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| Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here. |
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# 1

2007-05-19, 12:50
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Unwilling Slave of Avarice
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Ex Plea for Sympathy
So, I have some ancient ass website up containing an Ex's name. Apparently, some weird fucker contacted her through it (go him! I love creeps that mess with the right people). She made a plea for me to take it down. I lied, said I didn't remember my account name/password.
So, she simply said fuck you, and I responded thus:
Don't expect me to show any sympathy for you. I could not care less about some BS info on the internet that might be causing you some trouble. I suppose it sucks for you...but being apart, your problems have no bearing on me.
I *wanted* to be harsher...but I really don't have any feelings for her anymore. No resentment, no spark that could be rekindled.
Now, what I'm hoping for, is a story or two of totseans who DID have some major resentments when an ex made a plea.
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# 2

2007-05-19, 14:54
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Re: Ex Plea for Sympathy
Excellent.
Out of curiousity, why the fuck havent you deleted her number/blocked it/got a new phone?
You must sever all ways for her to communicate with you. Remember that she is female and has mystical ways to manipulate you and fuck you up. So be CAREFULL!
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# 3

2007-05-19, 15:33
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Re: Ex Plea for Sympathy
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Originally Posted by yoyobek
Excellent.
Out of curiousity, why the fuck havent you deleted her number/blocked it/got a new phone?
You must sever all ways for her to communicate with you. Remember that she is female and has mystical ways to manipulate you and fuck you up. So be CAREFULL!
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LOL. I really hope you're just joking. She's no mystical being and she has no key to my heart or mind. She's a walking talking vagina, and nothing more. 
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# 4

2007-05-19, 16:29
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Re: Ex Plea for Sympathy
Sorry mate, I think you were wrong. You should have taken down the site simply as a matter of common decency.
I'm sure she doesn't deserve any consideration but sometime in life you'll be in a similar position and karma is a bitch.
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Jackketch is ILL...DYING ..even. And don't tell me its 'just a cold'. Its Flu at least, most likely Asian Bird Flu (I live in Turkey Farm Land).
But weep not for me totse, I leave this Vale of Tears for a far far better place. Come hither sweet wenches and sooth my fevered brow.
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# 5

2007-05-19, 17:18
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Re: Ex Plea for Sympathy
Oddly enough I'm going to agree with Jackketch on this one. It's just the ethical thing to do. No matter what she did to you she surely doesn't deserve to have strange fucks trying to communicate with her all night. What's happening seems to be the bad side of harrasment.
I'll side with you and agree that she was probably a bitch, but I don't think that was the right way to deal with it.
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# 6

2007-05-19, 18:09
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Re: Ex Plea for Sympathy
Oddly enough, Ill be the middle man. Because I know that some bitches deserve it. Others, well, they were the good ones if you know what I mean and the breakup was a sad necessity, not an escape from a slutty/manipulative/psycho bitch.
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# 7

2007-05-19, 21:46
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Re: Ex Plea for Sympathy
Nah. If she did something that seriously hurt you, she fucking deserves whatever she gets.
And really, it's not your fault some psycho has taken a fancy to her.
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# 8

2007-05-19, 23:13
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Re: Ex Plea for Sympathy
It's probably against some law to post information like that about her on the net, especially if weirdoes are contacting her through it.
I say shut it down.
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# 9

2007-05-20, 00:18
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Re: Ex Plea for Sympathy
^^ Good point.
Get a good photo of her and all her details on a piece of paper, with some sort of smart eye grabbing title that makes it seem she's a dirty fucking whore who loves to fuck random strangers. Then, photocopy it several hunred times and plaster the fucking city with them.
An ex deserves no mercy!!!!
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# 10

