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 #1 
Old 2007-05-11, 03:41
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Default My Girlfriend Isn't Shaved...

I've been dating this girl for a couple of weeks, and last night for the first time we started to mess around. I hit the lights and took off her pants. I reached down... and felt hair. It was really aqward for me. I've never dated a girl that wasn't shaved down there. The point is, I don't like it, and personally, it makes me want to puke just thinking about it right now. How can I bring up the subject and tell her how i feel about it without making her feel uncomfortable?

Thanks in advance...
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Old 2007-05-11, 03:44
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talk to her about it. just say your turned off by it. if she really "loves" you she will do it for you. if shes like i dont know be like if you need to think about it you can. just dont go in her pants until she tells u shes shaved
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Old 2007-05-11, 03:46
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Get used to it. They usually will shave if you start growing yours and they realize what the problem is. So either grow your bush or get over it. Really, Pussy's Pussy!
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Old 2007-05-11, 03:52
streetjusticeforall streetjusticeforall is offline
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Anonymous email. That is not something the girl will like you bringing up. There are times when it is "mature" to talk openly, and this is NOT one of them. She will be offended, without a doubt.
 #5 
Old 2007-05-11, 04:24
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Mustache, eh?
 #6 
Old 2007-05-11, 04:35
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Mustache, eh?

lol

how hairy is she? are we talking WELCOME TO THE JUNGLE!! type hairy, or what?
 #7 
Old 2007-05-11, 04:41
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Grow the fuck up man. Personally i dont give a rats ass either way. However if my girlfriend had hair down there i would sort of like it. It would remind me that shes a "Women".

Not to mention that my last few girlfriends were embarrassed to have sex if it WASNT shaved. Which sucks balls.

I can understand if you dont want to eat her out. Then again maybe im bring harsh if its making you sick. Just realize that its probally gonna happen alot in your life and not all girls shave down there.


Either way good luck

EDIT:: WELCOME TO THE JUNGLE? AHHAHAHAHHAH
 #8 
Old 2007-05-11, 04:49
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Holy crap.
Man up.
 #9 
Old 2007-05-11, 04:57
letsnukechina letsnukechina is offline
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Don't say ANYTHING.

When you two have sex, bring a stereo to set the mood.

Then play "welcome to the jungle".

Then post pics.
 #10 
Old 2007-05-11, 04:59
Swayze Swayze is offline
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Some girls shave
others dont.

Shut up and lick.
 #11 
Old 2007-05-11, 05:29
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i have never been with a girl who doesnt shave...so i wold be quite disgusted too!dont think you are the only one!
 #12 
Old 2007-05-11, 06:25
streetjusticeforall streetjusticeforall is offline
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Grow the fuck up man. Personally i dont give a rats ass either way. However if my girlfriend had hair down there i would sort of like it. It would remind me that shes a "Women".

Not to mention that my last few girlfriends were embarrassed to have sex if it WASNT shaved. Which sucks balls.

Oddly enough, I was with a series of girls who were all shaved, and I ended up asking one of them to let it grow a bit for me. It is a nice change up every now and then. Also, guys tend to want what they can't have.

If the girl shaves, the guy wants some hair.
If the girl is hair, the guy is disgusted.

We are such cunts. :D
 #13 
Old 2007-05-11, 06:30
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I want a girl with a bit of hair. Not heaps. More like a Savannah than a Jungle.
 #14 
Old 2007-05-11, 06:48
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Get over it. The trend, probably from pornography mostly, is to shave. But not every woman does this. If you go your full adult life, expect to see some bush.
It's true sometimes it takes time to get used to things. I probably used to think cocks were gross. But that was when I was innocent, and younger. Just deal with it, basically.
 #15 
Old 2007-05-11, 07:02
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EDIT:: WELCOME TO THE JUNGLE? AHHAHAHAHHAH

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8GjezHvG9W8

this song reminds me of hairy women
 #16 
Old 2007-05-11, 07:42
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It really is very simple. If you don't feel able , or comfortable enough with her, to explain the situation to her and ask her nicely to shave for you then you shouldn't be sleeping with her in the first place.
 #17 
Old 2007-05-11, 07:56
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Grow the fuck up. Unless it looks like she has no idea what a razor is, tthen stop being an immature little douche bag.
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Old 2007-05-11, 08:44
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Or you can fake a loud conversation with your friends about how it is undesirable.
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 #19 
Old 2007-05-11, 09:38
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If she has less than you, man the fuck up.

Find some hirsute porn. After an hour of the Earth's hairiest women you'll consider your girlfriend's growth to be trivial.
 #20 
Old 2007-05-11, 10:48
streetjusticeforall streetjusticeforall is offline
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Originally Posted by XHippie HunterX
Grow the fuck up. Unless it looks like she has no idea what a razor is, tthen stop being an immature little douche bag.


What a dumbass thing to say. Not wanting your girlfriend to have a hairy cunt has nothing to do with maturity. Shaving is ,for the most part, such an easy way to make your partner happy, so why shouldn't he be able to care about it?

Does it really make you feel good about yourself, to think you are more mature than random people on the internet? Honestly, it is probably the weakest insult which exists in the entire universe. People who constantly claim to be more mature than others are complete fucktards, with no idea of the real world.
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Old 2007-05-11, 11:56
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What a dumbass thing to say. Not wanting your girlfriend to have a hairy cunt has nothing to do with maturity. Shaving is ,for the most part, such an easy way to make your partner happy, so why shouldn't he be able to care about it?

Does it really make you feel good about yourself, to think you are more mature than random people on the internet? Honestly, it is probably the weakest insult which exists in the entire universe. People who constantly claim to be more mature than others are complete fucktards, with no idea of the real world.

Boobjobs, Nosejobs, bleaching your orifices, etc, all ways to make your man happy. Does that mean women should do it? FUCK NO! The woman's job isn't to please you by doing shit she doesn't want (except sammiches). If she likes her bush, and she says she's keeping it, accept or GTFO.
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Old 2007-05-11, 12:00
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street, I think it stems mostly from their own lifestyle of just being able to enjoy a moment without letting their little peeves get in the way of the goal. Maturity has nothing to do with it, but it's a typical method of delivery for a message containing advice tangent to the subject at hand.
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Old 2007-05-11, 12:08
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I would never completely shave mine...Although I do keep it trimmed down to help my husband find my parts.:P

Seriously, I don't get what the big deal is for some guys!
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Old 2007-05-11, 12:55
streetjusticeforall streetjusticeforall is offline
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Boobjobs, Nosejobs, bleaching your orifices, etc, all ways to make your man happy. Does that mean women should do it? FUCK NO! The woman's job isn't to please you by doing shit she doesn't want (except sammiches). If she likes her bush, and she says she's keeping it, accept or GTFO.

So you just decided to make shit up about his girl, and place your own little thoughts in her mind. He hasn't even asked his girl, and already you say she loves her bush and she is keeping it despite his tastes.

How do you know she just doesn't think he likes it? What if he told her, and she said OMFG I am so embarrassed, I thought it turned you on! Relationships are about pleasing each other. Why else would you be in a relationship, except to make each other happy? (or shotgun wedding).

Many woman actually ENJOY making their men happy, a fucking shocker huh? But no, we shouldn't allow woman the simple emotions of joy and happiness. Fuck that shit. Keep them oblivious to everything around them. That's will show much we respect them.
 #25 
Old 2007-05-11, 13:08
streetjusticeforall streetjusticeforall is offline
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Originally Posted by Xiao Mei
I would never completely shave mine...Although I do keep it trimmed down to help my husband find my parts.:P

Seriously, I don't get what the big deal is for some guys!


Well, it all depends on the woman, and how fast/thick/dark her hair grows. Naked pictures to follow.

This is what a lot of men picture when they think of non-shaved : http://tinyurl.com/22f7gz

Does that look sexy to you?

In reality, it is mostly just like this:
http://tinyurl.com/2xhd6m
But even then,we are getting into problems of finding our way around. Getting lost, and not being able to see the detail of your vagina. Why do people buy high resolution monitors, televisions, cameras etc? We want to see every detail. It's built into our brains. We are naturally curious and voyeuristic.

If we take a look at this for example:
http://tinyurl.com/24saqm
It looks so much cleaner, and clearer.
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Old 2007-05-11, 13:53
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8GjezHvG9W8

this song reminds me of hairy women

Damn, if the 80's were really like that, it must've been the most awesome time ever EEK!
 #27 
Old 2007-05-11, 14:15
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I would rather see a bush than no hair at all to be completely honest. Something about a hairless pussy seems unnatural to me, like silicone and airbrushed pornstars.

Plus, I'd be a total fucking hypocrite to make her shave.
 #28 
Old 2007-05-11, 15:08
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harden the fuck up.
 #29 
Old 2007-05-11, 15:18
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Originally Posted by streetjusticeforall
Anonymous email. That is not something the girl will like you bringing up. There are times when it is "mature" to talk openly, and this is NOT one of them. She will be offended, without a doubt.


An anonymous email?

"Hi, just a heads-up from an anonymous friend, you should shave down there. Oh, uh, and your boyfriend might like to be woken up with a blowjob in the mornings, bear it in mind."

She might be able to figure that one out :p
 #30 
Old 2007-05-11, 15:24
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i like hairy puss ^_^
 #31 
Old 2007-05-11, 15:32
streetjusticeforall streetjusticeforall is offline
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An anonymous email?

"Hi, just a heads-up from an anonymous friend, you should shave down there. Oh, uh, and your boyfriend might like to be woken up with a blowjob in the mornings, bear it in mind."

She might be able to figure that one out :p

That is why you sign it:

P.S. This is not your boyfriend. ;)
 #32 
Old 2007-05-11, 15:48
LojiiK LojiiK is offline
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But even then,we are getting into problems of finding our way around. Getting lost, and not being able to see the detail of your vagina. Why do people buy high resolution monitors, televisions, cameras etc? We want to see every detail. It's built into our brains. We are naturally curious and voyeuristic.



Troubles finding our way around, and getting lost? If a little hair gets you that disoriented... Something is seriously fucking wrong. Maybe some guys just cant navigate a pussy, but you really shouldn't need directions, really... If it's like that, you may aswell just fucking convert over to the cock.

Edit: Anyways, just walk up to your girl and say "Would you mind shaving, or if I shaved you? I've had this serious craving to eat you for breakfast for a while now..."

You dont need to leave her a note, we're not in public school anymore.
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Old 2007-05-11, 15:59
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Troubles finding our way around, and getting lost? If a little hair gets you that disoriented... Something is seriously fucking wrong. Maybe some guys just cant navigate a pussy, but you really shouldn't need directions, really... If it's like that, you may aswell just fucking convert over to the cock.

Ah, sorry Sex god. We can't all find the clit under a mountain of hair. Maybe you should draw us a map, since obviously I am that fucking dumb in comparison to you. Some girls have very small/hidden clits, and even a small amount of hair completely hides it.
 #34 
Old 2007-05-11, 16:04
LojiiK LojiiK is offline
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Thanks for the attempt at putting words into my mouth, but it's not needed. I never claimed to be a sex god, im just saying that a pussy isn't algebra.

By the sounds of it, a chick hits the lights and tells you to get down to business, you'd be lost as fuck.



I've never known a clit to move about magically... You've seen one, that's like GPS on the rest of them, hair or not, light or not, thats straight up how it is.
 #35 
Old 2007-05-11, 16:20
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I've never known a clit to move about magically...

I once encountered one that pinged itself across the room and hit me in the eye. Then it ran behind the wardrobe and I had to tempt it out with a morsel of meat before the girl'd sleep with me again.

Bad times.
 #36 
Old 2007-05-11, 16:22
LojiiK LojiiK is offline
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I once encountered one that pinged itself across the room and hit me in the eye. Then it ran behind the wardrobe and I had to tempt it out with a morsel of meat before the girl'd sleep with me again.

Bad times.

lol..
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Old 2007-05-11, 16:36
streetjusticeforall streetjusticeforall is offline
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By the sounds of it, a chick hits the lights and tells you to get down to business, you'd be lost as fuck.

I've never known a clit to move about magically... You've seen one, that's like GPS on the rest of them, hair or not, light or not, thats straight up how it is.

