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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2007-05-16, 00:57
crunkjuice crunkjuice is offline
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What's up with PDA (public display of affection)?
Why is it such a big deal?
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Old 2007-05-16, 01:13
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Once you reach highschool it's not that big of a deal.

Unless ofcourse your starting to mount her in a church... Then there might be a stern talking to in your near future.

If it's within reason it's fine.
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Old 2007-05-16, 01:17
crunkjuice crunkjuice is offline
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Originally Posted by fatkitty420
Once you reach highschool it's not that big of a deal.

Unless ofcourse your starting to mount her in a church... Then there might be a stern talking to in your near future.

If it's within reason it's fine.


yeah but the teachers in middle school were always on our asses about hugging..
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Old 2007-05-16, 01:19
ZeroMalarki ZeroMalarki is offline
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I hate when girls complain about that.

Not to sound like a complete egotistical bastard, but when I do find a girl I think is worth my time going out with, then its because I'm proper into her.

I want to show my affection, not necessarily to the whole world.. but whenever it catches me to the point I almost have to do it. I don't mean frisking her, or acting lewdly.. just a sneaky kiss or something.

Is that such a bad thing?
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Old 2007-05-16, 01:22
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Inappropriate.

Not everyone wants to see you shove your tongue down your skankball girlfriends overzealous throat, k?

Holding hands and cuddling and even kissing is cool, but when you start going at it in the middle of a fucking grocery store, fuck you, you're getting fruit thrown at you.
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Old 2007-05-16, 01:34
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I don't think parents want their kids to see you and your partner furiously masterbating each other off.
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Old 2007-05-16, 02:20
Saline Colors Saline Colors is offline
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Blah, I hate it when my boyfriend lays it on thick in public. I don't mind hand-holding and other little shit, a little kiss here and there, but when it comes down to it, major PDA is awkward and weird.
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Old 2007-05-16, 02:28
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Originally Posted by Demoiselle
Inappropriate.

Not everyone wants to see you shove your tongue down your skankball girlfriends overzealous throat, k?

Holding hands and cuddling and even kissing is cool, but when you start going at it in the middle of a fucking grocery store, fuck you, you're getting fruit thrown at you.


Definitely.

Hugging, kissing and holding hands in public is fine but you gotta draw a line.

It's a big deal to teenage girls...They either want everyone to know they're with you so they get pissed off when you don't do it or there are the ones who don't want everyone to know she likes you that much/is with you and gets pissed off when you do it.

To teenage guys, they tend not to...It makes them look like big girls in front of their mates!

As you get older, it becomes easier because you just don't give a shit about others' opinions.
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Old 2007-05-16, 03:05
LazerViperMouth LazerViperMouth is offline
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A quick peck, holding hands, and hugging is alright but don't start making out in the hallway.
It's just awkward to be around
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Old 2007-05-16, 03:19
streetjusticeforall streetjusticeforall is offline
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Originally Posted by crunkjuice
What's up with PDA (public display of affection)?
Why is it such a big deal?


It is embarrassing when people see me with my ugly girlfriends, so I am always against pda. I always act as I would if she was just an ugly friend. But when I actually score a hottie, you better believe I am getting handjobs in the theater with everyone watching.
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Old 2007-05-16, 03:37
Fascismo Fascismo is offline
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It is embarrassing when people see me with my ugly girlfriends, so I am always against pda. I always act as I would if she was just an ugly friend. But when I actually score a hottie, you better believe I am getting handjobs in the theater with everyone watching.

QFT.

This is just filler so I can say QFT.
 #12 
Old 2007-05-16, 05:03
Smokeyb Smokeyb is offline
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It is embarrassing when people see me with my ugly girlfriends, so I am always against pda. I always act as I would if she was just an ugly friend. But when I actually score a hottie, you better believe I am getting handjobs in the theater with everyone watching.

quoted for the truth baby!!!!
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Old 2007-05-16, 05:07
Ripsaw3689 Ripsaw3689 is offline
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i don't like watching people suck each others faces off when im walking down the halls or something. Its fine if you give them i quick kiss, hold and or hug or whatever, but not molesting each other
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Old 2007-05-16, 05:17
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i don't like watching people suck each others faces off when im walking down the halls or something.

I do.
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Old 2007-05-16, 06:35
cant b bothered cant b bothered is offline
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we had 3 bisexual girls (me included :D ) making out and humping each other in class. on the opposite side of the room 3 straight guys were trying to form a man train while fully clothed. pdas are nothing at school, or anywhere.
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Old 2007-05-16, 11:25
Vilkacis Vilkacis is offline
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Shit I don't even like holding hands with my girl in public, why should I have to prove to people that we're going out?

Don't really mind other people doing whatever, just not full on making out when everyone else is talking is kinda retarded.
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Old 2007-05-17, 03:43
VenaticalOne VenaticalOne is offline
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Originally Posted by Vilkacis
Shit I don't even like holding hands with my girl in public, why should I have to prove to people that we're going out?

Don't really mind other people doing whatever, just not full on making out when everyone else is talking is kinda retarded.


dumbass. you're either afraid or just embarassed that shes your girlfriend.

dont try to tell anyone that bullshit cuz they wont believe you.
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Old 2007-05-17, 04:35
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The natural tendency is to form an orgy.

That's not exactly acceptable...

so it weirds people out.

Really, everyone just wants to fuck.

unless they don't, of course.
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Old 2007-05-17, 06:32
Flock Flock is offline
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It's when people are full-on sticking their tongues down each others' throats and practically dry humping each other in the college hallways when I start to think the youth of today take the piss.
A quick kiss would be fine, holding hands and hugging is normal, but when you have to pass horny teenagers pressed up against lockers it's more than a bit irritating.
They could sneak off to a less obvious location.. behind a building, into the toilets.. heck, there are plenty utterly empty places.
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Old 2007-05-17, 06:55
senor sticky fingers senor sticky fingers is offline
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I don't care as long as their not making out in the hallway but theirs one exception. Theres a guy and a girl in my school and the girls anorexic and grossly thin and the guy is the ugliest fuck I've ever seen with teeth that I expect to see bugs crawling in. Everyday on my way to gym I see them in the middle of the hallway hugging and kissing and its horrible.
When I'm with my girlfriend public affection doesn't bother me.
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Old 2007-05-17, 11:11
Mindless Xyzzyean Mindless Xyzzyean is offline
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To the OP... Why were you thinking about this?

As for PDA, when I'm with my girlfriend, we just do whatever comes naturally, but nothing over the top. I dont think PDA is a thing for everyone else to see, perhaps its a reassurance or a comforting thing to the couples in the relationship? In most circumstances anyway.

But you'll always get the horny teens who are too eager to jam their tongue down another beings throat, but..meh, if they feel they have to prove themselves to someone or something...let them look the idiot.
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Old 2007-05-17, 16:50
streetjusticeforall streetjusticeforall is offline
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I don't care as long as their not making out in the hallway but theirs one exception. Theres a guy and a girl in my school and the girls anorexic and grossly thin and the guy is the ugliest fuck I've ever seen with teeth that I expect to see bugs crawling in. Everyday on my way to gym I see them in the middle of the hallway hugging and kissing and its horrible.

That is actually really cute. :)
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Old 2007-05-17, 17:37
genericwittyusername genericwittyusername is offline
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Anyone who gets frustrated with PDA is either lonely or in a terribly unsatisfying relationship and hates to be reminded of that.
 
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