I can barely get my finger in her and she's like OW

suggestions?

My exgirlfriend was the EXACT same way. Get her comfortable with trying on herself when shes alone to loosen it up a bit. If you guys are really comfortable with eachother, anda close good relationship, chances are she'll want you to do it, but her too will help.

Tell her to be thankful for your finger.....Because if it was my cock it sounds like she would be shredded....................




no joke

My exgirlfriend was the EXACT same way. Get her comfortable with trying on herself when shes alone to loosen it up a bit. If you guys are really comfortable with eachother, anda close good relationship, chances are she'll want you to do it, but her too will help.

i'll tell her to finger herself

you might wanna try instead of just slamming your finger into her,rubbing around and kinda stretching and using like only a side of your finger to kinda tease her lips to get her super wet and lick your fingers...lubrication always helps!

The jaws of life...Like the fire fighters carry.

Just keep on with the fingering...Loads of rubbing and stuff to get her wet then gently ease yourself in. She'll loosen up.

Splintered baseball bats also make a useful tool in this situation.

"It's either me, or this bat love" - I imagine she'd loosen up somewhat....

vaginismus possibly

Muscular contraction that causes the vagina to close; usually an anxiety reaction before coitus or pelvic examination

lose some weight, cockfinger

She'll loosen up after the first child.

says the father.

lose some weight, cockfinger

Awesome!

is she lubed up on both the outside and inside, as far as you can tell?

i know how you feel, this one girl i was with had trouble like that, i could barely get my finger in past the first joint

did suck

OP, you from MA?

I'm guessing at least new england.

new york

how'd you know?

lolzh4xdapuss

Everyone told me I would loosen up after I had MY first child...But instead I just got SMALLER. I'm sure you can appreciate how unfortunate that is in my particular situation.

And to the OP: Just go really slow and use KY. My husband and I have this problem pretty much everytime we have sex.

new york

how'd you know?

im guessing because you said wicked

Mild Vaginisthmus. Look it up. Get a dilator.

I'll come over and loosen her more than my shit after eating cream corn for a week.

Tell her I said that too. That'll turn her on.

Definitely a vaginismus thing:

"The vaginismic reflex can be compared to the response of the eye shutting when an object comes towards it."
-Wikipedia

This disorder can encompass the fact that she is uncomfortable with sexual things- but it may not. She might just feel like she isn't ready- despite what she says- or she's just not feeling it with you.