Alright, long story short, I've been seeing this girl for some time now. Unfortunately, this seems to be one of the very few girls who decided that sex is something special.

No, she isn't a religious nut, or moral elitist or anything, its just that she thinks it would be slutty to have sex essentially before college, or at best, the end of senior year. Nevermind the fact that even her friends are into it, she seems to be the prudeish one.

How could I show her that having sex won't make her slutty or loose?

"if You Loved Me You Would Have Sex With Me"

How long have the two of you been going out? How far have you made it with this girl?

You don't. You move on.

Besides creepy lines, illegal drugs and rape, you can't make her have sex.

If she's not into it and it's important to you, you're with the wrong girl. Find someone else.

If the sexual connection isn't there, you can't force it to be there.

Either wait until she gets sick of you asking (at which point you'll get cold sex, or dumped), or move on.

I guess you need to work out if you are in the relationship for sex, or if you like her as a person.

Make her want you. Make it so that she is really horny (long term) so that she wants it.

Now I don't know how far she is willing to go, but I will go with the assumption that she is ok with oral, fingering, making out, etc.

Just kind of tease her without actually taking her all the way. When you two are fooling around/making out, stick your hands in her pants, but don't fully finger her. Just kind of lightly massage around the outside, maybe dipping in a finger every once and a while, etc. But do NOT make her actually climax.

Also do this sort of thing in public (obviously more subtly, though). Reach around and under her bum so you can rub her lightly through the pants, but to any onlookers it looks like you just have your arm around her.

Just randomly surprise her with playful, random, sexual things like that for a few weeks, but DO NOT bring her to an orgasm.

This will (in theory, and depending on the girl) make her horny. Which in the long term will make it difficult to resist.

This is the best legal solution I can think of.

Also, getting her a little tipsy can't hurt either!

-=Pepper=-

Don't. Stop trying to fornicate.

Respect God's law and have sex after marriage!

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha.....

I can't believe people still believe that crap!

Maybe you both could eat some "beans" if she was that kinda girl, and then you could get in their nice and deep like.

But i guess thats hoping for too much, tipsy, romantic and not letting her orgasm for a while should warm up the situation.

my ex said that..

i had to think about it for a looong time

Unfortunately, this seems to be one of the very few girls who decided that sex is something special.

Why unfortunately...Uh anyway.She probably believes all the shit they tel her in health. .tell her it's all bullshit.

Though I've had sex before marriage, I still agree with this. The world would be better off, much cleaner at that. And teens would be able to get to know one another instead of just ruining relationships with sex. Yes I understand that relationships can work with sex but I have seen ten fold the amount of relationships that die because of sex rather than thrive.