You obviously have never been with a girl who had a small, hidden clit and hairy puss, so stop talking until you have experience in the matter. We all get it, your e-penis is huge, but this post is trying to talk about reality.
 #38 
Old 2007-05-11, 16:44
LojiiK LojiiK is offline
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You obviously have never been with a girl who had a small, hidden clit and hairy puss, so stop talking until you have experience in the matter. We all get it, your e-penis is huge, but this post is trying to talk about reality.

Holy fuck man... again with the words in my mouth. ITS A PUSSY. Did I say anything about my dick? I'm not a sex god, ITS A FUCKING PUSSY. Push the hair away, put it out of your mind, i mean the shit doesn't grow ON the clit... Im being a real as it gets, you're trying to tell all these kids that it's comparable to rocket science. I think you should actually eat some pussy, and then start talking your shit kid.

The OP has to man the fuck up, and let his woman know that hes not too into the situation in the south, or learn to live with it. No little note from someone "random" is going to help the situation out, and if thats what works, then I dont know why he'd even want to hit that.
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Old 2007-05-11, 16:51
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So you just decided to make shit up about his girl, and place your own little thoughts in her mind. He hasn't even asked his girl, and already you say she loves her bush and she is keeping it despite his tastes.

How do you know she just doesn't think he likes it? What if he told her, and she said OMFG I am so embarrassed, I thought it turned you on! Relationships are about pleasing each other. Why else would you be in a relationship, except to make each other happy? (or shotgun wedding).

Many woman actually ENJOY making their men happy, a fucking shocker huh? But no, we shouldn't allow woman the simple emotions of joy and happiness. Fuck that shit. Keep them oblivious to everything around them. That's will show much we respect them.

This has to be the STUPIDEST post I've ever read in S & A! My god you have so MUCH to learn about relationships and COMPATIBILITY! If the OP is such a pansy that a little hair is actually "disgusting" him, then its time to find another woman. It is NOT her obligation to makes changes in her life just to suit him. If there are such significant aspects of someone that rub you the wrong way so badly, then you are with the WRONG woman.

Where the hell do you draw the line at a girl should make changes in her life just to "make her man happy"? Dictate what kind of car she drives? Music she listens to? Friends that she hangs out with? How about sexually.........does she HAVE to do anal if she doesn't want to? Have a 3some? Let him piss on her?

Street you have no fuckin clue in the least. People shouldn't have to compromise their values and/or likes just to make their partner happy. If there isn't legitimate compatibility then its time to move on and quit wasting each other's time. Or are you just one of those "men" (term used VERY loosely) that doesn't want a woman that is an equal partner, instead just some subserviant twit waiting on his every whim???????

And then in the post after this you discuss about how "difficult" some clits are to find. ROFLMFAO!!!!!!!! Dude, any further sex discussions you should stay very clear of. Because it is quite obvious this is all such a mystery to you by even uttering such nonsensical blather. Your credibility is forever tainted, and anything you have to "add" to a sex conversation is laughable at best. Maybe if the female anatomy is so "complicated" and tough for you to figure out you should just go find a nice big cock to suck, and you'll never have to worry about your epic quest in search of a woman's clit ever again.
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Old 2007-05-11, 16:53
LojiiK LojiiK is offline
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Finally someone thats eaten some pussy joins the conversation..
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Old 2007-05-11, 16:54
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Holy fuck man... again with the words in my mouth. ITS A PUSSY. Did I say anything about my dick? I'm not a sex god, ITS A FUCKING PUSSY. Push the hair away, put it out of your mind, i mean the shit doesn't grow ON the clit... Im being a real as it gets, you're trying to tell all these kids that it's comparable to rocket science. I think you should actually eat some pussy, and then start talking your shit kid.

The OP has to man the fuck up, and let his woman know that hes not too into the situation in the south, or learn to live with it. No little note from someone "random" is going to help the situation out, and if thats what works, then I dont know why he'd even want to hit that.

You can't push shit like this outta the way:
http://porn.iwantanewgirlfriend.com/star-images/hairy_pussy_porno-hairy_asian.jpg

I was with a 20 year old girl who had never shaved her cunt in her life, and she had more than that girl. And it was EVERYWHERE. Hairy pussy is usually sweatier as well.

The guy obviously doesn't want to embarrass his girlfriend. If you think it is manly to embarrass your woman, good for you, but I see it as nothing more than being an asshole.

And are you telling me, if you opened you email one day, and a note said "Hey, you don't know me, but I really want to tell you that woman don't find your bushy pubic area attractive at all, and you need to clean that up a bit asap" you would just ignore it? I would assume it was my gf, but he happy they didn't say it face to face. Makes a nice surpise the next time the two get naked.
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Old 2007-05-11, 17:04
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You can't push shit like this outta the way:
http://porn.iwantanewgirlfriend.com/star-images/hairy_pussy_porno-hairy_asian.jpg

I was with a 20 year old girl who had never shaved her cunt in her life, and she had more than that girl. And it was EVERYWHERE. Hairy pussy is usually sweatier as well.

The guy obviously doesn't want to embarrass his girlfriend. If you think it is manly to embarrass your woman, good for you, but I see it as nothing more than being an asshole.

And are you telling me, if you opened you email one day, and a note said "Hey, you don't know me, but I really want to tell you that woman don't find your bushy pubic area attractive at all, and you need to clean that up a bit asap" you would just ignore it? I would assume it was my gf, but he happy they didn't say it face to face. Makes a nice surpise the next time the two get naked.


This just gets better and better....."OMGZ!!! that horrible sweat!"

So putting your tounge in a girls mouth where there are the largest amounts of bacteria and crud doesn't bother you, but sweat does? Putting your tounge where she pisses is ok, but sweat is a big deal? ROFLMFAO! I'd love to be a fly on the wall when you are actually banging a broad....I can't imagine how ridiculous you'd look with all of these things that bother you.
 #43 
Old 2007-05-11, 17:07
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Girls are pretty self concious, and im a guy so im not entirely sure, but if I were a girl, I think I'd much rather have my bf tell me, or even bring it up, than to read something from someone who saw you in public (and somehow has a way to contact you) and is advising you it'd be best to kind of "clear things up"... Listen to the guru, give it up and suck some cock. That or stick to being the advice guy in your middle school, cause you're just digging yourself a grave here. Some of us do have real world experience, some of which disproves almost everything you've said.
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Old 2007-05-11, 17:07
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This has to be the STUPIDEST post I've ever read in S & A! My god you have so MUCH to learn about relationships and COMPATIBILITY! If the OP is such a pansy that a little hair is actually "disgusting" him, then its time to find another woman. It is NOT her obligation to makes changes in her life just to suit him. If there are such significant aspects of someone that rub you the wrong way so badly, then you are with the WRONG woman.

Where the hell do you draw the line at a girl should make changes in her life just to "make her man happy"? Dictate what kind of car she drives? Music she listens to? Friends that she hangs out with? How about sexually.........does she HAVE to do anal if she doesn't want to? Have a 3some? Let him piss on her?

Street you have no fuckin clue in the least. People shouldn't have to compromise their values and/or likes just to make their partner happy. If there isn't legitimate compatibility then its time to move on and quit wasting each other's time. Or are you just one of those "men" (term used VERY loosely) that doesn't want a woman that is an equal partner, instead just some subserviant twit waiting on his every whim???????

We aren't talking about some girl not shaving for religious reasons. We are talking about girls who don't even KNOW their men are unhappy with their hairy pussies.

As we talked about before, you guys don't even know how hairy we are talking. She could have some kind of anus to belly button world record.

Are you telling me, you would never ask a girl to do something for you in a relationship? What a stupid fucking way to act.

It isn't her obligation to change her life, but maybe, JUST MAYBE, she actually likes him! and wants to please him and keep him! Does that not make any sense to you? Are all happy couples just perfect from the start?

If you started growing some straggly ass beard that was embarrassing as fuck for your gf, and she asked you to shave it, you would just dump her? Now your cool.

It is a two way street, and every relationship is different. Don't act like it is only guys who control girls. If she is super hot and nice when we are alone, yes she can control who I see, what kind of car I drive etc. If she is worth it, she can control everything. Why would I want to have a shittier gf, just so I can have a sports car?

It is everyones personal choice. If they don't want to compromise their values, they can leave their partner. I highly fucking doubt this guys girlfriend has some moral reason she isn't shaved.

Compatibility outside the bedroom usually outweighs what goes on inside. As such, partners usually work together to come to a reasonable compromise inside the bedroom to stay together happily outside.

Now tell me, this wouldn't turn you off of your girlfriend in the least?

http://www.hairymex.com/images/Saraass.jpg

Now, what if your girlfriend told you she would do anything for you, because she loved you so much. You wouldn't ask her to shave it? What if you KNEW she would be deathly embarrassed by it if you mentioned it. Then what do you do?
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Old 2007-05-11, 17:10
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Originally Posted by LojiiK
Finally someone thats eaten some pussy joins the conversation..


Actually Loj...its guys like Street that we should be thanking on a daily basis. Girls go from guys like him with all of his silly quirks and turnoffs, and then get with us that really get down and dirty and funky and THAT is why they keep coming back to us for more and more. So from the bottom of my heart Street, for all that repeat pussy that kept coming back for more and more and more......Thank You sincerely for being such a stupid and lousy lover to women everywhere.
 #46 
Old 2007-05-11, 17:12
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So putting your tounge in a girls mouth where there are the largest amounts of bacteria and crud doesn't bother you, but sweat does? Putting your tounge where she pisses is ok, but sweat is a big deal? ROFLMFAO! I'd love to be a fly on the wall when you are actually banging a broad....I can't imagine how ridiculous you'd look with all of these things that bother you.


I am not saying sweat bothers me terribly, but it is another reason to go ahead and shave it. And yes, if a girl has bad breath, I am fucking disgusted. I brush my teeth, mouthwash, floss and chew sugar free gum regularly enough to have bacteria to a minumum. I am sure I do look a little odd, because things bother me, but if a girl really likes me a lot, we will work it out sooner than later, and I will have nothing to worry about any longer.


Girls are pretty self concious, and im a guy so im not entirely sure, but if I were a girl, I think I'd much rather have my bf tell me, or even bring it up, than to read something from someone who saw you in public (and somehow has a way to contact you) and is advising you it'd be best to kind of "clear things up"... Listen to the guru, give it up and suck some cock. That or stick to being the advice guy in your middle school.

I am 21 years old, so you can stop making kiddie jokes.
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Old 2007-05-11, 17:12
LojiiK LojiiK is offline
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Actually Loj...its guys like Street that we should be thanking on a daily basis. Girls go from guys like him with all of his silly quirks and turnoffs, and then get with us that really get down and dirty and funky and THAT is why they keep coming back to us for more and more. So from the bottom of my heart Street, for all that repeat pussy that kept coming back for more and more and more......Thank You sincerely for being such a stupid and lousy lover to women everywhere.

I'll cheers to that


I am 21 years old, so you can stop making kiddie jokes.

Kinda hard not to make kiddie jokes when we're dealing with you...
 #48 
Old 2007-05-11, 17:15
streetjusticeforall streetjusticeforall is offline
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Actually Loj...its guys like Street that we should be thanking on a daily basis. Girls go from guys like him with all of his silly quirks and turnoffs, and then get with us that really get down and dirty and funky and THAT is why they keep coming back to us for more and more. So from the bottom of my heart Street, for all that repeat pussy that kept coming back for more and more and more......Thank You sincerely for being such a stupid and lousy lover to women everywhere.

Hey, if you want my sloppy seconds, more power to ya man. I will be sure to tell them not to wash either, since you like it dirty, then you can taste me when you get down there.

There is a thing called good hygiene, it plays a big part in my sex life for a reason. Being shaved also allows you to spot any possible infections/stds etc easier. But you dont care about that, so just close your eyes, and dig in.
 #49 
Old 2007-05-11, 17:18
LojiiK LojiiK is offline
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Hey, if you want my sloppy seconds, more power to ya man. I will be sure to tell them not to wash either, since you like it dirty, then you can taste me when you get down there.

There is a thing called good hygiene, it plays a big part in my sex life for a reason. Being shaved also allows you to spot any possible infections/stds etc easier. But you dont care about that, so just close your eyes, and dig in.

You have never in your life seen a pussy, let alone busted some nut.

