Is there any advice the male population of totse could give on how women should behave the first time. I'm about 90% sure I will this weekend, and have nfi outside of the biological basics.

Spreading her legs is always a sign.

Wow, maybe take the time to read all two lines of her post before replying?

To the OP, if it's his first time too, remember he'll likely be nervous, so don't leave him with all the work. If it's not his first time, remember to relax and try not to be too tense.

If you want to not only participate but enjoy it then you need to take charge. Control the depth and speed of his penetrating you.

Don't even think about 'trying it' unless he's got your knickers soaked.

Remember it isn't supposed to be PAINFUL + BUCKETS OF BLOOD your first time. The horror stories you've heard are true but mainly because the girls let the man control it.

You may be lucky and he knows what he's doing but most men and almost any virgin boy won't.

Oh and if it is hurting too much then STOP. Just say sorry, tell him its hurting and it shouldn't and finish him off with a bj.

Jackketch is right, if it hurts STOP.

Unless of course pain is your 'thang' then the correct response is "OMG yes Master, harder, punish me mooooreee, I'm such a dirty slut and i need it "

Ok now seriously, IF something is good or GOOD even, if he's doing something right , then do for god's sake TELL him.

I still think the way I lost my virginity is the best. He put it in once and popped my cherry. I made him stop and the next time I had sex it was smooth sailin' with no blood or pain. I don't think I would've enjoyed it very much if I would have continued.

Don't be too worried about how the other person is perceiving you. Losing your virginity is the beginning of your sex life, just sit back and enjoy the commencement.

be calm, be caring and be vocal (not just moaning) ask questions about5 what he likes and about what you want him to do, over 50% of sexual experiences are ruined by lack of communication

I still think the way I lost my virginity is the best. He put it in once and popped my cherry. I made him stop and the next time I had sex it was smooth sailin' with no blood or pain. I don't think I would've enjoyed it very much if I would have continued.

That is how I lost mine, with me being the male, both of us virgins. I got a very small amount of my penis in, but technically, thats our virginities lost.

Be comfortable with the guy. Talk openly about your penises and vaginas. You can say cock and pussy if you want, I guess.

Grab his cock. There is no fucking way he will be able to tell if it is in the right spot, if you guys are doing missionary. You have to hold it, and put it against your cunt, and either tell him to push gently, or you push it inside slowly.

I can not possibly stress that point enough. Until a girl is a seasoned pro who is soaking wet, I am scared shitless that I wont have it lined up properly when I start to push.

If I were you, and I was comfortable with the guy, I would finger myself a bit first off, to help the juices flowing and loosen it up. I am not a girl, I dont have a vagina, but that is what I would do. It is also sexy as hell for the guy to see.

Warn him before hand, that you will probably tell him to stop suddenly. Tell him "If I tell you to stop, don't be scared. It just takes time for a girl to be ready" or something like that. Blow jobs are yucky, but if you are down, definitely suck him off. If you dont like them, at least give him a jerk so he can cum. If you don't, he will develop blue balls, which are painful.

Keep extra pad/tampons by your bed, and a towel underneath you, just in case you are a bleeder, which you probably will be.

Do not be embarrassed about anything. If he is a decent guy, he will want to help you in any way possible, even when you just want him to turn around and not look at you.

If you guys can say the words "I got these extra tampons here so that after I lose it, I dont wreck my panties with blood" , and he responds "Oh, good idea" in all seriousness, you may just be ready to lose it.

Edit:

Not to forget the basics:
Are you on the pill? Use condoms anyways.
Putting a condom on can be very casual, just as getting undressed. I accidentally put the condom on upside down last time, and just chucked it against my wall and grabbed another. I would strip completely naked before even climbing into the bed.

If you take it to serious, you will be stressing out the entire time, making it harder to actually get his penis inside of you. If you guys can laugh about it, during the whole time, it will be so much easier. It isn't going to be like in the movies. It's going to be 20 minutes of preparing for 10 seconds of awkwardness, and another 10 minutes of cleanup.

Have fun with it.

I still think the way I lost my virginity is the best. He put it in once and popped my cherry. I made him stop and the next time I had sex it was smooth sailin' with no blood or pain. I don't think I would've enjoyed it very much if I would have continued.



i'm sorry thats cute and everything but if a girl told me to pull out right after i popped her cherry, and i got nothing but blueballs i would be pissed, and least a courtesy bj is in order

Blow jobs are yucky

you are a guy and you think blow jobs are yucky???? you are either fucking 7 years old or you deserve you cock cut off by Mrs. lorraine bobbit

be calm, be caring and be vocal (not just moaning) ask questions about5 what he likes and about what you want him to do, over 50% of sexual experiences are ruined by lack of communication

I don't think any virgin girl should give a shit what he like likes. This is all about the girl.

