Ok totse here is the scenario...
Me and this girl have been going out for like 2-3weeks and we really like each other. Tomorrow I really want to kiss her at school but we dont see each other that much only in the mornings and sometimes inbetween classes. In the morning they have all the students in the gym waiting for our teachers to come take us to our homerooms. Im thinkin that ill probably kiss her then but im pretty nervous considering that there are quite a few people there including teachers who will get all pissy with us if we get caught...but they wont do anything serious. Any advice for kissing her possibly in front of...people totse? I know your first kiss with her should not be in public but i really dont see her anywhere else. Thanks for the help in advance totse:D

i have trouble believing its impossible that you guys can't meet outside of school.

wait for a time when you aren't at school. believe me, it will be better and mean more.

PDAs kinda suck, IMO.

k kid im only gunna help you out cuz you sound like a 11 year old me.... here it goes... if your chicken shit just walk up behind her tap her on the shoulder, give her a nice honest smile and turn your head (she'll probobly just wait for it) and give her a nice peck at first then take a pause(very short) and give her an open mouth kiss... then you stop, dont get too involved with the tounge yet... smile again and then see what happends, youll probobly be fucking high off your ass with adrenaline, at least i was...

what kind of kiss?
I suggest doing it while your both alone together if thats possible.
Will it be her first kiss too?

well son, school probably isn't the best place to land the first kiss. It's not a comfortable atmosphere. I just pulled off a first kiss the other night actually, so i will tell you how it went.

Well saturday night i went over my friend R's house. Three girls were coming over V (r's on and off girlfriend), S and L. I had hung out with V and S before and i heard S thought i was cute, so i thought i'd focuson her. So me and S are playing pool against R and V. I flirt with S a bit, showing her how to play and getting a little closer, But i notice that L is sittin gon the couch playing the thrid wheel. So i go over and sit next to her and offer for her to come out side and have a smoke with me. She doesn't really smoke too much, but she still came out. So i'm on R's patio sitting on his railing while L is standing next to me. We shoot the shit for a bit and i throw on a little charm. The one of R's dogs comes down and L pulls me close and says "ohh i'm scared (or something along those lines)". When she did that i put my arm around her and played along. So after that i was like alright, it's pretty obvious. I finish my cigarette, and go inside and play a little more pool. I hit up my other friend to pick up some bud, and he told me to give him a call in about 15. So i go back outside with L again and R's other dog came down stairs and she pulled me close again. So i though "what the hell, why not now" so i lean in and we start making out for about 10 mintues. Then i realied it was time to call my friend. I stop for a minute to set p the deal, then go back over and start making out again, giving hickies, just small time shit. I stop again becuase i realized it was time to get the bud, so we hop in V's car, drive up the street, pick up, and head to the beach. We make out along the way and flirt some more. We smoked at the beach, left, then me and R went back to his house.

Even though we didn't fuck, I wrote that so maybe you could get the idea of the situation and atmosphere we were in. Those two things are crucial. A girl isn't going to be as open inside of school with all her friends around with teachers, and school work on thier mind. It's just too hectic. I'd say just hang out with her with one of your buddies and another girl. Then take her somewhere secluded (don't make it obvious that you want to be alone with her, i told her to come outside while i smoked so i had a reason other than her to go outside). Once you two are alone, lay down some charm, and when you feel that the time has come, then go for it.

The worst, absolute worst thing you can do is never go for it. Beucase regret sucks alot more than being shot down. I thought about it when i was stoned and said to myself "boy, that would have been shitty if i was a pussy about it, and didn't go in for the kill." remember, we all get shot down, and if she does turn you down, even after you think she's attracted to you (it happens, i don't know why, it just does) then just let it roll off your back, and play it off as if it's cool.

Once you know where the girl stands with youafter than, stick wit her, or find anohter. I'd say find another whether or not you hook up, the main course isn't complete without the side dish.

When I kiss a woman I like to bite her around the lips first so I can taste the blood. Follow this up with a fap and many lulz.

Anyways, you need to take initiative. You let that bitch start running your shit now, there's no telling how long it could take to regain the power.

its not that hard... my record is 7 girls in one night.

The worst, absolute worst thing you can do is never go for it. Beucase regret sucks alot more than being shot down.
This is probably the most fucking valueble advice posted here in a few months (imho). And I really stress this, I mean I really want the most people to read this because I needed something like this a few days ago. I mean the regrets for not doing anything WILL kill you. Its much better to do something, anything, just make sure its not totally dumb.
Me? Ive never kissed before, Im 17. I dont regret this, it just always seemed a waste to make out with some slut or a one nighter, but as you can see Im in for the love, not the thrill.
And after thinking about the regret thing, Im gonna be much more 'active' in these ways, I just never want to taste the bitter feeling of loosing someone because I was to fucking antisocial, childish and the such. Its better to risk than to lie down and wait for a miracle.

And dude, like the other guys said, do it out of school, maybe get some beer to loosen up (both of you) and I personally wouldnt go for a date, more like a friend party or atleast meetup with the earlier mentioned booze (or anyother alcohol or even bud) and then just act friendly and open, and then ACT (meaning attack), do something, hug her, keep her close, then try to kiss her, possibly away from the others with some excuse (I know its been mentioned before, but I find it a fucking blessing since I got to the same point the others said about).
Cheers and luck dude.

Fact: If you've never seen her outside of school, she isnt your girlfriend.

Well, I know I haven't kissed a girl yet... :(

You kidding?I make out with my girlfriend twice every morning infront of everything and no one says anything.Who cares if they get pissy, they're bitches.Do whatever you want, you like her and that's all that matter.s

Hey thanks for the advice so far guys. I think I will go for it either today or tomorrow so...yeah. Anyways wish me luck:P

homeroom? the last time i had that was in 5th grade.

good luck dude! Just recently i tried making out with my ex after not really talking for a year or so. I just had her come over, we started shootin the shit, and i just kept getting closer and closer and went in for it. It was alright, but it got really fawking awkward. Just keep talking, that's the key and surprise the girl.

Lol we had that all the way up to 8th grade :P

Keep some blotters in your cheek and slip some in her mouth at school. TRUST me.

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