...This might not be Comedy Night at The Apollo, but I'm laughing my ass off.

edit - your link got me:



Error on hairymex.com
403 Forbidden
You requested a document which is protected from public access.
Retry or go to hairymex.com




I'm not sure if you're signed up to hairymex, but... I'm sure you'll have something
 #50 
Old 2007-05-11, 17:25
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You have never in your life seen a pussy, let alone busted some nut.

...This might not be Comedy Night at The Apollo, but I'm laughing my ass off.

Like I said, all you have to show off is your e-penis. It grows every time you make unfounded insults towards me, and you are incredibly proud of it I bet, but I am not impressed.

Edit:
So can't you read? Go to www.hairymex.com.
 #51 
Old 2007-05-11, 17:28
LojiiK LojiiK is offline
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Actually, now you're just feeding me entertaintment...
 #52 
Old 2007-05-11, 17:35
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I am sure I do look a little odd, because things bother me, but if a girl really likes me a lot, we will work it out sooner than later, and I will have nothing to worry about any longer.




I am 21 years old, so you can stop making kiddie jokes.

The words above are what makes you an utter and complete HYPOCRITE! So a girl is supposed to just DEAL with your quirks, as a token proving her love? Tell me, why the hell don't YOU have to change, like you are suggesting the girl with the hairy slit do? Again, its all about the girl pleasing YOU and living up to your nonsensical expectations. Sorry bub, you are just a weird hypocrite and nothing more.

Who cares if you are 21, I'm 36 btw....and neither has any relevance. I don't care if you are 15 or 75 but when you start making comments like...."some clits are hard to find" all it is doing is proving how little sex you have ever had. Hairy or bald, they are in the SAME FUCKIN place on every woman. Right at the top of her pussy, between her pussy lips. Should we draw you a fuckin map? Again thanks for being such a quirky weirdo, its sexually awkward fucks like you that got me laid so much before I got married.
 #53 
Old 2007-05-11, 17:40
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The words above are what makes you an utter and complete HYPOCRITE! So a girl is supposed to just DEAL with your quirks, as a token proving her love? Tell me, why the hell don't YOU have to change, like you are suggesting the girl with the hairy slit do? Again, its all about the girl pleasing YOU and living up to your nonsensical expectations. Sorry bub, you are just a weird hypocrite and nothing more.

Who cares if you are 21, I'm 36 btw....and neither has any relevance. I don't care if you are 15 or 75 but when you start making comments like...."some clits are hard to find" all it is doing is proving how little sex you have ever had. Hairy or bald, they are in the SAME FUCKIN place on every woman. Right at the top of her pussy, between her pussy lips. Should we draw you a fuckin map? Again thanks for being such a quirky weirdo, its sexually awkward fucks like you that got me laid so much before I got married.

I was telling the other guy my age, because he was insulting me telling me I was just a little kid who has no experience.

It would only become hypocritical if the girl asked me to change, and I refused. In fact, last time I fucked, I sweated all over the poor girl, and apologized profusely, but she said don't worry about it, thats what sex is about.

A girl once made an off handed remark about guys shaving to me, and the next day I was bald as a fucking baby. I change for girls, because I like them. I want them to be happy with how I am.

Have you honestly never seen an "invisible" clit? They do exist. They are completely hidden, and you have to "dig" for them.
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Old 2007-05-11, 17:41
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Hey, if you want my sloppy seconds, more power to ya man. I will be sure to tell them not to wash either, since you like it dirty, then you can taste me when you get down there.

There is a thing called good hygiene, it plays a big part in my sex life for a reason. Being shaved also allows you to spot any possible infections/stds etc easier. But you dont care about that, so just close your eyes, and dig in.

ROFLMFAO @ sloppy seconds!!!!!!!

Braniac, I ain't talking about her walking out of your bedroom and coming over to mine an hour later! So now what, are you only willing to go after virgins now? Is that another one of your quirks? When you are trying to get with a girl and start going for that cunt, are you all uptight about every other guy that has banged her? Do you have ANY knowledge of how a pussy works even?

Good luck on your quest finding virgins that will deal with all of YOUR quirks, and then in turn change everything about their life that you don't like......
 #55 
Old 2007-05-11, 17:48
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I was telling the other guy my age, because he was insulting me telling me I was just a little kid who has no experience.

It would only become hypocritical if the girl asked me to change, and I refused. In fact, last time I fucked, I sweated all over the poor girl, and apologized profusely, but she said don't worry about it, thats what sex is about.

A girl once made an off handed remark about guys shaving to me, and the next day I was bald as a fucking baby. I change for girls, because I like them. I want them to be happy with how I am.

Have you honestly never seen an "invisible" clit? They do exist. They are completely hidden, and you have to "dig" for them.

Now we get to the root of it all. Because YOU have self esteem issues and aren't confident in yourself, you'll sell out just to try and make other people happy. Son, that is called being PUSSY WHIPPED and a cad to boot.

Wow, someone had to TELL YOU that sex involves sweating?????? And you wonder why your supposed "experience" is in question now?????

Dude I have been with DOZENS upon DOZENS of women. Fat ones, skinny ones, hot ones, plain jane to ugly ones, hairy ones, bald ones, stupid ones, smart ones.....I HAVE NEVER EVER heard, witnessed, or read about an "invisible" clit. Even the ones that had the "jungle" and a clit the size of a zit, I still managed to find it in about......ohhhhh maybe 45 seconds once my hand was down there. Even less when I'm going down on her with a better closeup view.

Again, thanks for making all of my sexual exploits that much easier.....really and truly, I appreciate it. : )
 #56 
Old 2007-05-11, 17:50
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I really don't see anything wrong with asking your girlfriend to shave. I wish I had the balls to do it with my girlfriend.

She was completely unshaven for about 2 months. One day she just asked me what I prefer, and now she says it's become part of her regular hygiene.

If you don't mind the hair, don't say anything. Honestly, it's something that I can deal with. I have eaten hairy pussy numerous times. That doesn't mean that I can't prefer a girl that's clean shaven. It's much easier to do, and you don't get hair in your mouth.

When it comes down to it, streetjusticeforall is right. A lot of women will do something simple like this to please. I don't see it as a ridiculous request at all. That could be why I shave for my girlfriend...
 #57 
Old 2007-05-11, 18:08
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Yeah i agree^^

Lojiik and DaGuru act like 12 year old virgins. They seem to think it's such a huge deal for girls to shave. It's not, and if you really have feelings for the guy then you'd do it. Fuck, if the girl asked me to shave, i would gladly do it. Why are you guys bragging about how many women you've fucked, and yet u don't have the balls to tell them to shave because it might "offend them"?


Pathetic.
 #58 
Old 2007-05-11, 18:25
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Yeah i agree^^

Lojiik and DaGuru act like 12 year old virgins. They seem to think it's such a huge deal for girls to shave. It's not, and if you really have feelings for the guy then you'd do it. Fuck, if the girl asked me to shave, i would gladly do it. Why are you guys bragging about how many women you've fucked, and yet u don't have the balls to tell them to shave because it might "offend them"?


Pathetic.


The reason I've never had to "ask a girl to shave" is because I'm not some obsessive compulsive weirdo that is all disturbed by *gasp* HAIR! Add to the fact that I just lust after the female form in many different shapes, sizes, and hair quantity.....I guess you could say I'm a lot more tolerant of each person's features. Me, I ain't complaining....shaved or hairy, I'm just getting pussy. If you want to have all of these moronic "standards" of yours, that is your perogative. But again, if you are going to be THIS judgemental and demanding of chicks you are only making it better and easier for the guys that don't.

YOU are the ones that are PATHETIC because you are actling like little GIRLY BITCHES all weirded out by hair, sweat, pussy juice or all the other NORMAL things that are involved with sex.

"OMG, I saw/touched/tasted a pussy hair.....GROSSSSSSSS"

ROFLMFAO harder and harder at you "men" that even have that mindset, much less express it publicly!!!
 #59 
Old 2007-05-11, 18:41
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DUMP THAT MONKEY LIKE A HOT ROCK!

or grow a hobo beard and insist on heavy kissing

http://i10.photobucket.com/albums/a145/lawryde/angry-hobo.jpg

and the rest of u can fuck off trying to be better than everyone else because u have no standards and like hairy/dirty/smelly women.
 #60 
Old 2007-05-11, 19:07
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Quote:
Originally Posted by MrVitrol
DUMP THAT MONKEY LIKE A HOT ROCK!

or grow a hobo beard and insist on heavy kissing

http://i10.photobucket.com/albums/a145/lawryde/angry-hobo.jpg

and the rest of u can fuck off trying to be better than everyone else because u have no standards and like hairy/dirty/smelly women.



Ya know.....95% of the time when I hear folks dogging out younger people or the "next" generation coming up, I usually defend them. Usually people say the teens and adults in their 20's of today are so much "softer". I've always thought that was a load of bullshit, and am usually vocal in expressing that view.

But honestly.....if fuckin pubic hair gets THIS many people so uptight, I'm gonna have to start agreeing with everyone else.

My god, are all the future "men" of this world going to grow up to be a bunch of sissy metrosexual faggots?????

This reminds me of the old film "Demolition Man". That was the flick where Sandra Bullock was so "grossed out" by Sly Stallone coming from the past and him explaining how sex worked "back in the day". Sandra was sooooooooo repulsed when she was taught about kissing, sweating, exchanging body fluids, and actual PENETRATION! Wow, what a frightening concept huh?

Congrats you whiney boys getting all bent out of shape by some mere pubic hair.....you sound and act just like Sandra did in that movie.

ROFLMFAO! @ you "men" of tomorrow!!!!!!!!
 #61 
Old 2007-05-11, 19:12
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It bothers me that so many younger guys actually EXPECT women to shave. I mean it is a big hassle to shave for a woman...There are all sorts of folds and areas you can't actually see because they are under you. I never shave mine and my husband has never had any trouble navigating his way around and I happen to be one of those women who has a very small clitoris. Seriously, it's like invisible to the naked eye. He just licks me until I tell him it feels good...It's really not this complicated problem that can only be solved by complete baldness.
 #62 
Old 2007-05-11, 19:20
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It bothers me that so many younger guys actually EXPECT women to shave...It's really not this complicated problem that can only be solved by complete baldness.

Exactly, it's NOT a complicated problem. I take care of myself, a lot of guys do these days. If all I ask of my women is that she shaves (you can even offer to help) and she can't do that, she'd have to be pretty damn special not for me to gtfo.
 #63 
Old 2007-05-11, 19:24
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Grow a beard and shove your head in there.
 #64 
Old 2007-05-11, 19:53
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Exactly, it's NOT a complicated problem. I take care of myself, a lot of guys do these days. If all I ask of my women is that she shaves (you can even offer to help) and she can't do that, she'd have to be pretty damn special not for me to gtfo.

If a guy asked me to shave I would use an electric razor and give it a buzzcut, but I'm really opposed to complete baldness down there. I've tried it before and I found it to be extremely unpleasant...Like the skin was so sensitive and felt all smooshed whenever I sat down. Maybe I'm just wierd./shrug

I mean I don't like facial hair, but if I really liked a guy and he happened to have a beard, I wouldn't hold it against him.
 #65 
Old 2007-05-11, 19:58
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its like nam. and im just as scared to go down there. thanks for all the input. i think im just gonna tell her that shaved turns me on and she will agree to do it.
 #66 
Old 2007-05-11, 20:51
Lord Sorpington Lord Sorpington is offline
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OP, this is really stupid. So fucking what if she's got hair down there, that's pretty much what it's supposed to be like. Shaved looks fucking weird sometimes too, far too pre-pubescent.
 #67 
Old 2007-05-11, 20:57
streetjusticeforall streetjusticeforall is offline
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far too pre-pubescent.

That is an oxymoron.
 #68 
Old 2007-05-11, 21:58
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I once encountered one that pinged itself across the room and hit me in the eye. Then it ran behind the wardrobe and I had to tempt it out with a morsel of meat before the girl'd sleep with me again.

Bad times.

I started choking and had to Heimlich myself. You dick!
 #69 
Old 2007-05-11, 22:03
ViVe CUERVO ViVe CUERVO is offline
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It would remind me that shes a "Women".


