...she was dancing with her friend's date at prom and thought that he was "sooooo" hot?

I just felt a little jealous when she mentioned it, but is it normal for her to mention more than a few times?

I don't know, maybe it's just me and it's nothing to worry about.

Comments?

She's trying to get your jealous.

Depends on how serious you guys are and wether or not you care about that sort of stuff, but...

its a guy should could potentially be seeing instead of you (so its not like her saying, oh brad pitt is soo hot, or whatever). Personally that sorta thing doesn't fly with me. Unless you make a habit of pointing out hot girls (in which case she sorta has the right to say something like that) you should tell her how it is. In other words, tell her to cut the shit.

Most likely, she is just making an off-handed remark, which you shouldn't take personally. Is her friend really good looking? Better looking then your girlfriend?

She was probably just doing girl-talk with you, because she feels so comfortable around you. The thing is, if she really did have the hots for the guy, and wanted to get with him, what can you do about it?

Would you dump your girl, if she said the guy was better looking than you? She is still dating you, and until she says she is unhappy with you, you risk losing a great girl over nothing.

Just look your best that you can, that is all you can do. She might not even be into looks for dating. She may just like eye candy, but would never date him.

Don't stress it. If she dumps you, you will know why, and aim for less attractive girls, or girls who dig your personality more.

Wind her up about it in a really cocky tone.

What I'd do is grab her by the hips and look her in the eyes and be all like "Is someone trying to make me jealous?"

The ballsyness of it all will make her forget him and she'll be sucking your dick in no-time.

Is she serious when she says it?

The way I look at it, you have three options:

1. She's just trying to make you jealous. Be playful and call her on it.

2. She's testing you to see what she can get away with. Call her on this as well.

3. She's trying to sabotage the relationship (either intentionally or unintentionally). Consider ending it.

I had a problem similar to this because my girlfriend knew i was bisexual, so she thought it was ok to call her guy friends 'fit' in front of me. I called her up on it and told her that if we're going to be going out, then she couldnt just say random things like that, because i am somewhat lowered of my self esteem when she says things like that.

In your case it sounds like she's trying to make you jelous, or trying to sabtage the relationship.

I would vote that she just feels comfortable around you, enough to tell you that. If she really was interested with him, my guess is she wouldn't say anything to you about him being hot...
It shouldn't have to be a secret if she thinks another guy is attractive, it is bound to happen and it doesn't really mean anything.
Obviously if she starts ditching you to go hang out with him or something there could be a problem...

Either she's trying to make you jealous, or she just doesnt care/respect you and wants you to know that a breakup is around the corner.

No she succeeded, present tense please!

Grow up and move on!

I doubt it's that subliminal... She could just be telling you about a hot guy she saw. I mean, if she trusts you and your relationship enough not to pretend that you're the only attractive male in existance (which is hard for some reason) than its probably just that. Would your girl find it odd/be suspicious if you said "I saw a really hot girl today" or the like?

Generally, no. Passing comments are okay.

.but is it normal for her to mention more than a few times?
Comments?

No.

its obviously a playing hard to get move on you if youve ever gave a sign that you like her, shes trying to make you try harder. Personally i fight fire with fire when this happens, and act "whatever"'ish like i dont give a shit. Then the girl tried hard to impress YOU. I hate when girls play hard to get, makes them seem so up themselves.

BUT if you two are just friends, then shes not doin anythin, just...bein a friend. Friends always tell eachother who they think is hot etc.

Don't stand for it.

No way, Jose.

Fuck that shit. Regardless of if she thinks a guy is hot, she's with you. She shouldnt be dancing with anyone else, and she should realise that making comments like that is only going to hurt you.

To hell with that bitch. Find a girl that isnt going to act like a bitch in heat with every guy she meets.

Maybe it's her way of telling you to....look better?

No offense intended but maybe shes just telling you that she finds that guy attractive and you need to step it up on the "Hotness" scale.

Or she just wanted rough aggressive sex after the dance and keeps saying it because you haven't manned up yet and fucked her brains out.

Good god, this is the BEST suggestion in the entire thread.

Yeah - she's trying to make you jealous.

Call her on it, and say something unexpected and funny.

"Mabey you two should date for a while"
"You two would make a good couple"
"You want me to ask him out for you?"
"Thats cool - I think your sisters arse is pretty firm."

Then let her think for a while about wether you are serious or not.

This is basically what a couple of people have already said - call her on it, and raise the stakes a little. She won't know what to do......

...she was dancing with her friend's date at prom and thought that he was "sooooo" hot?


1) why were you not at prom with her
2) why was she with this oter guy
3) why is it coming up "more than a few times"

if you dont have a REAL good answer for those, you might want to consider action.

Just tell her how SMOKIN' HOT her friend is, and maybe even hit on her some. Maybe then your girl will wise up and knock it off.

She's only said it once like that but I honestly think she's trying to play hard to get. How should I bring this when we're on the phone? Keep in mind that our prom is in two weeks which means anything that happens now will also happen DURING prom. I just don't want to ruin me and her night.

Max Klinger, I wasn't at prom with her because it was her high school prom. We don't go to the same high school but we're only 10 minutes apart. And also she's going to mine in two weeks.

I'm definitely be honest and just tell her, perferably after prom because right now we're just... not as close.

Shes making you jealous or trying to make you not like her to reduce damage when she dumps you in the near future. So your best bet is to start paying more attention and hope shes making you jealous. If it was me though I would have replied instantly with something like "Hmm, well he must not be that hot in the pants, because I fucked <insert friends name> last night and her pussy was tighter than a malnourished 8 year olds". It probably would have ended the relationship, but then again I don't like bitches that try to blatantly manipulate me.

If this is the case then she was just trying to make you jelous. You didn't call her on it, that's not good. But letting it continue to bug you now is only going to make it worse.

The best thing to do now is pretend like it didn't happen. If she brings it up again you know what to do. Otherwise, leave it be and keep doing whatever it was that made her like you in the first place.

I wouldn't put up with it.

I like women that try to blatantly manipulate me...I turn it around on them and have my way for a couple months then move on. Playing dumb can get you just about anything...if you really are just playing. :)

Some of you may have noticed a major change in my posting style from Feb-March...'twas all for a purpose. :P

If this is the case then she was just trying to make you jelous. You didn't call her on it, that's not good. But letting it continue to bug you now is only going to make it worse.

The best thing to do now is pretend like it didn't happen. If she brings it up again you know what to do. Otherwise, leave it be and keep doing whatever it was that made her like you in the first place.

Best plan. Bringing it up now would only make you look like an insecure bitch

I just tell them, "Really? Well, I think [name of girl] is really hot." I take the conversation as far as she's willing to go. Sometimes they'll keep going, and sometimes they'll get mad and start asking about the girl I'm talking about. Depending on how crazy the girl is, the conversation might start getting really really weird/awkward...

Another one is if they start describing sexual things they've done to guys in the past, I'll start talking about certain sexual things girls have done to me in the past and when they start to feel uncomfortable and tell me to stop, then I say "Well, then quit talking about it!!"