Make him give you a lickout before hand.

you are a guy and you think blow jobs are yucky???? you are either fucking 7 years old or you deserve you cock cut off by Mrs. lorraine bobbit

Are you a guy? Would you put a cock in your mouth? I wouldn't. Blow jobs are fucking gross. Cocks are nasty. If I were a chick, I would laugh at any guy who expected one.

the first time WILL hurt. no doubt. you may even bleed a little. as a man who lost his virginity to a virgin, i can say that being vocal is very important. let him take control but definitely let him know how you feel the whole way thru.

Why would you recommend letting the guy take control? I think that is too much pressure on the guy to do things right, when he has no idea wtf is happening, and too risky for the girl, who has to deal with the pain.

We also have no idea how big her boys cock is. It could be 12 inches hard, and letting him take control would absolutely destroy her vag.

I am assuming the guy isnt a virgin.

Also, being very vocal would likely prevent too much pain and allow more comfort for both.

i'm sorry thats cute and everything but if a girl told me to pull out right after i popped her cherry...

Do you know what the hymenal membrane is?

It is the remnants of the abdominal wall left behind when the vaginal tube connects with the vulva.

Did you know that most males also have a gap in muscle tissue between the scrotum and the anus, where the vaginal canal would have been if they had developed as female? Yup, that's right - a little soft spot sandwitched between the prostate 'n the rectal sphincter... great stuff.

That's right, folks - a signifigant enough blunt-force trauma can technically tear the man-hymen.

Now - pop your man-cherry and enjoy the pain and blood, or quit yer bitchin'.

'n, uhh - pics or it didn't happen. :p

just go with the flow, your actions will be determined by what the dood does.

Did you know that most males also have a gap in muscle tissue between the scrotum and the anus, where the vaginal canal would have been if they had developed as female? Yup, that's right - a little soft spot sandwitched between the prostate 'n the rectal sphincter... great stuff.

This is the single scariest, most educational thing I have ever read in my life.

This is the single scariest, most educational thing I have ever read in my life.

QFMFT :(

sorry about lack of updates, isp's been down...again. unfortunately, hes been hospitalised after passing out repeatedly, so it looks like nothings happening for quite awhile. :(

The thought of finally having you was just too much excitement for him?

:P

Are you a guy? Would you put a cock in your mouth? I wouldn't. Blow jobs are fucking gross. Cocks are nasty. If I were a chick, I would laugh at any guy who expected one.

yeah i'm a guy, and i love blowjobs. i would never give one myself. but there are times when i'd rather have a girl suck me off then have sex.


I don't think any virgin girl should give a shit what he like likes. This is all about the girl.

i'm not saying she has to focus all on the guy, i'm just saying that sex is a two way street you have to give some and recieve some to make it worth while.

yeah i'm a guy, and i love blowjobs. i would never give one myself.

I don't understand. You love blowjobs, but you would never give one? That doesn't really make sense to me.

I don't understand. You love blowjobs, but you would never give one? That doesn't really make sense to me.

Perhaps because he's heterosexual.

Perhaps because he's heterosexual.

That is beside the point. You don't need sexual attraction towards someone to do something one time. Does he jerk off, probably. Does that make him gay? Would he suck himself off? Does he swallow his own cum?

That is beside the point. You don't need sexual attraction towards someone to do something one time. Does he jerk off, probably. Does that make him gay? Would he suck himself off? Does he swallow his own cum?

I don't see how it's beside the point. Just because you like getting head doesn't mean you should be willing to suck a dick. I wouldn't (well... maybe, I guess), but it's not the fact that it's a penis per se that would put me off, it's the fact that it's another guy and I'd prefer not to have another man's dick in my mouth.

I don't see how it's beside the point. Just because you like getting head doesn't mean you should be willing to suck a dick. I wouldn't (well... maybe, I guess), but it's not the fact that it's a penis per se that would put me off, it's the fact that it's another guy and I'd prefer not to have another man's dick in my mouth.

What if you met a really hot woman, who defied science and had a fully operational penis, which shot big loads of salty cum. Would you suck that? Well, to be honest, if she really was without a doubt a woman, I might :( But I still think any cock, including my own, attached to a man is disgusting to put in your mouth. I wouldn't expect any woman to do it, but I am very very happy when they do.

Streetjustice or whatever the fuck you like to call yourself, you sir, are a douche. Go on, take that literally, because knowing your stupidity, you will....


Man hymen ftw?

But I still think any cock, including my own, attached to a man is disgusting to put in your mouth. I wouldn't expect any woman to do it, but I am very very happy when they do.

SOMEONE'S never tried yoga.

SOMEONE'S never tried yoga.

I do yoga every night. How does this correspond to me not liking semen squirting appendages?

If you do yoga every night, you've attempted to suck your own dick. So what if you got a little semen in your eye, it happens with the best of us.

so guys only do yoga with the intent of learning how to perform autofalatio? :( :( :(

Like kris kirpatrick, youre gonna get your ass kicked, worse than those middle limp bizkit bastards.

Wait until marriage!

Wait until marriage!
try before you buy.

try before you buy.

and then try again