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Sex and Affection Anything and everything about sex and relations. Please try to keep this forum on-topic, since things tend to wander a bit. Search through old topics before posting a new one, as questions get repeated a lot here.

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Old 2007-05-13, 01:48
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I've realized, that the thoughts you think everyday truly affect your perception of the world around you, and that we are so conditioned to be responsive to things, reactive, that we've forgotten how to be active, how to create events rather than just behave like a robot.

I think a good example of this would be, you might be saying one thing to someone, but you might be thinking/feeling something opposite. This will, unless you truly control yourself and I mean at a deep level, show on your face. We might think of this as a negative thing, like your boss just acted like a fucking asshole to you and youre thinking of ripping his dick off but nodding your head and going "yes, yes".

But it's not always a negative experience that should make us realize this, or that should WAKE us up to how we really feel.... If you can manage to visualize yourself banging every chick that comes in your view, and I mean really imagine it vividly and colorfully, them screaming and sweating right there, you are channelling energy and throwing energy into the air, that they will pick up on at an unconscious level. It's not so much the girl that's important or that you get to fuck every single one, it's being with this energy and playing with it, that does something to your senses, in other words, constantly giving yourself an erection and making it go away, then making it rise again you could say. It's control of this that gives you more control of your life, and can make you more attractive, at ease, natural, less reactive, less bound to your own fears and delusions.

Now this may sound like a load of horse shit, but I think if you stop listening to a fucking word people say, and start imagining what you really want to do, you will be a happier person, and as far as women are concerned, you will appear more sexual no matter what you are saying, because your energy is not in what you are saying but in your body language. What they say can never really say how they truly feel, ever notice how they say one thing and their bodies say the opposite?


This visualization power we have is the secret in many books by "superpimps" to scoring with any girl... it is very useful and all you have to do is really just walk around and put it to work one day, just visualize things around you happening to people and objects as if this is your dream, your playground. Make it just a play. You may find yourself feeling a bit more natural with yourself and women do seem to be attracted more to a guy who feels at ease more than a guy who is tense/confused/worried.

So do it! Just for fun, the next time you are at work or school or a place you have to be around women, act as if you are focused on whatever bullshit this world makes you focus on, but in your mind, have these women stripping their clothes off and raping you. Go in your own mind, daydream, and youll find, the reality you create in your own mind, shapes who you are on the outside, and this is something we collectively are very ignorant of.

Don't like what you see? Imagine it differently, and you will see it differently. Perception of EVERYTHING is all in the mind.

It's also related to lucid dreaming, which is another scope of sexual experience itself...Ive had some experiences in dreamland more sexually fulfilling than ones Ive had here. I say that with no regret at all.
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Old 2007-05-13, 02:16
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I can attest to that. I used to visualize shooting/hurting myself every time I thought I messed up and I was a suicidal wreck for a long time.

Now I'm overcompensating and do not take personal responsibility for anything.
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Old 2007-05-13, 08:49
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Sometimes if Im getting a hard on while sitting on the bus (for no reason usually) I visualize shoving my cock in cold water or a car tire running over it to shreds, and instantly it goes down.

When I was a kid I used to look out the side window of a car and visualize a little running guy, kind of like sonic, running and jumping over objects alongside me.

Nowadays I just imagine taking up streetlights and humming them into Dunkin Donuts windows, picking up cars and throwing them into each other, and think random things like "he just got his ass fucked, she just shot heroin, he probably fucks his kids, wow look at this guy walkin all goobly gobbly".

I think I'm insane, but I think to think anything normal is using the same exact mechanism, just more robotic. So I try to always give myself a laugh. People must think Im crazy sometimes, especially at my job when Im the only one busting my ass laughing about it while everyone else is just busting their ass. Its because Im imagining myself throwing shit around and dinging customer's heads.
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Old 2007-05-13, 10:47
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so you just called yourself a superpimp?
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Old 2007-05-13, 11:54
Mr.Happy Mr.Happy is offline
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When I was a kid I used to look out the side window of a car and visualize a little running guy, kind of like sonic, running and jumping over objects alongside me.

Nowadays I just imagine taking up streetlights and humming them into Dunkin Donuts windows, picking up cars and throwing them into each other...

I still do both of those. I have an exceptionally vivid imagination (to the point where I can physically feel, smell, taste or hear things I visualise when I concentrate) and it helps to pass the time on long journeys. I also often imagine something invisibly thing and sharp that cuts through everything, angling it and watching things fall. If I put proper mental effort into it it looks awesome. I'm constantly using my imagination as a distraction.

I don't do this with sexual things, I don't need to pick up girls and I sure as hell wouldn't want to (tomorrow will be a year with my girlfriend, y'see). However, I do use this in other aspects of life, even if it's only semiconscious. The way I usually think about it is "act as if you've already got what you want, and you'll get it". I think it's why things tend to go so well for me most of the time.
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Old 2007-05-13, 20:29
Twisted_Ferret Twisted_Ferret is offline
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I still do both of those. I have an exceptionally vivid imagination (to the point where I can physically feel, smell, taste or hear things I visualise when I concentrate) and it helps to pass the time on long journeys. I also often imagine something invisibly thing and sharp that cuts through everything, angling it and watching things fall. If I put proper mental effort into it it looks awesome. I'm constantly using my imagination as a distraction.
Whoa, I do the same thing! I thought I was the only one with the Invisible Sword... EEK!

I don't do this with sexual things, I don't need to pick up girls and I sure as hell wouldn't want to (tomorrow will be a year with my girlfriend, y'see).
Also same... :D (Well, not tomorrow specifically, but same gist 'n' all.)
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Old 2007-05-13, 23:40
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Whoa, I do the same thing! I thought I was the only one with the Invisible Sword... EEK!


Jesus FUCK- I do the same thing!

Sometimes it was a chainsaw though..

~Saint947
 
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