*if this more belongs in reinvent yourself feel free to move*

When I was going through a very stressful time many years ago when I was 19 whatever libito I had suddenly disappeared within a period of a month or two. Like any horny teenager at the time this felt kind of odd not craving all the time, and I kind of ignored it and thought It would return sometime.

A year later I got myself a GF and had quite a lot of sex, but I still didn't feel the want or sudden urge to randomly fuck. My "equipment" works perfectly fine mind you, but I could only get the feeling in the kind of physical contact moment and not randomly thinking about it.

Even porno that used to have a large effect on me now does barley anything. I could look at the most hard core stuff and be like "meh". It has been 3 years now and nothing has really changed. Someone told me it happens to everyone once they stop being a teenager, but this just does not seem right.

Even when I used to be on Paxil for 2 years much earlier didn't have an impact on the libito, so Im out of ideas.

Help?

They're right.

Your sex drive has decreased to it's proper amount. A nice, steady, "Works when you need it, let's you focus when you don't", mode.

I was told there was 2 times during your teenage period when your sex drive goes insane. 1) is just at the beginning... 13-14 y/o. 2) is right around the end... 17-19 y/o.

After those 2 humps, it's a nice steady thing.

Personally, you should feel great about this. You can function, and not be tortured.

Edit: Just in case, consult a physician.

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Seems logical, and Id take it from experience too.

Ah well... Guess it's the way it is.

as you mature your urges die down, however for women, their urges go insane around their late 30's and early 40's, that may explain the ever so popular term MILF.