he is what I'd describe as a good looking but shy guy, which is fine with me. it means I'll have to make the first moves which i'm comfortable with. i know he likes me which makes me all happy in knowing :)

anyhow i've done my homework on this, he has a whole bunch of friends boys - girls - men - women haha who can't speak a bad word of him besides him being quiet YET he has never been known to have had a realationship and is no swinger - not religious. im not too worried . perhaps he is waiting for the right girl? or maybe is only interested in certain girls? he is straight i know this, and some of the girls he hang out are even hotter then me!! i never thought it possible ;)

oh and he is 20 1/2 around that i think. thoughts on this?

Give him mad gobbies and post pics n' vids.

Make the first move. Gently in non-intimidating manner but still CLEAR AND SIMPLE!

Remember Men have absolutely no soul and wouldn't get a hint if it fell on them.

Keep It Simple Stupid.

Get him on his own and just say 'I like you. Would you like to go out with me?'


Even better is 'wanna fuck?' *pull off t-shirt* but if he's got issues then that might have him running...

lol that is what you said when i left here!

i know he wants me, and im prepared to take things slow as i want to be serious now and im prepared to stick that out if i have to. im just wondering how come he has had nothing and like 'snap' right now for him he like jumps? i know you can't know for sure (not knowing him and all) but what do you think? he is a sweet caring guy and i think we can be great together. i think he is picky :D

Uhm pardon the dumb question but how do you know he wants you?!

ps.at least i am consistent in the bad advice i give:P

oh that one is easy silly..i did say ive done my homework and i have =P he let slip to a friend that he does and they told me. that and he gets nervous around me but not other girls, to him its like he is either visually repulsed by them or happy to be in their company and for me - nervousness.

Oh in that case ...'warp factor 1 Mr.Sulu'.

Walk up to him when he's alone and kiss him full on the mouth. No words, just action. Put your arms around him when you do so he can't break away (nervous reaction which means nothing). Make sure you press and rub all those girly bits against him while you do.

When you come up for air then just say clearly' so when are you finally going to ask me out?'

If you can leave off coming up for air until you're sure he's got a hard on then even better.

Oh in that case ...'warp factor 1 Mr.Sulu'.

Walk up to him when he's alone and kiss him full on the mouth. No words, just action. Put your arms around him when you do so he can't break away (nervous reaction which means nothing). Make sure you press and rub all those girly bits against him while you do.

When you come up for air then just say clearly' so when are you finally going to ask me out?'

If you can leave off coming up for air until you're sure he's got a hard on then even better.

thats pretty damn hawt man hahah im sure he'll love it but hope he doesn't think im slutty :( i want it right...and why hasn't he had a partner before is my question!!!

and just out of interest if i were to be old fashioned and wait for him to make the move and he was asking what would you tell him. im sure some guys here would like to know. can't be easy for him seeing as im so hawt /bedroom eyes

There are tons of possible reasons, but none of them are more than uneducated guesses.

If he likes you and knows a lot of hotter women, don't you think that he might be interested in more than your body?

He would think it weird if you just, out of nowhere, kissed him full on. Not a bad thing, but it would make him wonder, I'm sure. If you're interested in more than quick sex, I would say that this isn't the world's best approach.

Why no other partners: he has hidden issues, he has some deep insecurity, doesn't believe in dating, hidden drug addiction, doesn't trust, one of those nerds that doesn't believe in school and dating at the same time, or maybe he's just too shy to act on anything.

There are lots of ways to tip a guy off that you want him or want him to ask you out. Be creative. If you want him to make the first moves, put yourself into a position where he can't consider any other option.

don't you think that he might be interested in more than your body?

Ya think?


There are lots of ways to tip a guy off that you want him or want him to ask you out. Be creative. If you want him to make the first moves, put yourself into a position where he can't consider any other option.

You perhaps project your own sensitivity/intelligence unto others of your gender?

Bad Move.

9 times outta ten its a given that what he wants is to get into her panties. *thinks of all the past threads on this sort of thing and rests case*

Imoan, Euda is right that there may well be something hidden. But it might also be something physical. Is he ashamed/embarrassed about his body or has a tiny cock?...that kinda thing.

He could just have really low self confidence or something. Anyway, just go for it. I know it's what everyone says but if you wait too long he'll be with someone else and then you'll be sad.

PS: I would absolutely love it if a girl came up and did that to me.

You perhaps project your own sensitivity/intelligence unto others of your gender?

Bad Move.