Because staring at her pussy really makes you wonder what gender she is. Welcome to autism, idiot.
 #70 
Old 2007-05-11, 23:06
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I'm a guy, and I've always shaved/not shaved my pubes, whatever my girlfriend has preferred. I mean...they're pubes. It's not that big a deal. And I want to make my dick an enjoyable place to visit, whatever her preferences.

Fucked if I'm shaving my scraggly beard though.

ALSO, It's not that big a deal to ask a girl to shave. Just be nice and polite. And offer to do it yourself.
 #71 
Old 2007-05-11, 23:59
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You shouldn't be doing anything sexual until you are married! Mad
 #72 
Old 2007-05-12, 00:41
Madvillain Madvillain is offline
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The reason I've never had to "ask a girl to shave" is because I'm not some obsessive compulsive weirdo that is all disturbed by *gasp* HAIR! Add to the fact that I just lust after the female form in many different shapes, sizes, and hair quantity.....I guess you could say I'm a lot more tolerant of each person's features. Me, I ain't complaining....shaved or hairy, I'm just getting pussy. If you want to have all of these moronic "standards" of yours, that is your perogative. But again, if you are going to be THIS judgemental and demanding of chicks you are only making it better and easier for the guys that don't.

YOU are the ones that are PATHETIC because you are actling like little GIRLY BITCHES all weirded out by hair, sweat, pussy juice or all the other NORMAL things that are involved with sex.

"OMG, I saw/touched/tasted a pussy hair.....GROSSSSSSSS"

ROFLMFAO harder and harder at you "men" that even have that mindset, much less express it publicly!!!

Shut up. Please.

Your argument is fucking retarded. I don't like fucking fat chicks either, I'm not judgmental of women who have some weight, I'm just not sexually attracted to them. It's not something anyone can control, its what gets you off...its your own brain chemistry that controls this, not your fucking attitude about it.

If a girl is really going to take offense to you asking for her to shave, you're not going to have interesting sex anyways and fucking this girl is not worth the time it'll take to try and get a boner. It's nothing personal against her, its just unattractive to you.

If I was fucking a girl who REALLY had to be doing BDSM to cum, I would be "sorry, I'm not comfortable doing that, maybe we shouldn't be fucking".

You shouldn't be repressing what gets you off when you're fucking, that's the most rediculous shit I've ever heard.
 #73 
Old 2007-05-12, 00:54
Shadowhunter_36 Shadowhunter_36 is offline
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What the hell is wrong with half the people in this thread?

We have people that are utterly disgusted by pubic hair, what the hell? I mean, I can understand if she has more hair than a gorilla, but a little hair is nothing. It's natural, get over it. If you're too embarassed or too afraid of offending her to ask her nicely to shave, then you shouldn't even be at a sexual stage in the relationship yet. If you have asked her and she refused, then tough luck, either deal with it, or find a girl more willing to make you happy. She should be willing to try it at least once, it's not fucking plastic surgery. If she seriously doesn't want to do something that trivial for you then maybe you should reevaluate how much you think she really cares for you.

On the other hand, we have the OMFG SHAVING IS TEH EVILZ party. You people remind me of PETA, throwing insults around like red paint. Why do you care if some guy wants his girl to shave? OMG BUT IT MAKES THEM LOOK TEH 11 YEARZ OLD!! No, it fucking doesn't. Having cunt hair doesn't make them any more of a woman than having a beard makes a guy more of a man. While I agree that the OP is being a little bitch, there's no need to go on flaming every guy that likes his girl to be shaved.

As for me? Hair doesn't bother me, but I did ask my girlfriend to shave at one point, because I found I simply prefer the soft smoothness of a shaved pussy to a hairy one. She didn't have a lot of hair, but it was kind of irritating when I went down on her. I asked her politely, and she was more than happy to comply. It made going down on her a lot more enjoyable for me, because I didn't have annoying pubes all in my face. I would have continued to do it regardless, but I do it more often now. And, I shaved as well, just to be fair. She hasn't once complained about anything yet or asked me to let mine grow, or wanted to let hers grow back, so I figure I must be doing something right.

/thread.
 #74 
Old 2007-05-12, 01:38
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Tell her that you trim your shit and tell her you like as little shrubbery as possible. She'll get the hint
 #75 
Old 2007-05-12, 03:00
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I hit the lights and took off her pants. I reached down... and felt hair. It was really aqward for me. I've never dated a girl that wasn't smooth down there. The point is, I don't like it, and personally, it makes me want to puke just thinking about it right now.

I understand perfectly how you feel.

How can I bring up the subject and tell her how i feel about it without making her feel uncomfortable?

Thanks in advance...

Well, next time your lover and yourself are at a pedophile support meeting, calmly, gently, and lovingly tell her that while you'll always love her, no matter what... now that she's growing and becoming a woman, a little trim with the razor would help... alot.

...I think it should get you what you're looking for.
 #76 
Old 2007-05-12, 03:07
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So a girl is supposed to just DEAL with your quirks, as a token proving her love?

Yes!

That's why it's called a "relationship." She bends over backwards conforming to my neuroses, I bend over backwards conforming to hers, and we sit down in a month to chat about whether it's working for us.

...I take it you haven't done this before, have you?
 #77 
Old 2007-05-12, 03:13
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ITS A FUCKING PUSSY. Push the hair away, put it out of your mind, i mean the shit doesn't grow ON the clit...

Actually... if the person he's dating is M2F tran, and s/he didn't get electrolysis before the operation...

...there may be hair, not just on the clit, but in some very strange internal places.

"More facts you didn't want to know."
 #78 
Old 2007-05-12, 03:42
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WHAT IS WITH THIS "MAN UP" BULLSHIT?

Seriously. What does that even mean. The guy doesn't like hairy vagina, so he should man up? So the measure of someones manliness is in weather someone likes hairy vagina or not?

What are you noobs even talking about?

Oh I get it, hairy vaginas are something negative, and tolerating something negative is manly. So if your mate at work said he was going to ask for a raise, would you tell him to man up because he should be masculine enough to endure shitty pay?

I don't like white rice, I prefer brown rice, but it's more expensive. Should I just man up and eat white rice?

Man up is just a term used by insecure males trying to look tough on the internet. Here's a phrase for you all, "grow up".
 #79 
Old 2007-05-12, 06:32
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Yes!

That's why it's called a "relationship." She bends over backwards conforming to my neuroses, I bend over backwards conforming to hers, and we sit down in a month to chat about whether it's working for us.

...I take it you haven't done this before, have you?

Bend over backwards??? FUCK NO!

Tolerate subtle little nuances? Of course!

Sorry, but life is a lot easier, more fulfilling, and much happier if you simply find a person that you are compatible with.....instead of both of you having to so significantly change just to make each other happy.

But hey, I'm with the same woman now for 9 YEARS.....what the fuck do I know?
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Old 2007-05-12, 06:50
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Quote:
Originally Posted by rabbitweed
WHAT IS WITH THIS "MAN UP" BULLSHIT?

Seriously. What does that even mean. The guy doesn't like hairy vagina, so he should man up? So the measure of someones manliness is in weather someone likes hairy vagina or not?

What are you noobs even talking about?

Oh I get it, hairy vaginas are something negative, and tolerating something negative is manly. So if your mate at work said he was going to ask for a raise, would you tell him to man up because he should be masculine enough to endure shitty pay?

I don't like white rice, I prefer brown rice, but it's more expensive. Should I just man up and eat white rice?

Man up is just a term used by insecure males trying to look tough on the internet. Here's a phrase for you all, "grow up".


As usual Rabbit you are way off the mark, and your attempts at similar analogies failed. You are comparing apples to oranges.

When I say "man up", I'm talking about the very intense descriptions people are using in regard to pussy with hair on it. We've heard : disgusting, repulsive, gross.....all over a SILLY FUCKIN PATCH OF HAIR! I could understand having such an aversion if maggots were crawling out of it, or the thing was shooting some vile rancid puss....but its just hair folks. But the way some of the "men" are carrying on about how "awful" it is, it kinda reminds me of that stereotype when a mouse runs in the room and the housewife is jumping up on tables screaming like a banshee. A better analogy than your "white rice/brown rice" comparision would be a football player bitching after practice that his uniform got dirty.

Lets face it, fucking a broad is probably the most masculine thing any guy does.....because after all you are pleasing a woman the way a man SHOULD. But as soon as a man starts going "ewwww, yuck, grossssss" like a little priss over pubic hair......I'm sorry, but in my world that is completely laughable that a "man" gets THAT uptight over such petty issues.

These nitwits are turning the pussy into some fantastic Holy Grail one minute...to this wretched sub species of life form the next....all because of a SILLY FUCKIN PATCH OF HAIR! Hell, I understand everyone has their own preference...and openly admit that eating pussy without any hair is somewhat easier. But anyone sincerely believing that it is "gross, disgusting or repulsive" with hair does need to MAN UP or just go suck a cock. Gimme a fuckin break!
 #81 
Old 2007-05-12, 07:42
streetjusticeforall streetjusticeforall is offline
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need to MAN UP or just go suck a cock!

Just keep repeating yourself over and over. It makes your statements hold more weight! You have an obsession with guys sucking cocks. Are you hoping to get a few more guys on your team?

You even say yourself, you have been with the same woman for 9 years. So why the fuck do you think you are qualified to give us advice on our casual girlfriends? We will treat them how we want. We demand the highest quality poon. If they wont give it to us, someone else will.

You HAVE to eat the same nasty, rank ass pussy no matter what. There is no other option. Of course you aren't going to complain, because she would leave your ass stranded.

Sex and manliness do not go hand in hand. Sex is beautiful. You know what else is beautiful? Good for you sissy boy, because I don't. I only know of destruction, and banging. I crush the fuck out of anything put in my path, simply because I can. THAT is manly.
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Old 2007-05-12, 08:52
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Bend over backwards??? FUCK NO!

Tolerate subtle little nuances? Of course!

Sorry, but life is a lot easier, more fulfilling, and much happier if you simply find a person that you are compatible with.....instead of both of you having to so significantly change just to make each other happy.

Yeah. That "compatibilty" shit is exactly why there's that line about 'checking back in a month.'
 #83 
Old 2007-05-12, 12:15
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I hope I never get divorced because a lot of guys out there really seem to suck.
 #84 
Old 2007-05-12, 12:33
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Yeah. That "compatibilty" shit is exactly why there's that line about 'checking back in a month.'

If you're compatible, you won't need to 'check back in a month', because you'll know if there's a problem and it'll be communicated anyway. Compatibility isn't about compromise, it's about not needing to.

All this fuss over a little bit of hair. Get the hell over it, it shouldn't be such a problem. I prefer my girlfriend to be hairless there, and so does she, but I wouldn't mind if she didn't.
 #85 
Old 2007-05-12, 12:43
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If you're compatible, you won't need to 'check back in a month', because you'll know if there's a problem and it'll be communicated anyway. Compatibility isn't about compromise, it's about not needing to.

All this fuss over a little bit of hair. Get the hell over it, it shouldn't be such a problem. I prefer my girlfriend to be hairless there, and so does she, but I wouldn't mind if she didn't.

But you prefer it. And that is the point. You guys are simply missing the point that some guys consider it a big deal. If we told you to date and fat/ugly chick, would you do it? All that fuss about a little mustache and double chin, get the hell over it, right? Shouldn't be such a problem?

You know there are things that would just disgust you about an otherwise perfect girl. Many things the girl cant even easily change about herself, and for those things you wouldn't even give her the time of day.

If you can't understand things rationally from other peoples points of view, then do the world a favor and fuck off. Your posts are fucking worthless, and serve no purpose except to try to make yourself feel better than others.
 #86 
Old 2007-05-12, 12:51
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I hope I never get divorced because a lot of guys out there really seem to suck.


Probably none of us would want to date you anyways, so don't worry. The kind of girls we are generally interested in are the ones who wear miniskirts without underwear in public. The kind that WANT to shave. I have had many a girl thank me after telling them about shaving their privates. They love the feeling, and the way it looks. Believe it or not, girls are genuinely happy with us. And attractive as well.
 #87 
Old 2007-05-12, 12:59
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But you prefer it. And that is the point. You guys are simply missing the point that some guys consider it a big deal. If we told you to date and fat/ugly chick, would you do it? All that fuss about a little mustache and double chin, get the hell over it, right? Shouldn't be such a problem?

