Okay so i have a gf of 4 months who hasnt gone any further with me than oral. She stopped talking to me for a week because of school related stuff and didnt bother telling me until last tuesday (she started on sunday) so i was really mad and to top it off she cancelled our ONE date that week so i was pretty steamed. So... i started talking to another girl and found out we have ALOT in common, and the new girl really likes me alot.. maybe a little too much for only talking to her a week but she seems like shes wonderful. Aside from hanging out with her i havent done anything with this other girl even though i could have sex with her, i dont cheat.

The mistake comes in when i visited my GF today, i started to find that i like her again.... and im really not sure how to choose or go about this, i feel like a real ass now because now i have to hurt one of them :(

Any suggestions totse?

Sounds like a fucking episode from the OC or One Tree Hill.

Stay good friends with this new girl, while dating the old girl, eventually one of them will make the desicion easier for you. example

You hang out with new girl and find that one of her flaws really annoys the fuck out of you, you go with old girl.

Old girl starts not talking to for a week more and more often, forcing you away basicaly, you go for new girl.

Just kind of hang in there, don't be dumb and dump your girlfriend for a girl you have known for a week, you don't want to end up kicking yourself in the ass a month down the road if and when new girl starts annoying you.

Look at it this way, you have a wonderful girlfriend (as far as we know) who is still with you. You and her have been together for 4 months, that's an accomplishment; depending on how old you are. You have known new girl for a week, I would say stick it out for a few more weeks and get to know new girl very well before making any sudden desicions.


Hope this helps some.

Weedy, that is some solid advice, and i think i shall follow it, thank you my man

Glad I could be of help, want to add to my reputation?

Use the new girl to make your girlfriend jealous.

Tell your girlfriend that she's pissing you off. Don't expect things to fix themselves.

I'm a strong believer in communication with your significant other. If she's pissing you off tell her that. If it upset you that she blew you out, let her know.
If you don't she'll keep doing it...And any other girl you get with will do the same for that matter.

Once you've spoken about it, you'll probably have a better perspective on things and you can make a better judgement about which girl you would rather spend your time with.

All the best mate.

I went with the new girl. Stay with the old girl.

Two girls, twice the fun! screw the social norm

Hahha I lol'd

fucking s&a

Sounds like a fucking episode from Little House on the Prairie.

Which one?

New chick sounds better but you never know she could easily get bitchy like your last one.