9 times outta ten its a given that what he wants is to get into her panties. *thinks of all the past threads on this sort of thing and rests case*

I never said that he didn't want into her pants, but it sounds as if this girl wants more than just a quickie. If she's looking for a quick hookup, then the advice is completely different. "I kissed him and told him to ask me out" isn't exactly the story that most girls want to be telling when they talk about how they got together with their boyfriend.

I would lump worries about his penis size as a deep insecurity, something that he perhaps...hides. I'm guessing that if he's worried about his penis size, then he isn't quite a nudist.

Projecting fantasies and quick-hookup dealings onto women is usually a bad idea. Who cares what he wants? He isn't the one asking for advice.

I know a lot of day-to-day guys, and even they wouldn't actually date a girl that did something like that. They'd mess around with her and screw around, but nobody would ever think of her as a girlfriend; references to her as such would be made only as a joke.

Holy Shit that guy sounds so similar that I can relate. Well uh... I'm thinking that you need to make the first move because even the most obvious hints will fly by him or atleast seem to because he is probably scared shitless of getting into a relationship.

Gently coax him and show him that you want him and get him to come out of his shell. Trust me, once he knows that you want to hookup with 'im he'll become much more confident around you and then try to hold on to you.

JESUS just be honest and upfront. Why do girls always have to play games like this??

Anyway, only possible negative I see for you is sexual inexperience on his part but it might not be a bad thing. In either case, good luck!

Oh in that case ...'warp factor 1 Mr.Sulu'.

Walk up to him when he's alone and kiss him full on the mouth. No words, just action. Put your arms around him when you do so he can't break away (nervous reaction which means nothing). Make sure you press and rub all those girly bits against him while you do.

When you come up for air then just say clearly' so when are you finally going to ask me out?'

If you can leave off coming up for air until you're sure he's got a hard on then even better.

DO THIS!!! There's no way in hell he would turn that down. After the initial kiss, just tone it down for a little while, and I can see no reason why he wouldn't see you as a girlfriend.

Word. Guys won't play with your feelings like a girl would. Girls love to see guys squirm and then get denied.

When I was younger, I wouldn't date anyone that my friends knew, but the only way I ever met girls was through my friends. As a result, I didn't really have any relationships until I went to college.

It's possible that your new friend is single for similar reasons.

Edit: You seem to know his friends, and you say he wants you, so there is a slight chance that I am wrong about this.

I dont understand the question.

You like him
He likes you

Just fucking ask him out!
You dont have to pull all these 'tricks' to let him know that you like him

From what I gather he sounds a bit insecure, so dont expect him to ask you out even if you fucking blow him in class.

What'll happen is that youll spend two months flirting like crazy with him, during this period he will fall crazy in love with you, and you will grow tired of him and fall for some other guy, and totally break my heart!!!

Sorry, that's exactly how it went for me anyways...

Seriously, its all thses fucking games you think you have to play that breeds misogynists.

Just fucking ask him out

The one thread I can give advice on. Partly because its the reverse. I'm the guy.

Why must you make it difficult, ask him out. Who gives a rats ass about "tradition" or what have you. As long as your happy its fine.

Don't

be

COMPLICATED!!!!

We don't like it all the time.

Oh in that case ...'warp factor 1 Mr.Sulu'.



Warp factor one would in fact be among the slowest available, you should have said warp 9.8.

I dunno, I would feel sort of cheated and emasculated if a girl made all the moves on me. I think the very few times I've been successful the chicks have just made themselves blatantly obvious and inviting that it was easy. try that. try and bite your lower lip and look up at him. he should get the idea.

Warp factor one would in fact be among the slowest available, you should have said warp 9.8.

Its was supposed to be the slowest of the 'fast' options, ie not her present half impluse speed! Warp factor 9.8 would have equaled 'hurry the fuck up and fuck me already'! *pulls of t-shirt/unhooks bra and unzips jeans*

Oh in that case ...'warp factor 1 Mr.Sulu'.

Walk up to him when he's alone and kiss him full on the mouth. No words, just action. Put your arms around him when you do so he can't break away (nervous reaction which means nothing). Make sure you press and rub all those girly bits against him while you do.

Honestly, if that happened to me, I would just go 'right, this chick has been dared to do this by idiot friends, or has been smoking something that was only discovered in the last 5 minutes'.

Especially if I was shy, nearly 21, and had never been in a relationship.

Be very unsubtle, like actually tell him 'i like you lets go out', but dont do something thats gonna make him think something fishy is going on.

Remember Men have absolutely no soul and wouldn't get a hint if it fell on them.


I love how the person with 1/3 the brain size says this. Just kidding ketch. But seriously, A lot of us guys aren't that stupid.

Pictures please! Of yourself and of your lover-boy too. Otherwise, we (at least I) can't give you sincere advice.