So i recently broke up with my girlfriend. I did it because she has some emotional issues (That i didnt care about). However when we ended up fighting she would hurt herself in some way. I just couldnt stand the guilt brought on by that and worry about it might getting worse so i decided to try and break up with her. Shes got herself into therepy and is gonna try her hardest to work on herself. Even if it ends up happening again i can forgive it. However im still wondering if i should go back to her or not. I figured id ask my Totse family.

Ive made a chart (i know its kinda lame). But here it is. It looks like a erowid effect list but review it and tell me what you think. Sorry for spelling

STAY

Positives
-Ill have someone
-Someone to care for
-someone to care for me
-Help me when im deppressed the way only Women can
-Beautiful Girl
-Great Sex
-Something to look forward to
-Never Loanly
-Someone to Take places
-alot in comon with
-No time for WoW addiction

Negatives

-Not enough Alone time on Cirtain days
-Too much arguing at times when feeling deppressed
-Not enough time for Counterstrike or Homework
-Too much time needed when other things going on
-Possible unnecessary worry or anger
-Worry about getting pregnant
-Low cash
-Possible Not enough cash
-arguing
-Sacrifice
-Self change needed to work out
-Increased difficulty to forgive self for leaving in first place
- Worry about Emotional Scars that may or may not exist on her (From break up)

LEAVE

Positives

-Much more Free time
-More money
-Free To browse and check out other women
-Opertunity to get girl with slightly less emotional drama
-More time/money for Spiritual Growth and Acid/mushies
-TIme for Friends and "Dudes Night out"!
-No one to smoke all the weed
-Relaxing time easier
-Increased Focus on school

Negatives

-Increased Anxiety
-Possibility of Too much weed
-HPPD worse from increase in psycadelics
-Being alone
-Deppression amplified on bad days
-Feeling of Giving up on life
-Missing My girlfriend
-Minor guilt for leaving and effects that happened from leaving
-Anger Brought on by seeing other guys with Old girl

It sounds like you lean on her too much. In all the positives you listed, not once did you actually say anything positive about her as a woman, just that's she's a warm body that will help you.

Oh and let me be the first to pedantically correct your title, should be 'woman' not 'women';)

You're an idiot.

Either marry her or leave her, stop living in sin!

I laughed so hard.

I laughed so hard.

Its a tough decision for me man! :D


But anyway any advice would be appreciated. However i think ive decided to give her another shot.

Sometimes you have to put yourself first and just walk away, even if it's the more difficult choice.

As rabbitweed pointed out, it sounds like you just want someone, anyone.

Positive

Use a condom to not get her pregnant

Negetive

Work on your spelling