The inevitable has happened. There is a girl who i have liked for a long time, she is one of the reasons i broke up with my girlfreind. It's more than just a crush or a like, when she smiles at me you can hear my IQ dropping and i just stand there smiling like an idiot. She makes my heart melt. Anyway, so as i was saying my girlfreind dumped me when she found out that i liked another girl. Now this other girl has a boyfreind. Who happens to be one of my freinds. To sum it all up, FUCK.

Every good looking girl has a boyfriend.

That's why we should never hang all our hopes up one girl, despite the occasional desire to (I don't even know this girl that well that is constantly on my thoughts at the moment.. but she's so beautiful, I want to cry)

"she is one of the reasons my girlfriend broke up with me"


Either move in on your buddies woman, and have to slap him out afterward, or find a new woman to move in on... All depends on your style.

Sometimes I think totse is full of nerds who are far to sympathetic.

*Oh her smile makes my heart melt!*

Yep.


Just sit back and learn a skill to distinguish you from other guys (learn to play guitar really good or something. Since apparently any welfare monkey or white trash slob with a microphone can become an OMG FAMOUS RAPPUR!!!!111 nowdays, playing guitar WELL might set you apart). Keep in touch and be a sympathetic ear (while going to parties and playing the field). It will get your foot in the door for later on.

Welcome to the real world buddy.

Every good looking girl has a boyfriend.
Oh, that's not a very good sign for me, a female who has been single since before christmas!!
But yeah, I find the same, except I seem to find every good looking girl is either straight or taken. Often both.

....shit one

Every good looking girl has a boyfriend.

Yep. That about sums it up.

I have the EXACT same problem (minus the dump my girlfriend part) and it sucks balls. Especially since we almost had sex on Friday. Pretty much just gonna keep trying....hope for the best...

One-itis.

ja, all the good ones are taken, all left have some abnormality or have been around more then the #24 car on the Daytona speedway..

Yep.


Just sit back and learn a skill to distinguish you from other guys (learn to play guitar really good or something.....

Or learn to lick your eyebrows and breathe through your ears...You can get loads of women that way.

Find someone else, get with her and if the same thing happens again, do NOT let her find out you like another girl until you know you're going to be getting with the new girl.

bros before hos

dont go around calling people stabby or they will be on to you like shit on a gorilla's ass.

Every good looking girl has a boyfriend.

Thats true, but it doesn't mean they wouldn't upgrade for a better model if and when ones available.

You can either move on, or set yourself up as the bigger and better option. It all depends on you and your mindset, and how far out of your comfort zone you are willing to go.

Well i'm astounded by all the advice i've gotten. Thanks for that. I'm currently driving a metaphorical wedge between the girl and her boyfreind and also being the sympathetic shoulder for both of them to cry on :). It shouldn't be long before they break up, then i'll have my chance.

I do already play the guitar, i'm hoping to go pro in a few years. I've been playing two years and i just did grade seven. I can also throw knives, pick locks, fight like a motherfucker and play four other instruments, so talents are not what i'm lacking. I'll just wait patiently and strike when the time is ripe.

I must have been drunk when i made this thread, i can't remember it.

Anyhow, thanks for all the advice, you're all fricken awesome.

She's with him for a reason.

It's her choice... Let it go.

I'm in a similar situation... fucking sucks.

If and when the opportunity comes, go for it... Until then:

Say hello to long hours on Totse.

oh well

these things happen