Alright, so ive been talking to this girl i work with for a few weeks now and tonight was the first time we ever hung out out of work. We went to her house and just sat on the couch and her bed watching movies. The whole time i was just wondering if i should put my arm around her or hold her hand or something. I never ended up doing anything cause i didnt know if it was ok for where we were in the raltionship since it was just the first date.

We just layed next to each other most of the night and just talked and made her laugh but never made a move. Now, i was happy with what happened cause it was just the first date and i havent asked her out yet but i sent her a message sayin i had a good time and we should hang out again. She never responded and im just freakin out that she thought i was too shy or somethin so was what i did fine for just a first date?

Can't you see it?!

It's so obvious!
She thinks you're gay!

You switched from the couch to her bed?

http://www.shoalhaven.net.au/~suep/tom/PIX/your%20gay.JPG

And then you didn't have sex?

This is where you went wrong, for future ref that's a bit of a hint. Better luck next time.

this is the first time ive hung out with her i know i probably should have done somethin but her parents were home too.
i guess ive just been out of the game too long after my last relationship. so really no one thinks i did the right thing and just take it easy on the first date? fuck i hope i didnt blow this

It's ok, you just sent her the wrong signals and stuff. You should just call her and ask if she wants to do it again. I'm sure she'll give you a chance to show her what you really want :P.

I hope you quicksaved... hit f7 and try again dude.

alright ive talked to her now and everythings cool. well probably be hangin out sometime soon

She thinks your gay, there is no cure for this. Give up and/or murder/suicide.