...since yoyobek hijacked my other thread.

anyways, i need help learning to deep throat. i've looked online and tried the tips that i found, but none of them work, so now i'm looking for advice from you, totse.

girls (or gay/bi guys), how did you overcome your gag reflex? what tips/advice do you have?

guys, what feels good for you? my boyfriend has never been able to cum from getting head. he says that he's gotten it from 5 other girls, and i must have done it at least 50 times, and he had never been able to get off from it. if he hadn't told me about the other girls not being able to get him off, i would think that i just suck (no pun intended), but since they couldn't do it either i don't feel too bad about it. anyways, my goal is to get him off from head once. if i can do it once, i'll be happy. so, like i said before, guys, what do you like when getting head?

please be as detailed as possible.

start off by sort of "lightly" licking the tip of his penis...

feels really weird giving that sort of advice... i dont know why

Three things that are important to me when receiving head....

1) Variety. Ya gotta change it up, and not keep up the same motion constantly. Obviously as he is about to cum, keep up THAT motion....but before that do a whole mixture of stuff.

2) The look in her eyes. Eye contact is a HUGE bonus. If she has that..."omg, I love having this cock in my mouth" look it takes everything to a whole new level.

3) Obviously, the Finish. Some girls give the greatest head up until the point the cum starts flying. If you treat his cum like some toxic acid that if it gets on you will ruin your entire life, you have just fucked up the whole point of the blowjob. However if you are as eager as him to see it fly and have genuine enjoyment in taking his load.....then that is a perfect ending. If you are lapping it up like some life saving nectar with it spewing all over you face, hands, hair whatever......then girl you are an absolute KEEPER.

Myself, I find Deep Throating over rated. To me the perfect ending is the girl jacking while licking the head. First it feels better for me. (I find coming while my dick is inside the girls mouth can be counterproductive. While my dick is spasming during a load it may hit the roof of her mouth and because it is so sensitive that isn't the most pleasurable thing for me) Also I like that visual as described above of my cum shooting all over her. And there is a higher probability of the girl gagging on the cum during a deep throat orgasm (no matter how experienced she is at it, there are still oopsies.....think how often you take a drink of water and sometimes you choke because of whatever fuckup, going down the wrong pipe type thing). And hearing a girl gag after the fact is pretty much a buzzkill, because I want her to be having fun too.

Basically I would sum it all up to eagerness. If you are doing it just to get it over with and go back to your soap opera, like its just one other "chore" during your day....then chances are it isn't going to be good head any how. But if you are acting as if that cock is your god (hell dirty talk in the middle of it don't hurt either) and you NEED that thing in your mouth and hands....then you are on the road to giving a great blowjob.

i couldn't tell you what guys might like specifically, but when i first started giving my boyfriend head he couldn't cum from it either. then i started using my hands at the same time as my mouth and BAM. maybe he's the same and just needs that extra pressure/sensation.