You know there are things that would just disgust you about an otherwise perfect girl. Many things the girl cant even easily change about herself, and for those things you wouldn't even give her the time of day.

Obviously I do understand that some guys consider it a big deal, because it's the fact that some guys consider it a big deal I'm saying is retarded. Just what do you think I was arguing about? Yeah, you can prefer something, it's just that some of you are acting like a girl with some hair has grown four dicks down there.
 #88 
Old 2007-05-12, 13:28
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Just keep repeating yourself over and over. It makes your statements hold more weight! You have an obsession with guys sucking cocks. Are you hoping to get a few more guys on your team?

You even say yourself, you have been with the same woman for 9 years. So why the fuck do you think you are qualified to give us advice on our casual girlfriends? We will treat them how we want. We demand the highest quality poon. If they wont give it to us, someone else will.

You HAVE to eat the same nasty, rank ass pussy no matter what. There is no other option. Of course you aren't going to complain, because she would leave your ass stranded.

Sex and manliness do not go hand in hand. Sex is beautiful. You know what else is beautiful? Good for you sissy boy, because I don't. I only know of destruction, and banging. I crush the fuck out of anything put in my path, simply because I can. THAT is manly.


ROFLMFAO! This post is truly classic, thank you for the tear filled LULZ!!!!

The reason I'm suggesting you should go suck a cock is because some of you sound like GIRLY prissy bitches. Please note, I'm not talking about those that are talking about preference or enhanced turn on......but the little boys talking about being "disgusted" by a fuckin patch of hair. If you sound like a fag, think like a fag, then you just might as well suck cock like a fag.....its that simple.

As for what my qualifications are in commenting on this, you must have missed my previous posts in this thread discussing my age and the quantity of women I've banged. I was in plenty of long term relationships before getting married, and most of those ended because of LACK OF COMPATIBILITY. More often then not it was because the girl wanted me to "bend over backwards" and change things about myself....whether it was diss certain friends, stop/slowdown on my partying, or have a problem with my football addiction on Sundays. Hell, even as a kidiot 17 teen year old I had enough personal integrity to NOT have to sell out and change myself just to hope to score a piece of ass.

Street, I especially love your pseudo tough guy chest thumping about being a "destroyer" of things. Sure SuperStud, you are some real badass laying waste to whatever crosses your path! Such an imposing and intimidating figure creating fear in the hearts of many....all until you run into a slit with hair around it. Then SuperStud turns into Erkle and cries like a bitch running home to mommy after being so traumatized by pubic hair. Yup, I know I'm scared by such a "man" like you. WHOOOOOOAAAAA tough guy!

ROFLMFAO!!!
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Old 2007-05-12, 13:30
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Obviously I do understand that some guys consider it a big deal, because it's the fact that some guys consider it a big deal I'm saying is retarded. Just what do you think I was arguing about? Yeah, you can prefer something, it's just that some of you are acting like a girl with some hair has grown four dicks down there.


QFMFT!!!!!

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 #90 
Old 2007-05-12, 14:40
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I don't see what is with some of these responses. Why are people telling the guy to 'grow up'? I dont see how PREFERING a shaved girl is immature, or not 'grown up'. Almost ALL men PREFER girls to shave.

Who the fuck are any of you to criticise someone for not liking fucking HAIR?

Hell maybe the guy was traumatized by a bear when he was a young child. Never throuht of that did you? Maybe whenever his girl spreads her legs, he goes all shell shocked and into a fetal position? You don't know how it is with this guy.

Furthermore, are you seriously trying to say that if you had been with several girls that were shaved, and then suddenly came across someone with a hairy bush, it wouldnt startle you at all? I call bullshit on that. Maybe you're not disgusted by it like he is, but if it didnt bother you for a second then youre a liar. Hell, nobody LIKES hair in their mouth and thats a fact.

At least I dont see how anyone could LIKE to have HAIR in their mouth.\

Still im betting on the bear thing, or maybe a moose or something big like that.
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Old 2007-05-12, 15:08
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I don't see what is with some of these responses. Why are people telling the guy to 'grow up'? I dont see how PREFERING a shaved girl is immature, or not 'grown up'. Almost ALL men PREFER girls to shave.

Who the fuck are any of you to criticise someone for not liking fucking HAIR?

Hell maybe the guy was traumatized by a bear when he was a young child. Never throuht of that did you? Maybe whenever his girl spreads her legs, he goes all shell shocked and into a fetal position? You don't know how it is with this guy.

Furthermore, are you seriously trying to say that if you had been with several girls that were shaved, and then suddenly came across someone with a hairy bush, it wouldnt startle you at all? I call bullshit on that. Maybe you're not disgusted by it like he is, but if it didnt bother you for a second then youre a liar. Hell, nobody LIKES hair in their mouth and thats a fact.

At least I dont see how anyone could LIKE to have HAIR in their mouth.\

Still im betting on the bear thing, or maybe a moose or something big like that.


Wow....JUST WOW. This thread is getting sillier with each post. So your theory is the guy got attacked by a grizzly bear and THAT is why hair on a pussy has him so traumatized????? I guess he can never go to the zoo, or visit friends with cats then huh? And you are trying to make HIM out to be the sane and rational one here?????

No, I certainly wouldn't be disgusted, scared, repulsed, turned off, or even mildly "startled" by seeing my first hairy cooch if I had a myriad of bald ones before that. Are you suggesting the OP had some kind of amazing epiphany at witnessing his first hairy cooch? So I guess this "discovery" was because he was raised by all men, and never walked in on a mom, sister or aunt naked when he was younger? I guess that he was NEVER exposed to Playboy, Penthouse, or any other girly magazine enlightening him to this amazing newsflash? I guess somehow even if he was raised by monks, somehow puberty skipped over HIM and he didn't grow any pubes himself.....giving him the very profound thought of "gee, if I have hair down there then chicks probably do too!".

I'd really love to see some of you guys when the day comes that you actually move in with a chick and see them without all the makeup and Barbie Doll fussing they do to try and impress you. Here is a life lesson for you that may completely shock you....women can be JUST as gross and disgusting as guys. I'd love to see the expression by all the "Hair Fearers" when the day comes they accidentally discover a used tampon or maxi pad. Or walk into a bathroom right after she has taken a healthy dump. Or have 5 too many drinks at the bar, and she is spending the rest of the night puking her guts out in the toilet. Tell me, in that scenario how would you handle it? Would you be a MAN and try and help her out, perhaps holding her hair up out of the way and attempting to make a bad situation as easy as possible for her. Or would you just run away like a traumatized little bitch and go post on Totse with some amazingly naive thread saying...."OMGZ, girls actually puke, and fart, and spit loogies and do other things that aren't exactly pleasant, not to mention they aren't trying to attract me every second of every day. What do I do????"
 #92 
Old 2007-05-12, 15:35
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Grow the fuck up. Unless it looks like she has no idea what a razor is, tthen stop being an immature little douche bag.


This is what Im talking about. What is with that??!! The OP has a problem, hes not being obnoxious and hes not trolling. So why does he dserve these very rude comments that don't help AT ALL. i cannot believe this macho bullshit basically saying, "If you are not willing to fuck absolutely anything that movies you must be a pussy faggot". This is totse. Its full of 15 year old guys who aren't very experienced in the sack. It takes a little while to gan confidence, and to 'get over' things youre not used to. I think the people who keep saying "grow up" - ned to do JUST THAT - grow up!!

Wow....JUST WOW. This thread is getting sillier with each post. So your theory is the guy got attacked by a grizzly bear and THAT is why hair on a pussy has him so traumatized????? I guess he can never go to the zoo, or visit friends with cats then huh? And you are trying to make HIM out to be the sane and rational one here?????


Moderators are allowed to make jokes contrary to popular belief.

No, I certainly wouldn't be disgusted, scared, repulsed, turned off, or even mildly "startled" by seeing my first hairy cooch if I had a myriad of bald ones before that. Are you suggesting the OP had some kind of amazing epiphany at witnessing his first hairy cooch? So I guess this "discovery" was because he was raised by all men, and never walked in on a mom, sister or aunt naked when he was younger? I guess that he was NEVER exposed to Playboy, Penthouse, or any other girly magazine enlightening him to this amazing newsflash? I guess somehow even if he was raised by monks, somehow puberty skipped over HIM and he didn't grow any pubes himself.....giving him the very profound thought of "gee, if I have hair down there then chicks probably do too!".

Well a lot of guys are, congratulations, you must just be better than the rest of us, obviously. And what is this epiphany business? I didnt say anything remotely like that. I never said the guy had never seen hair before. But seeing pictures of a thing, and sticking your face in the thing,are two different things entirely. Your'e just making up random shit now, that has nothing to do with this thread.

I'd really love to see some of you guys when the day comes that you actually move in with a chick and see them without all the makeup and Barbie Doll fussing they do to try and impress you. Here is a life lesson for you that may completely shock you....women can be JUST as gross and disgusting as guys. I'd love to see the expression by all the "Hair Fearers" when the day comes they accidentally discover a used tampon or maxi pad. Or walk into a bathroom right after she has taken a healthy dump. Or have 5 too many drinks at the bar, and she is spending the rest of the night puking her guts out in the toilet. Tell me, in that scenario how would you handle it? Would you be a MAN and try and help her out, perhaps holding her hair up out of the way and attempting to make a bad situation as easy as possible for her. Or would you just run away like a traumatized little bitch and go post on Totse with some amazingly naive thread saying...."OMGZ, girls actually puke, and fart, and spit loogies and do other things that aren't exactly pleasant, not to mention they aren't trying to attract me every second of every day. What do I do????"

What are yo ueven talking about man? The guy (who is probably young and not very experienced), does not like hair. And so you have thougth this ALL out into assuming that - in YEARS from now, maybe 5 or even 10, he would not take care of a girlfriend or a wife??

Grow up man, you're just being an asshole now.

In case you have forgotten, this is &tote. Most of the people posting o n this website are barely into their teens. But you are asking him about things that he wonlt have to deal with for YEARS most likely, and of course dont even have anything to do with the topic!!
 #93 
Old 2007-05-12, 15:48
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Don't ask her to shave unless you're willing to do the same. Girls like it just as much as we do.
 #94 
Old 2007-05-12, 16:27
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Man, I love me some shaved pussy.
 #95 
Old 2007-05-12, 16:33
streetjusticeforall streetjusticeforall is offline
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Obviously I do understand that some guys consider it a big deal, because it's the fact that some guys consider it a big deal I'm saying is retarded. Just what do you think I was arguing about? Yeah, you can prefer something, it's just that some of you are acting like a girl with some hair has grown four dicks down there.

You missed the point of my post entirely. Do you take any physical aspect of woman into consideration when you are choosing them as a mate/girlfriend/wife/lover etc? Does a 500 pound (literally) woman with a good personality have just as much of a chance with you as a 130 pound woman?

If you take any physical aspects into consideration, then you are just being hypocritical. You are allowed to pick and choose what you like, but we are not? Would you date a woman with a full on beard and mustache? Love her with all of your heart?

Dont bullshit us.
 #96 
Old 2007-05-12, 16:34
streetjusticeforall streetjusticeforall is offline
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Don't ask her to shave unless you're willing to do the same. Girls like it just as much as we do.


Pretty sure we have already come to the conclusion that every one of us would shave our pubic area. Why wouldn't we? When is that last time any guy ever complained about being asked to shave? 1979.
 #97 
Old 2007-05-12, 17:25
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This is what Im talking about. What is with that??!! The OP has a problem, hes not being obnoxious and hes not trolling. So why does he dserve these very rude comments that don't help AT ALL. i cannot believe this macho bullshit basically saying, "If you are not willing to fuck absolutely anything that movies you must be a pussy faggot". This is totse. Its full of 15 year old guys who aren't very experienced in the sack. It takes a little while to gan confidence, and to 'get over' things youre not used to. I think the people who keep saying "grow up" - ned to do JUST THAT - grow up!!



Moderators are allowed to make jokes contrary to popular belief.



Well a lot of guys are, congratulations, you must just be better than the rest of us, obviously. And what is this epiphany business? I didnt say anything remotely like that. I never said the guy had never seen hair before. But seeing pictures of a thing, and sticking your face in the thing,are two different things entirely. Your'e just making up random shit now, that has nothing to do with this thread.



