble across it? That sounds kind of resentful to me.

Be the bigger person and just take it down, no matter WHAT she did to deserve it.


I lied because I was about to play counter-strike.
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Old 2007-05-22, 03:55
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leave it up. counter-strike is more important.
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Old 2007-05-22, 06:35
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XD

I sure hate when people go around flaunting their "enlightenment." Of course, they don't realize how ironic it all is...

I was trying to be humorous.

But I think it's because I'm a little emotionally weird. For instance when I should hit someone, I don't. It's not because I'm afraid of their retaliation.. I just don't like the idea of hitting someone.
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Old 2007-05-22, 08:22
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You obviously aren't over her if you wouldn't take it down. You wanted her to suffer that much more (and from a thread you made a wee while back, hasn't she suffered enough for what she did to you?)
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