2007-05-20, 00:21
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halifax nova scotia canada
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Re: Ex Plea for Sympathy
what's the website? can i get a picture?
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#11
 2007-05-20, 01:19
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Re: Ex Plea for Sympathy
An ex deserves no mercy!!!!
It's a big sign you're not over them when you do or think of doing shit like that.
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#12
 2007-05-20, 02:45
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H4T3 
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Re: Ex Plea for Sympathy
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Originally Posted by yoyobek
^^ Good point.
Get a good photo of her and all her details on a piece of paper, with some sort of smart eye grabbing title that makes it seem she's a dirty fucking whore who loves to fuck random strangers. Then, photocopy it several hunred times and plaster the fucking city with them.
An ex deserves no mercy!!!!
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It's not mercy it's decency.
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#13
 2007-05-20, 12:23
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Re: Ex Plea for Sympathy
It's a big sign you're not over them when you do or think of doing shit like that.
Why?
I dont mean a generic ex, they come and they go.
But a serious one that did something very very shitty and hurtfull to you? Why the hell should you show them any decency when they did nothing but absolute evil to you?
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#14
 2007-05-20, 13:22
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Re: Ex Plea for Sympathy
Why?
I dont mean a generic ex, they come and they go.
But a serious one that did something very very shitty and hurtfull to you? Why the hell should you show them any decency when they did nothing but absolute evil to you?
I've had a shitty ex before. Who hasn't? Getting revenge is petty. The way I saw it, I was foolish enough to let her into my life, I wouldn't be foolish enough to keep her in my life by letting thoughts of anger or revenge stay in my head.
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#15
 2007-05-20, 17:30
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genericwittyusername 
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Re: Ex Plea for Sympathy
People can only hurt you if you care about them.
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#16
 2007-05-20, 17:37
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Re: Ex Plea for Sympathy
Just because you can is no reason to take advantage of someone with which you once shared feelings.
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#17
 2007-05-20, 18:19
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ZeroMalarki 
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Re: Ex Plea for Sympathy
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Originally Posted by yoyobek
^^ Good point.
Get a good photo of her and all her details on a piece of paper, with some sort of smart eye grabbing title that makes it seem she's a dirty fucking whore who loves to fuck random strangers. Then, photocopy it several hunred times and plaster the fucking city with them.
An ex deserves no mercy!!!!
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Jeez.. you'll never reach enlightenment without understanding the power of forgiveness.
Besides that, time can be spent more constructively. Like exercising and eating ice cream.
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#18
 2007-05-20, 21:23
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cr0w 
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Re: Ex Plea for Sympathy
Jeez.. you'll never reach enlightenment without understanding the power of forgiveness.
XD
I sure hate when people go around flaunting their "enlightenment." Of course, they don't realize how ironic it all is...
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#19
 2007-05-20, 22:58
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genericwittyusername 
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Re: Ex Plea for Sympathy
It may seem fun to abuse people who have hurt us, or who we think have hurt us. It doesn't feel good to hurt them, either, though.
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#20
 2007-05-21, 00:15
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star-lit 
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Re: Ex Plea for Sympathy
If you have no resentment, then why would you lie about forgetting the password and keep the info up there so she can be antagonized by people who stumble across it? That sounds kind of resentful to me.
Be the bigger person and just take it down, no matter WHAT she did to deserve it.
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#21
 2007-05-21, 00:35
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Re: Ex Plea for Sympathy
If she wants it down, she can take it down herself. I have almost completely taken down my real name from the internet except from the caches of a couple search engines and a school site (I simply need ask, but I haven't gotten around to it).
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#22
 2007-05-21, 19:57
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Re: Ex Plea for Sympathy
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Originally Posted by star-lit
If you have no resentment, then why would you lie about forgetting the password and keep the info up there so she can be antagonized by people who stumble across it? That sounds kind of resentful to me.
Be the bigger person and just take it down, no matter WHAT she did to deserve it.
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I lied because I was about to play counter-strike.
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#23
 2007-05-22, 03:55
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AnalBeeds 
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Re: Ex Plea for Sympathy
leave it up. counter-strike is more important.
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#24
 2007-05-22, 06:35
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Re: Ex Plea for Sympathy
XD
I sure hate when people go around flaunting their "enlightenment." Of course, they don't realize how ironic it all is...
I was trying to be humorous.
But I think it's because I'm a little emotionally weird. For instance when I should hit someone, I don't. It's not because I'm afraid of their retaliation.. I just don't like the idea of hitting someone.
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#25
 2007-05-22, 08:22
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Re: Ex Plea for Sympathy
You obviously aren't over her if you wouldn't take it down. You wanted her to suffer that much more (and from a thread you made a wee while back, hasn't she suffered enough for what she did to you?)
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