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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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 #1 
Old 2007-05-15, 01:38
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6th circle of hell
Default Stood up.

Being stood up on a date isn't one of those damn test things is it?

I make plans to go out on a date with this woman I did the night before and when I call her she says shes at her sisters so I tell her to call me when she gets home. Never calls, thats annoying, I got all dressie and everything.

She wouldn't let me go down on her either. Disappointment. Wonder if she has some sort of disease or maybe shes just on her period or something? Is that really a big thing, oral and periods?

Bummmmmmmmed.
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Old 2007-05-15, 01:40
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within the subliminal
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Ask her if she likes you, then you can be sure if she stood you up.
Maybe she had a legit reason to stand you up... or maybe you're just buttugly!
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Old 2007-05-15, 02:12
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6th circle of hell
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If thats the case, I'd think and hope she wouldn't sleep with someone who she finds unattractive. I could understand it if this was a pre-sex stand up. But wtf, one night stand? Omgz shes a ho?

incredibly sexy ho. :(

Shes like 12 years older than me XD
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Old 2007-05-15, 02:25
jojabr jojabr is offline
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But don't be like, "well do you like me or not?" because that's just clingy sounding.. just ask casually but firmly, "so is there a reason you stood me up last night?" If there is, she'll tell you, and you can decide if it's legit. If there isn't and she was just being a bitch, she'll be speechless and embarrassed.
Gauge her reaction, and you should be able to reveal her true feelings about you.
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Old 2007-05-15, 04:42
Bean_Doodle Bean_Doodle is offline
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Dont be mad, be totally cheery next you meet her.

It'll mess with her system and it wont come off like she totally ruined your evening by not being there.
 #6 
Old 2007-05-15, 05:56
outcast234 outcast234 is offline
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WOAH!...

if you got stood up, you didn't set the tone properly..

If I make a date with a girl I don't know very well, after setting the time and date I ask: What are the chances you aren't gonna show up?

If she tells me anything other than shes gonna be there for sure.. I tell her to forget it, and to call me when shes not gonna play games.

If she tells me shes gonna be there, for sure.. I say good: Because flaky people are not people I wanna hang out with, I'm on time everywhere I go, and I always show up.. and I expect the people around me to do the same.


You got stood up, if you continue this relationship.. you're setting the tone that not showing up to things you agreed to is ok. And she will stand you up again.
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Old 2007-05-15, 15:37
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bangor northern ireland
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if its not a test, shes a bitch, dont bother with her. If it is a test, shes a bitch dont bother with her.
 
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