I've posted on this board numerous times about this girl, she's a bitch , cynical , but yet my heart drops whenever i see her picture. I proably should just ignore and completely erase her from my life, but the thought of it breaks me to peices. I dont know what I should do anymore. Our relationship that we had has completely destroyed our past freindship. She will instant messege me from time to time, and said Hello or Hi. But my heart would drop and my mind go blank. Then We would proceed asking ourselves things we already know the anwer too like. Like how are you? Oh im doing fine. Even though i really wasnt.
Its funny because I think im paying the price for being an un-compassionate person, Now I suffer in silence without a solution. Sorry if this thread sounds emo-ish, im not trying to come off as that. Its just the way I feel right now. Can someone give me some sort of advice on what to do in this certain predictcament?

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Just rape her at night with a mask, then take it off in the morning and tell her how you feel.

Is there any possibility she would give you another chance? At this point in time I don't really see the harm in at least trying

I know exactly how you feel. I also have feeling for a different girl who makes my IQ drop by about fifty points every time she smiles at me. I don't have the balls to ask for a second chance or ask second girl out. I suck.

Say hello. It never hurts to make the effort; pride is cheap.

Either you will get back together, or you'll get over the feelings. Either way, talking to her can be helpful.

I'm pretty much in the same boat as you, except she won't talk to me at all. We got into a fight the other day about how much I bother her and creep her hout because I try to talk to her to get her to like me again. :( It really isn't fair but there's not a whole lot you can do. But your situation seems quite a bit different so you might have a chance.

The only advice I have to give is: Don't fuck it up.

Yeah , thanks for the advice we still talk, but theirs a curveball now added to this situation. She's 17 and she told me is suppouse to be engaged by 18 to her current bf. And my mind is like WTF?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HOW CAN YOU EVEN SERIOUSLY CONSIDER THIS?!?!?!. But that reaction would of pissed her off so I just replied ''oh.'' This is lame, but on a good note my new gaming pc just arrived, maybe i just join the masses and drown my sorrows in a MMORP.

But on a serious note, I just want someone of the opposite sex who actually does give a shit about me, pleasant to my eye , and has a decent IQ. And who is strongly against abstinence.

Yeah , thanks for the advice we still talk, but theirs a curveball now added to this situation. She's 17 and she told me is suppouse to be engaged by 18 to her current bf. And my mind is like WTF?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! HOW CAN YOU EVEN SERIOUSLY CONSIDER THIS?!?!?!

Surprisingly I have known 2 girls who wanted to engage at 17. I honestly don't know why they would try so young... or mabey they were so caught up in their emotions, and thought they would marry based on first impressions. Unsurprisingly, it crashed and burned for them. Who could have seen that coming

In my opinion you shouldn't think about marriage until you are around 20~25.

Im in your situation, but the only thing is when does it go from not giving up to just being the creepy stalker ex bf?

Im at the point where I know I can't be with her, at least not now, and all I want to do it move on but I can't find any other girl who even remotely makes me think seriously about them beyond sex.

So do I, so does everyone, get over it.

Im in your situation, but the only thing is when does it go from not giving up to just being the creepy stalker ex bf?

Im at the point where I know I can't be with her, at least not now, and all I want to do it move on but I can't find any other girl who even remotely makes me think seriously about them beyond sex.

Well it really depends. I'm slowly evolving into the creepy ex stalker. Hell she's even told me I creep her the fuck out. I try really hard to just be nice, and be friends but it doesn't seem to work. I don't fap to her and jizz all over the computer, infact I don't think about her when I fap. She's different than that, so I don't think I count as a creepy stalker. It's whatever... good luck kid. At least you still have a chance.

Yeah I have feelings for my ex. He has a gf, it doesnt bug me though. I hope that one day (not any time soon) we get back together, cause I really do care about him. But we just need to see other people. We are still friends and talk. Its cool, he doesnt talk about his gf to me so I am fine with the whole situation.

swallow a bottle of tylonal and she'll love you.