What are yo ueven talking about man? The guy (who is probably young and not very experienced), does not like hair. And so you have thougth this ALL out into assuming that - in YEARS from now, maybe 5 or even 10, he would not take care of a girlfriend or a wife??

Grow up man, you're just being an asshole now.

In case you have forgotten, this is &tote. Most of the people posting o n this website are barely into their teens. But you are asking him about things that he wonlt have to deal with for YEARS most likely, and of course dont even have anything to do with the topic!!

Its nice to hear your "bear" theory was just a load of crap made in jest. Perhaps in the future if you add "sarcasm on", "sic", "Tounge in cheek", or a few "lol's" we might understand it was only humor and not something to be taking seriously.

As far as your little lecture about "most of Totse is made up of teens"...no shit Sherlock. That is the whole point why I'm trying to talk some sense into these guys in regard to how "awful" a little pubic hair is. First, they have to realize that chicks do a whole host of gross things and pubic hair should be the LEAST of their worries. Also, add to the fact people are coming up with "you should leave her if she doesn't do this for you, because if she really loved you she would do anything" is complete and utter bunk. When they DO finally grow up, they'll quickly realize that breaking up with a woman over pubic hair maintenance couldn't be any more ridiculous. When they realize there are REAL LIFE issues to endure in regards to women like maxing out your credit card, sleeping around on you, being sexually frigid because they were molested as little girls, developing whatever chemical dependency.....all things that make LEGITIMATE relationships hard, THOSE ARE FUCKING PROBLEMS AND HEADACHES that REAL men deal with. A hairy twat kinda pales in comparision, wouldn't you agree? Think about it....the OP might have met the nicest, kindest most loyal woman he'll ever encounter....and he may just fuck all of it up because of some goddamn pubic hair and how prissy he is around it.

As far as me "making stuff up".....bullshit back to you. YOU are the one using the word "STARTLED" in regard to his pubic hair discovery. Stop tap dancing around your OWN fucking posts.

You are right about one thing though..... probably many of the posters on this thread are literally YEARS away from ever living with a woman. My whole point in all of this, is if a guy is actually "disgusted" (again, I'm not talking about those discussing personal preference or enhanced turn on)......but are literally DISGUSTED by the sight/feel/experience of a fucking patch of hair, then they have a long future of petty reasons why they are going to be casting off this girl or that one.

I tell ya what Sambob, if you REALLY think I'm so off the mark here, then I have a challenge for you. Print out this thread and have women that you know read it. Then come back to us, and tell me THEIR reaction and who exactly they think are the "men" or are going to someday grow up and be men. The ones that are saying "meh, so what...yeah I'd prefer shaved, but its a little hair its no big deal". Or the other side saying......"ewwwwwwwww gross, I can't handle that, it is like sooooooooo gnarly and hideous"?????

I realize that society is trying to sissify men more and more every day, but I honestly can't believe that the majority of women (no matter their age) are actually more comfortable and desire males that are THIS prissy and whiney about a patch of fuckin pubic hair.
 #98 
Old 2007-05-12, 17:39
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I realize that society is trying to sissify men more and more every day, but I honestly can't believe that the majority of women (no matter their age) are actually more comfortable and desire males that are THIS prissy and whiney about a patch of fuckin pubic hair.

1) Metrosexual guys are in demand.
2) Most girls these days don't understand how a guy would go down on a hairy puss. They think it is gross too.
3) I have lived with 3 different girls aged 17-21, and all of them started shaving their cunts when we lived together. They said it was embarrassing.
4) Sadly, living with a bunch of girls in a small house, I have walked in on my family getting changed many times growing up, and they all shaved.

It is an insanely simple task when u get the hang, and they do it every time they shave their legs. They like it, I like it.
 #99 
Old 2007-05-12, 18:37
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I realize that society is trying to sissify men more and more every day, but I honestly can't believe that the majority of women (no matter their age) are actually more comfortable and desire males that are THIS prissy and whiney about a patch of fuckin pubic hair.

If shaving is prissy, which is generally equated with femininity, then shouldn't all women be shaving according to your argument?
 #100 
Old 2007-05-12, 18:52
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You missed the point of my post entirely. Do you take any physical aspect of woman into consideration when you are choosing them as a mate/girlfriend/wife/lover etc? Does a 500 pound (literally) woman with a good personality have just as much of a chance with you as a 130 pound woman?

If you take any physical aspects into consideration, then you are just being hypocritical. You are allowed to pick and choose what you like, but we are not? Would you date a woman with a full on beard and mustache? Love her with all of your heart?

Dont bullshit us.

No, you missed the point of mine. An extra 370lbs is a major thing. A full mustache and beard is a major thing. A bit of pubic hair is not. Okay, so you don't like it; I'm not the biggest fan either, I'm glad my girlfriend waxes (which >> shaving). I brought the issue up with my last girlfriend because she wasn't shaven (and for the guys in here trying to figure out what the hell to say, go with "ever think about getting rid of some of that hair?" as an ice-breaker and go from there), and she did something about it. But the point is that I didn't react like you guys react, the whole "OMG OMG OGM HAIR HAIR DISGUSTING I COULD NEVER EVER EVER HAVE SEX WITH A GIRL WITH PUBIC HAIR" thing you've got going on.

And for the record, I wouldn't pick a girl like you described, but if my girlfriend suddenly, magically turned from completely and utterly gorgeous to 500lbs and bearded, I would of course still love her every bit as much. I might not take her out so much though :p ;)
 #101 
Old 2007-05-12, 19:09
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Probably none of us would want to date you anyways, so don't worry. The kind of girls we are generally interested in are the ones who wear miniskirts without underwear in public. The kind that WANT to shave. I have had many a girl thank me after telling them about shaving their privates. They love the feeling, and the way it looks. Believe it or not, girls are genuinely happy with us. And attractive as well.

Oh, well I always wear long dresses and granny underwear, so I guess no guy would notice me anyway!:P I also have really long hair, but I usually wear it in a BUN or wrapped around my head (think princess Leia in Return of the Jedi):P Oh and at 26 years old, I'm probably about a decade older than most of the studly boys who post on here anyway...And I think that might mean jail time if we were actually dating!EEK!

And WOMEN aren't as easy to please as the girls you have dated. Women want a guy who is intersted in her as a person, who she can actually talk to about the world...A guy who has more depth than an inch deep puddle.
 #102 
Old 2007-05-12, 19:11
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1) Metrosexual guys are in demand.
2) Most girls these days don't understand how a guy would go down on a hairy puss. They think it is gross too.
3) I have lived with 3 different girls aged 17-21, and all of them started shaving their cunts when we lived together. They said it was embarrassing.
4) Sadly, living with a bunch of girls in a small house, I have walked in on my family getting changed many times growing up, and they all shaved.

It is an insanely simple task when u get the hang, and they do it every time they shave their legs. They like it, I like it.

BTW, I don't object to women shaving if that's what they want to do. I object to women feeling like their pubic hair is disgusting and that they HAVE to shave.
 #103 
Old 2007-05-12, 22:21
streetjusticeforall streetjusticeforall is offline
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BTW, I don't object to women shaving if that's what they want to do. I object to women feeling like their pubic hair is disgusting and that they HAVE to shave.

Do you object to guys shaving if they look terrible with beards/mustaches, only to look better physically to the opposite sex?

Most woman "I" know are only interested in a man that can support them, after that, they don't care about shit else. They want to be able to lounge around all day, without worrying about bills.

Mr.Happy, 370 pounds is a major thing to YOU. It is your personal opinion on the matter. I have dated extremely unattractive girls, girls that no other guy wants, but they have nice shaved cunts and great personalities. It all depends on the personal opinion. I dont insult you for not caring so much if she is shaved, why do you feel the need to insult us?
 #104 
Old 2007-05-12, 22:33
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I object to ANYONE feeling like they have to alter their appearance in a way they don't like to conform to a shallow society's expectations. For example, it's considered fashionable for women to wear low riding jeans with a thong, but I hate jeans and I would never wear a thong, because I think they're gross. If a man I was dating asked me to change the way I dress to conform to what ios fashionable, I would tell him to fuck off because the way I dress is MY business. The same goes for shaving...I mean I really dislike beards, but if a man I was dating really wanted to have one, I wouldn't judge him for it. It's not my place to tell someone how they should look and it's no one's place to tell me how I should look.

I don't think that my non-bald privates make me look any better or worse than the next woman and my husband has never had a problem going down on me, despite the hair. Of course, my husband is a 31 year old man, not a 16 year old boy./shrug

It's like I said, I don't care if guys have a preference...What bothers me is when they say that any woman who doesn't conform to their preference is "gross" or "disgusting."
 #105 
Old 2007-05-12, 22:41
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Why do you consider thongs gross?
 #106 
Old 2007-05-12, 23:28
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Because the thong part picks up ass bacteria which then gets in your privates. I'm not making this up, my gynocologist told me that thongs are the reason that a lot of women get multiple yeast infections. I have never worn a thong, nor had a yeast infection and my friend who ALWAYS wears thongs gets like 2 yeast infections per MONTH. (seriously)
 #107 
Old 2007-05-12, 23:33
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Go suck some dick to make sure you are gay.

Seriously, if you turn down free pussy your either gay or have the sex drive of a walnut.
 #108 
Old 2007-05-13, 00:04
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I object to ANYONE feeling like they have to alter their appearance in a way they don't like to conform to a shallow society's expectations. For example, it's considered fashionable for women to wear low riding jeans with a thong, but I hate jeans and I would never wear a thong, because I think they're gross. If a man I was dating asked me to change the way I dress to conform to what ios fashionable, I would tell him to fuck off because the way I dress is MY business. The same goes for shaving...I mean I really dislike beards, but if a man I was dating really wanted to have one, I wouldn't judge him for it. It's not my place to tell someone how they should look and it's no one's place to tell me how I should look.

It's like I said, I don't care if guys have a preference...What bothers me is when they say that any woman who doesn't conform to their preference is "gross" or "disgusting."

We aren't talking about society, we are talking about finding potential partners. Of course we want to look our best. Looks are the first thing someone will notice about you. If you look like shit, you attract shit. That may be fine for people, but I want to get the best looking girl I can.

We aren't saying the GIRLS are gross, we are saying the hairy cunt is. Yes, it is a part of their body, but it isn't who they are.
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Old 2007-05-13, 00:06
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Go suck some dick to make sure you are gay.

Seriously, if you turn down free pussy your either gay or have the sex drive of a walnut.


Would you fuck a herpes infested twat, since you are so not gay?
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Old 2007-05-13, 02:03
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We aren't talking about society, we are talking about finding potential partners. Of course we want to look our best. Looks are the first thing someone will notice about you. If you look like shit, you attract shit. That may be fine for people, but I want to get the best looking girl I can.

We aren't saying the GIRLS are gross, we are saying the hairy cunt is. Yes, it is a part of their body, but it isn't who they are.

The first thing I notice about a guy is whether or not he is funny. Looks become less and less important as you get older...Like I would much rather date an average looking guy who was smart and funny and nice than a Brad Pitt lookalike who had a basd personality.

And any guy who would be grossed out by my non-bald genital region is not a guy I would want to sleep with. Luckily, I only have to sleep with one guy and he just told me that my pubic hair is, "dark and soft and pretty" and that it "smells like flowers.":P
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Old 2007-05-13, 02:21
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"Are you 100% sure that your Girlfriend isn't really your boyfriend???
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Old 2007-05-13, 02:26
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Would you fuck a herpes infested twat, since you are so not gay?

2 words.

condoms and yes.
 #113 
Old 2007-05-13, 02:36
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Condoms won't protect you from herpes.
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Old 2007-05-13, 02:51
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I'm willing to bet your husband is lying to you.
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Old 2007-05-13, 02:55
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Mephisto and DaGuru are just trolls. check their post history, then do the forum a favour and put them on ignore.
 #116 
Old 2007-05-13, 06:40
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sucks for you
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Old 2007-05-13, 07:50
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I honestly do not understand how it can "make you want to puke." Seriously how is it gross at all? It's hair. I'm sure you have your share of it... at the very least on your head, and probably your legs/armpits and likely your genital area as well. How can hair be disgusting?
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Old 2007-05-13, 13:36
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I honestly do not understand how it can "make you want to puke." Seriously how is it gross at all? It's hair. I'm sure you have your share of it... at the very least on your head, and probably your legs/armpits and likely your genital area as well. How can hair be disgusting?


http://laughwithresearchowl.files.wordpress.com/2006/07/hairy-man.jpg
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Old 2007-05-13, 13:38
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my gf trims... kinda bothers me id prefer nothing.
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Old 2007-05-13, 13:51
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God dam, if you don't like the hair then tell her you would like it if she shaved. If she wont shave then live with it or find another person.
What are all you fags arguing about!?
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Old 2007-05-13, 14:37
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Mephisto and DaGuru are just trolls. check their post history, then do the forum a favour and put them on ignore.



