So it seems over the last several months, my sex drive has plummeted to near absolute zero. It's really starting to bug me. I'm 18, about to graduate high school, and I should be wanting to fuck everything that walks right now, but I'm not. It's even to the point where I'll go to parties and drink, and not even have the desire to hook up. I'll talk to girls, but whenever there's any competition, I'll just say to myself, 'whatever, she wasn't that hot anyway,' or something. But the real reason is that I just don't care whether I get in her pants or not, at all.
I'm not on any prescriptions, I'm not depressed, I get enough sleep (usually), and, well I can't think of anything else.
I'm not gay, either.
So what the fuck?

Do you play alot of WoW?

wait till next year

yes, yes you are.

Or maby you jsut get psyched off be the competition. Next time make it a personal chalenge [sorry my spellings really go to shit atm] to hook up with someone. Dont worry bout competition and if they do get the girl beat the shit outa the arseclown so you feel better :)

anyone notice the happy emote is sad when u highlight it?

....:)

No, it just turns bluish...

And no, I don't play computer games.

Why be rapped up in a blessing? You have luck on your side, so do something worthwhile.

It's your frame of mind. Only you can change it.

My guess is you don't want to change it, and are happy to whine about it.

Just stop doing it on my Intarweb.....

you've gotta talk alot more to girls, get to know them, ask them on dates and such.

I've told you this before, shave your afro dude.

If it really mattered at all to you, you'd be out there fucking as I type!

The fact that you can go out, have a good time and not act like a prat to get a girl's attention and favour in the hopes of getting into her unmentionables would suggest you really couldn't care less.

So stop complaining and enjoy the freedom that comes with being single.

How is your sexual history? Like when did you start wanking and stuff?

I didn't even start masturbating until I was 17, and even then it was only once every month or so, just enough to keep from having wet dreams. When I was 18 I finally started wanking on a regular basis because I read about the increased risk in prostate and testicular cancer for those that don't wank.

It's not that I don't have sexual attraction for girls, just that I don't care about being in a relationship or hooking up. I don't have much of a desire for more "intense" orgasms, or anything sexually new at all. So long as I keep the plumbing working down there to stay healthy, I don't give a shit. The social stigma of virginity has worn off for me. I don't really care if I get laid tonight, or die a virgin. I have practically no desire to fuck, and certainly no ambition to go out of my way in order to do so.

Still, I don't consider myself asexual, because I am sexually attracted to women. I just consider myself hetero, with an extremely mellow sex drive.

No, it just turns bluish...

And no, I don't play computer games.

well for me, it goes blackish, and sad

I've told you this before, shave your afro dude.

No.


It's not that I don't have sexual attraction for girls, just that I don't care about being in a relationship or hooking up. I don't have much of a desire for more "intense" orgasms, or anything sexually new at all. So long as I keep the plumbing working down there to stay healthy, I don't give a shit. The social stigma of virginity has worn off for me. I don't really care if I get laid tonight, or die a virgin. I have practically no desire to fuck, and certainly no ambition to go out of my way in order to do so.

Still, I don't consider myself asexual, because I am sexually attracted to women. I just consider myself hetero, with an extremely mellow sex drive.

Yeah, that's pretty similar to me. I didn't mean literally asexual of course.
I guess you're right. It doesn't bug me all the time. If it did, I'd do something about it. It's starting to bug me more and more, so maybe I will do something. Meh.
It's summer, and I'm happy. :)

You need to consider the fact that sex, genetically, is for babies. Sex without babies, is something we as humans have learned we can enjoy, unlike animals.

It's the very breaking of this attachment for the need to reproduce that we are evolving into. Males make the transition easier because their bodies don't carry the babies. It's why females are more "attached" because genetically, they are being told they want companionship to help raise the baby.

Now, try to relate everything about sex: the woman being clingy, "relationship", "I need you" to the fact that this is related to creation itself, and you have become that much wiser.

Basically, it doesnt matter if you get laid. You still get old and die. Do what you want, never listen to anything before your own breathing and body....

Same thing happened to me for a long ass time, except it was mostly due to opiates. benadryl changed all that.

It's your frame of mind. Only you can change it.

yeap.

eat an assload of garlic, garlic ups males sex drive...

Good luck with talking to chicks though.