Poor poor little Rabbit.....Silly guy is watching all the big people exchange discourse, and feeling left out he has to chime in with his typical kidiotic remark like a 5 year old seeking attention. Run along back to the little table Rabbit, and just watch from a distance. Some day you may grow up and have something intelligent to add..... until then just zip your lip like a good LITTLE boy and you may just learn something.
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Old 2007-05-13, 15:31
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1) Metrosexual guys are in demand.
2) Most girls these days don't understand how a guy would go down on a hairy puss. They think it is gross too.
3) I have lived with 3 different girls aged 17-21, and all of them started shaving their cunts when we lived together. They said it was embarrassing.
4) Sadly, living with a bunch of girls in a small house, I have walked in on my family getting changed many times growing up, and they all shaved.

It is an insanely simple task when u get the hang, and they do it every time they shave their legs. They like it, I like it.

1) Sure sure, in SOME circles and cliques that people run in. You are aware there is a whole big world out there beyond your 5 mile radius right? BTW Street, would you consider YOURSELF a metrosexual?

2) See above # 1. You ever think that the girls that YOU talk to have those feelings, because the only girls that you CAN talk to are the ones that look past your obsessive compulsive behaviors and opinions on what you think is "gross"?

3) So you lived with these girls as roommates or girlfriends? And they only "started" shaving when they moved in with you? For the 5-10 years before residing with you, their pubes were OK....but now this magical revelation came over them? Did you have a sign on the front door saying "no pube zone". I cry bullshit on this whole scenario of yours.

4) Perhaps this is part of the problem. Were you raised in a house of clean freaks, where your mother wanted a museum and not a house? I won't even go into detail about you having possible incestual fantasies and now you are expecting every woman you encounter to live up to the "ideal" that your mom, sister or aunt set.

When you define it as an "insanely simple task", are you discussing male shaving or female shaving? And exactly how would you describe "simple"? I realize that in the mind of someone like a metrosexual having to take a whole hour just to get ready to go to the grocery store is pretty much business as usual. But the couple of times I've seen different women shave down there, I realize it is tedious and time consuming. Hey, I guess I'm more interested in living life and having a fun time instead of wasting so much of it primping and prettying just to look "good".
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Old 2007-05-13, 17:23
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1) Sure sure, in SOME circles and cliques that people run in. You are aware there is a whole big world out there beyond your 5 mile radius right? BTW Street, would you consider YOURSELF a metrosexual?

2) See above # 1. You ever think that the girls that YOU talk to have those feelings, because the only girls that you CAN talk to are the ones that look past your obsessive compulsive behaviors and opinions on what you think is "gross"?

3) So you lived with these girls as roommates or girlfriends? And they only "started" shaving when they moved in with you? For the 5-10 years before residing with you, their pubes were OK....but now this magical revelation came over them? Did you have a sign on the front door saying "no pube zone". I cry bullshit on this whole scenario of yours.

4) Perhaps this is part of the problem. Were you raised in a house of clean freaks, where your mother wanted a museum and not a house? I won't even go into detail about you having possible incestual fantasies and now you are expecting every woman you encounter to live up to the "ideal" that your mom, sister or aunt set.

When you define it as an "insanely simple task", are you discussing male shaving or female shaving? And exactly how would you describe "simple"? I realize that in the mind of someone like a metrosexual having to take a whole hour just to get ready to go to the grocery store is pretty much business as usual. But the couple of times I've seen different women shave down there, I realize it is tedious and time consuming. Hey, I guess I'm more interested in living life and having a fun time instead of wasting so much of it primping and prettying just to look "good".

I have never run into more blatant hypocrites in my entire life. You wont even get a full, detailed response, since you seem to have even forgotten what you are arguing about.

Asking if I am metrosexual? Ya, that has any effect what so ever on the topic at hand. And just because you don't believe something, isn't an argument. On the internet, unless something is completely way off base of reality, you have to base your arguments off the fact that everything the other person says is true(as far as personal experiences).

Bringing incest into the mix? If anything, I was absolutely disgusted by the lack of hair, because it allowed me to see details of the vagina I didn't want to on my family members. I was raised in a normal household. You are assuming that I am the one with the problem. Maybe its the type of household YOU were raised in, that is the problem. You are believing too strongly in your own views, that you feel the need to push them onto other people.

Every girl who I know who shaves, which is about 20~ odd girls, says it is just a flip of the razor when they are in the bath.

The bottom line is, you are a disgusting slob. If that works for your lifestyle, great, but it doesn't work for mine. I LIKE putting time into getting ready. I enjoy looking in the mirror at the final product and being impressed with myself. Who the fuck are you to judge me for that and say it is wrong?

As rabbitweed implied, you are nothing more than a waste of fucking time and forum space. Your bullshit doesn't deserve any more responses. You have shown yourself repeatedly to be a closed minded fucktard who only thinks his dirty little lifestyle is the right lifestyle. I feel sorry for anyone who listens to you with an impressionable mind. The world would be a better place without you in it.
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Old 2007-05-13, 19:29
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Geez.
I read through this whole thread and now,
well I don't know what to say really.
Bear in mind how difficult it is to shave down there ¬¬ there's lots of places to get to that are inaccessible without like... sitting on a mirror...
 #125 
Old 2007-05-13, 20:47
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Geez.
I read through this whole thread and now,
well I don't know what to say really.
Bear in mind how difficult it is to shave down there ¬¬ there's lots of places to get to that are inaccessible without like... sitting on a mirror...


I have shaved myself from belly button to balls to ass crack before without much difficulty, and I am not even a pro with a razor. Hardest part is the saggy, wrinkly balls.
 #126 
Old 2007-05-14, 00:13
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Some of you are just putting the pussy on the pedestal.
 #127 
Old 2007-05-14, 03:29
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I still don't know how hair can be gross.

Either shut the fuck up, deal with the pubic hair because you like the girl, and it's obviously not important to her to shave, ask her to shave and live happily with her if she does, or leave her and find someone else who is more willing to accommodate your needs.

If it really grosses you out and you want her to shave, and she really won't, then you guys are obviously incompatable some how.
 #128 
Old 2007-05-14, 05:08
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I still don't know how hair can be gross.

http://laughwithresearchowl.files.wordpress.com/2006/07/hairy-man.jpg

How many fucking times do I have to post this picture?
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Old 2007-05-14, 05:10
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I still don't know how hair can be gross.

My theory tends to involve this middle-school lad trying to deny that he prefers, to infinite degree, that the females he is involved with not have secondary sexual characteristics.

I mean... sure, "shaved or not shaved" is a minor matter of preference, but profound and lasting nausea, well...

..."how," you ask? Well... ask what your response would be if you reached down on a beautiful woman and grabbed a thick, sweaty cock. Totally pre-op. Yeah...

...so, my theory is that, while the kid's still in middle school, he's still faking it and trying to stay in denial... "the twelve year olds in my class are hot, but only if they shave" sorta thing. Denial, of course, starts working less and less when the people in your class are no longer, well, twelve.

Could be wrong... but mostly speaking, yeah, it's just a natural phase of self-discovery that all 50 year old men who beat off to felonious pics of 4yos go through. Sorta warms my heart to see a young man, blossoming, slowly discovering his sexual orientation.

I believe it is our duty to love and accept him as he stumbles through the process of discovering himself, as so many before him have done.

Then again, I could be talking out my ass. Either way, eh... it's all good.
 #130 
Old 2007-05-14, 05:29
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i had sex with MY First black girl a few months back,uhhh, and she wasnt really shaved and uhhhh ha i hate you alcohol
 #131 
Old 2007-05-14, 07:02
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Geez.
I read through this whole thread and now,
well I don't know what to say really.
Bear in mind how difficult it is to shave down there ¬¬ there's lots of places to get to that are inaccessible without like... sitting on a mirror...I've found it can be a bit tricky. I shave it when I feel like it, but how much I take off varies. I actually like having a little fuzz sometimes; but I'm not trying to attract teenage boys. Except on myself before I shaved (and even then, I only had a tiny clump of wringlets), I've probably never been face to face with a fully furry cunny, and I can see that, having been raised on cheap porn, and having female friends who shave, it'd be a new experience. But personally, I'd find it more exciting for it being exotic.
Yet I do understand why it might freak some guys out.
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Old 2007-05-14, 13:32
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I have never run into more blatant hypocrites in my entire life. You wont even get a full, detailed response, since you seem to have even forgotten what you are arguing about.

Asking if I am metrosexual? Ya, that has any effect what so ever on the topic at hand. And just because you don't believe something, isn't an argument. On the internet, unless something is completely way off base of reality, you have to base your arguments off the fact that everything the other person says is true(as far as personal experiences).

Bringing incest into the mix? If anything, I was absolutely disgusted by the lack of hair, because it allowed me to see details of the vagina I didn't want to on my family members. I was raised in a normal household. You are assuming that I am the one with the problem. Maybe its the type of household YOU were raised in, that is the problem. You are believing too strongly in your own views, that you feel the need to push them onto other people.

Every girl who I know who shaves, which is about 20~ odd girls, says it is just a flip of the razor when they are in the bath.

The bottom line is, you are a disgusting slob. If that works for your lifestyle, great, but it doesn't work for mine. I LIKE putting time into getting ready. I enjoy looking in the mirror at the final product and being impressed with myself. Who the fuck are you to judge me for that and say it is wrong?

As rabbitweed implied, you are nothing more than a waste of fucking time and forum space. Your bullshit doesn't deserve any more responses. You have shown yourself repeatedly to be a closed minded fucktard who only thinks his dirty little lifestyle is the right lifestyle. I feel sorry for anyone who listens to you with an impressionable mind. The world would be a better place without you in it.

Ya know Street it probably is best that you walk away from this thread, because the more you post the sillier you are looking. Just look at your feeble digs trying to call me "close minded". Ummmmm, excuse me....but aren't I the one saying "bald, trimmed, hairy, sasquatch, who cares...whatever makes the girl comfortable"???? And then its you demanding...."bald pussy or no pussy at all, yuck, gross, ewww, nasty if it has hair on it". And you have the audacity to call ME close minded? ROLFMFAO! Ok, your logic makes COMPLETE SENSE!!!!!

One thing I find extremely interesting about this thread after several days and 100+ replies is how few people are agreeing with you. ESPECIALLY the women of Totse, and I haven't seen even ONE make the claims of "shaving my crotch is easy, swipe swipe....all gone". Yet here you are stating that 20 or so women in your life make it seem as easy as putting on a pair of velcro shoes. Nope, all I see is a small handful of posters that agree with your definition of "gross" and "easy maintenance" (all male) and everyone else just scoffing at the fact you need to grow up and get over this whole thing.

You are right that asking if you are a metrosexual really has no relevance to this discussion. Truth be told, the only reason for my question is to get a few more hearty lulz at your expense. Now granted you never did answer the question....but considering you just admitted that you spend significant time in front of a mirror, I'd think its safe to say you are somewhere being between either a metrosexual or a cock sucking faggot still coming to terms with your sexuality. And see this is where it gets profoundly funny. On one hand you are this real badass, the destroyer of all things that cross your path. Yet on the other hand, you primp and pretty yourself just to walk out the door. I can see it now.....good old Street making his way through the mean streets of his town.....

StreetJusticeForAll: "Hey you, FUCKTARD! How dare you cross my path and give me such a glare. Don't you know who I am? I'm StreetJusticeForAll The Destroyer! I have a good mind to teach you a lesson!

Innocent Citizen: "Ummmm, ok whatever you wannabe Ken Doll. You wanna fight? Lets go!

StreetJusticeForAll: "Ok, then....first just give me a minute to take off my brand new Tommy Hilfinger shirt I just bought a couple of days ago, because I certainly wouldn't want to soil it. Come to think of it I just got a manicure a couple of days ago, so I probably won't be throwing any punches at you. And on that note, I ask you don't take any head shots at me since I just spent an hour getting my hair juuussssssst right.

*Innocent citizen tapping his foot while the compulsive Street is going through all of this.*

StreetJusticeForAll: "Alright tough guy, let's..........OMG! Look at the time! I have to run!!!! There is a huge sale at Ambercrombie's at the mall and I absolutely can't miss it! You are one lucky bastard that I don't have the time to wipe the street with you. I'll get you next tiiimmmmmmeeeeeeeee.......

ROFLMFAO!!!!!!

Oh and one last thing Street, since no one else has told you yet. That picture you keep posting to show your example of "disgusting and hairy". That happens to be a DUDE! Now granted, since there is a strong chance you are struggling so badly with your sexuality you may not have noticed that....but just to offer you a friendly little reminder here: We are talking about WOMEN and GIRLS here....not guys! I realize you aren't willing to take the time or effort to explore a hairy cooch on a gal, but in case you didn't know they do NOT have a cock and balls hiding down there. Only here to help ya Street.....
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Old 2007-05-14, 17:43
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I've been dating this girl for a couple of weeks, and last night for the first time we started to mess around. I hit the lights and took off her pants. I reached down... and felt hair. It was really aqward for me. I've never dated a girl that wasn't shaved down there. The point is, I don't like it, and personally, it makes me want to puke just thinking about it right now. How can I bring up the subject and tell her how i feel about it without making her feel uncomfortable?

Thanks in advance...


Are you a pussy?

Geeze, you sound like this freshman kid I know who blew his first chance to get laid because the girl was a "wookie" as he called it. "Oh, I shouldn't have to shave, but she should!"

If you can drive through mud, yo ucan drive through blood! And hair too! Man up and go for it.
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Old 2007-05-15, 01:55
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Oh and one last thing Street, since no one else has told you yet. That picture you keep posting to show your example of "disgusting and hairy". That happens to be a DUDE! Now granted, since there is a strong chance you are struggling so badly with your sexuality you may not have noticed that....but just to offer you a friendly little reminder here: We are talking about WOMEN and GIRLS here....not guys! I realize you aren't willing to take the time or effort to explore a hairy cooch on a gal, but in case you didn't know they do NOT have a cock and balls hiding down there. Only here to help ya Street.....

LOL

I was going to say something about that being a guy in the picture, but...I didn't want to seem like I was being mean to him or something. It IS so funny, though, that he keeps posting that picture of a GUY.
 #135 
Old 2007-05-15, 03:19
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LOL

I was going to say something about that being a guy in the picture, but...I didn't want to seem like I was being mean to him or something. It IS so funny, though, that he keeps posting that picture of a GUY.

So you guys think hairy woman are sexier than hairy men? This really does perplex me now. The picture was posted in response to the question "how is hair nasty?", that was my answer. Xiao, do you shave your armpits or legs ever?

I have to ask, do you guys believe you are actually intelligent? Your arguments and apparent comprehension of mine and others posts rival that of a 12 year old. You are taking things for face value only, word for word, instead of the bigger picture.

Totse is supposed to be a place for us to learn, and have intelligent conversations. Some people are generally smart on this forum, mostly the 18-25 , and 40+ year olds. Coincidentally, or not, you guys happen to fit into the group of people who think they are smarter than the rest of us, but really can't form reasonable sentences or arguments.

Your posts center squarely on your own personal experiences, and you apply them to the rest of the world. This is where racism, sexism, and all other prejudices come from. You think we are being sexist or something from wanting our woman to shave, but we aren't. It is a preference, and every one of us is willing to do anything to please our woman. It is not too much to expect a little effort on their part.
 #136 
Old 2007-05-15, 11:10
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-Get her pissed/drunk

-Put her in a bag

-Tie it up

-Make sure its tight anough

-Go with her to a place where they give brazilians

-Make them give her the brazilian

-Take her back to your place

-Put her on your bed

-Go to sleep

-Wake up after 6 hours

-Act as normally as you would every day

This is the queerest advice, but there is a 1/10000 chance it could work without any faulties
 #137 
Old 2007-05-15, 12:03
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So you guys think hairy woman are sexier than hairy men? This really does perplex me now. The picture was posted in response to the question "how is hair nasty?", that was my answer. Xiao, do you shave your armpits or legs ever?



I shave my armpits, but to be honest I only shave my legs like once every 3 months. My leg hair grows really slow and it comes in really blonde and fuzzy and there's not all that much of it. I shave when it gets to the point where it would be visible to other people. Women are expected to shave their legs and armpits (right or wrong) and to be honest, having hairy armpits especially would gross me out. What has bothered me about this whole thread is that some people posting here act like women are EXPECTED to shave their genitalia as well. I don't care if a woman does it because she wants to or because she likes it, but I do object to a woman shaving herself there because she is ashamed of the way she looks. I also object to a guy who compares a woman's small patch of pubic hair to the freakishly hairy picture of a MAN that you keep posting. That hairy man is gross because he is a freak of nature. I don't generally do any type of pubic hair grooming and mine is naturally confined to the area just around my vulva. I think my hair is pretty standard as far as women go, so how can you even compare it to that hairy man? You're just being rediculous when you do that.Roll Eyes (Sarcastic)
 #138 
Old 2007-05-15, 15:19
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I shave my armpits, but to be honest I only shave my legs like once every 3 months. My leg hair grows really slow and it comes in really blonde and fuzzy and there's not all that much of it. I shave when it gets to the point where it would be visible to other people. Women are expected to shave their legs and armpits (right or wrong) and to be honest, having hairy armpits especially would gross me out. What has bothered me about this whole thread is that some people posting here act like women are EXPECTED to shave their genitalia as well. I don't care if a woman does it because she wants to or because she likes it, but I do object to a woman shaving herself there because she is ashamed of the way she looks. I also object to a guy who compares a woman's small patch of pubic hair to the freakishly hairy picture of a MAN that you keep posting. That hairy man is gross because he is a freak of nature. I don't generally do any type of pubic hair grooming and mine is naturally confined to the area just around my vulva. I think my hair is pretty standard as far as women go, so how can you even compare it to that hairy man? You're just being rediculous when you do that.Roll Eyes (Sarcastic)

And you just showed yourself to be a hypocrite. Firstly, nobody said we need the full deal completely shaved. Maybe you don't grow as much hair as the woman we have been with. You are making expectations based on your own personal experiences, as I said before, and applying it to all woman. This doesn't work. What if I told you, that every woman I have slept with had full thick, dark hair from bellybutton to asscrack? Then she is a freak of nature too? What a horrible thing to say. It is just a little hair. The girl herself is perfectly normal.
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Old 2007-05-15, 16:57
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So you guys think hairy woman are sexier than hairy men? This really does perplex me now....

...well, the "shocking expose" the local news station ran did say there were all sorts of hard-to-believe fetish communities on 'teh internets'...
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Old 2007-05-15, 18:09
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So you guys think hairy woman are sexier than hairy men? This really does perplex me now. The picture was posted in response to the question "how is hair nasty?", that was my answer. Xiao, do you shave your armpits or legs ever?

I have to ask, do you guys believe you are actually intelligent? Your arguments and apparent comprehension of mine and others posts rival that of a 12 year old. You are taking things for face value only, word for word, instead of the bigger picture.

Totse is supposed to be a place for us to learn, and have intelligent conversations. Some people are generally smart on this forum, mostly the 18-25 , and 40+ year olds. Coincidentally, or not, you guys happen to fit into the group of people who think they are smarter than the rest of us, but really can't form reasonable sentences or arguments.

Your posts center squarely on your own personal experiences, and you apply them to the rest of the world. This is where racism, sexism, and all other prejudices come from. You think we are being sexist or something from wanting our woman to shave, but we aren't. It is a preference, and every one of us is willing to do anything to please our woman. It is not too much to expect a little effort on their part.

Street, your idiocy is increasing more and more with every post. How the hell is Xaio a hypocrite, when it is YOU that is going on and on posting a post of a MAN as an example of how "awful" a woman's hairy crotch is????

And your post above makes absolutely ZERO SENSE. You are claiming because of our life experiences we have PREJUDICE in our mindset? Dude, how completely STUPID are you? WE are the ones that are being TOLERANT and UNDERSTANDING of people's choices in regard to their pubic hair maintenance. And it is YOU that is completely INTOLERANT of those that are not falling in line with the very narrow standard you are trying to accomplish. Yet here you are trying to imply that WE are the ones with prejudice. Sorry bub, but it is YOU that is practicing your own form of prejudice....I guess you started a new trend, we could call it "hairyism".

And again, one last time questioning your very immature mindset of "when you love someone you do whatever it takes to make them happy". Answer this very simple question for me if you are so convinced that is a sound way to develop and nurture relationships. Here is scenario for you....

2 people fall in love. Months go by and finally take their physical intimacy further. The guy doesn't like pubic hair on a woman, yet the woman is not comfortable shaving. So with your logic of "do WHATEVER it takes to make your partner happy".....who wins out on this note?

Cue the fuckin crickets for any REASONABLE response from Street........
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Old 2007-05-15, 19:14
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Street, your idiocy is increasing more and more with every post. How the hell is Xaio a hypocrite, when it is YOU that is going on and on posting a post of a MAN as an example of how "awful" a woman's hairy crotch is????

And your post above makes absolutely ZERO SENSE. You are claiming because of our life experiences we have PREJUDICE in our mindset? Dude, how completely STUPID are you? WE are the ones that are being TOLERANT and UNDERSTANDING of people's choices in regard to their pubic hair maintenance. And it is YOU that is completely INTOLERANT of those that are not falling in line with the very narrow standard you are trying to accomplish. Yet here you are trying to imply that WE are the ones with prejudice. Sorry bub, but it is YOU that is practicing your own form of prejudice....I guess you started a new trend, we could call it "hairyism".

And again, one last time questioning your very immature mindset of "when you love someone you do whatever it takes to make them happy". Answer this very simple question for me if you are so convinced that is a sound way to develop and nurture relationships. Here is scenario for you....

2 people fall in love. Months go by and finally take their physical intimacy further. The guy doesn't like pubic hair on a woman, yet the woman is not comfortable shaving. So with your logic of "do WHATEVER it takes to make your partner happy".....who wins out on this note?

Cue the fuckin crickets for any REASONABLE response from Street........

Ok, I will give you one last response, then I am done. You are in a league well below me, and simply a waste of my time. As I told you before, it is your comprehension skills which bring you down.

Where did I post a picture of a hairy main as an example of a womans crotch? The person asked me, how can hair be nasty? They didn't specifically ask about womans hair, they asked about hair in general. Xiao even agreed, that man was a freak of nature, proving my point that hair can be nasty.

You are not being tolerant and understanding. If you were, than you would let us dislike hairy crotches, and want them to be shaved. You personally do not mind them, so you think everyone that does is wrong. I am not intolerant of people who chose not to shave, I just would much much much rather they did. I will be turned off by it, and thus have a terrible sex life and relationship in general.

Your scenario isn't important, since this whole thread is about ASKING the girl to shave it. What would I, and most others in this thread do? Deal with it for a while, but again, the relationship wouldn't last. Simple as that. If you have a bad sex life, your relationship is destined to fail. I can't force myself to be turned on when I am not. That is an impossibility.

And if they are in a relationship that takes months to progress to sex, they are probably some kind of mormons anyways. Who doesn't fuck within the first month these days? We in this thread want good, hot, hairless sex to be satisfied. If we don't get it, we will move on. She has every right to decline, and we have every right to walk away from a dead end relationship.

You can not compare physical changes to emotional ones, which was the case in your scenario.

Edit: I realize you will come back with saying something like "But she isn't comfortable, that is emotional change!" But the root of the change is physical, which is the point.
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Old 2007-05-15, 21:36
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off topic question, but should guys shave their hair? or at least trim it? or is it better to leave it untouched?
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Old 2007-05-16, 22:53
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Quote:
Originally Posted by buc33s
off topic question, but should guys shave their hair? or at least trim it? or is it better to leave it untouched?


Trim it.
 
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